1, reflect on your words and deeds and be a qualified parent. When there are communication barriers between parents and children, parents should first reflect on themselves, and whether there are inappropriate words and behaviors in their lives, which hinder the further communication between children and you. Here you can refer to the "Ten Good Habits of Good Parents" put forward by Gu Xiaoming, a family education tutor, as an example for learning.

2. Ensure communication time and provide equal communication space. Parents can't use busyness as an excuse to ignore communication with their children. Most parents of high school students have entered the development period or peak period of their careers and are the backbone or leaders of the unit. They are busy with work at work and socializing after work, so they have no more time to spend on their children. In particular, some parents think that they can't help their children academically, so they hand over all the responsibilities of educating their children to schools and teachers.

3. Master communication methods and broaden communication topics. Communicating with children is a science, and it is necessary for parents to master certain communication methods. Parents should observe and study their children carefully. Children have different psychological development characteristics at different ages, so family education must be carried out according to their physical and mental development characteristics. Change "I say" to "I listen" and listen carefully to the children's voices.

When listening, you should keep a high degree of concentration, let your child feel your concern and respect, affirm what your child says is reasonable through language, eyes or posture, don't rush to correct your child's wrong views, don't interrupt your child's speech, and understand the prejudice or misunderstanding that your child may have because of his limited age and expressive ability and his inability to accurately express his inner thoughts.