When the child did something wrong, he said, "Tell the police uncle to take you away." Children will doubt that they are a bad boy and hold their heads up in front of others. The correct way of education is to correct and praise children in time.

Overclaim

"Hurry up!" "Hurry up, mom is going to work." In fact, it is not his fault that the baby is slow to respond. He doesn't know why he wants to be quick. "Do better!" In the eyes of the baby, his work may have been done perfectly, but in the eyes of the mother, it still doesn't meet the requirements. The correct way of education is to understand children's abilities, and not to ask too much.

Deny the baby's personality

"I'm bored to death, go and play by yourself!" "Stupid!" "How can you be so stupid!" Mothers often use the standards of older children to measure their baby's behavior. The correct way of education is patient guidance, not scolding.

Affect children's trust in their mothers.

I don't want you! "Give it to you!" "If you don't eat well, your mother won't want you and give you to others as a son." This will make the baby wonder why mother doesn't love him. The correct way of education is to let children know that their actions are wrong, but don't let them doubt their maternal love.