First, find the cause of the problem. Parents should learn to find the cause of the problem. Many children are unwilling to listen to their parents' education. It may be because there are problems with parents' education methods, and these problems did not suddenly appear. Therefore, parents must learn to think about how they usually treat their children and how they communicate with them. When we find problems, we can also solve them more pertinently. Many children don't listen to their parents' education because their parents' attitudes and ways of speaking make them feel uncomfortable.
Second, change the way of communication with children In order for children to listen to their parents' education, we must first change the way of communication with children. These communication methods are not only in attitude, but also in words. Many parents will raise their voices when educating their children, but this practice may cause children's disgust. For children, they hope that their parents can communicate with themselves equally, instead of educating or blaming themselves from the perspective of their parents.
In other words, when educating their children, parents can try to communicate as friends, and when communicating with their children, don't often say something that makes them sad. I believe that some parents will be angry when educating their children, saying that they knew there would be no you, or that barbecued pork is better than having you. In fact, most of these words are spoken by parents in anger. This is not the sincerity of parents, but these words are very harmful to children.
Third, learn to control your emotions. In educating children, parents should not only change the way of communication, but also learn to control their emotions. Many parents speak without thinking, or even say it. I will regret it. In fact, this is what many people do when they are angry, so parents should learn to control their emotions when educating their children, instead of contradicting them sentence by sentence. Excessive emotionalization will not help solve the problems of two people, but will intensify contradictions, so in this case, parents can calm their emotions first and then discuss with their children.
Education is not a difficult thing, but parents need to pay more attention to it, so that communication between two people can be more effective and children can listen to their parents more.