There are several methods of psychological suggestion when educating children. Children's mental health has attracted more and more attention from the society, and the intellectual development of infants is very important. Educating a baby requires parents to have good literacy first, and parents and children can't ignore every problem when they grow up. Below I share several psychological suggestion methods available when educating children.

Several psychological suggestion methods available when educating children 1 1, eye suggestion.

After a good meal in the evening, parents are telling stories to their babies. As he spoke, the child's hands became restless and made little moves. At this time, parents do not need to stop telling stories to educate their children. Parents can stare at their children's little hands. In this way, after a period of time, the child can "wake up" and his hands will not move.

Analysis: Eyes are a kind of silent language, and sometimes they can tell others what they think more subtly and clearly than directly. Eye cues mean that you don't need to talk to your baby directly, and then tell your baby what to do through your eyes.

2. Recommendations for action

On Saturday and Sunday, after 9 pm, the baby may still watch TV with relish in front of the TV. In fact, there is no need for mom to tell Bob to go to bed early at this time, which may cause the baby's dissatisfaction.

On the contrary, the mother can say nothing, and then she can stand up and fold the quilt for her child, without watching TV, finishing her work or sleeping. But it doesn't need to say a word, but it tells children from another angle that children will walk into their own rooms under the influence of the environment.

Analysis: Motion suggestion is to show what you want to tell your child with body language, and then educate your child.

When parents help their children with their homework, if the child's sitting posture is not correct for a long time, the best way for parents is to do a few chest movements in front of the child, and then write a word or two like a child to let the child feel these signs, and then the child will learn to react.

Children need the love and care of adults, especially parents often praise his good behavior verbally, and they can also convey their feelings and encouragement to their children by kissing, patting and hugging, so as to build their self-confidence.

Step 3 express suggestions

There are guests at home, children have children to play, and they are so happy that they get carried away. Some children sometimes go crazy. He sometimes laughs, sometimes screams, and sometimes he doesn't care when he sees his parents' eyes. So dad suddenly frowned. Only in this way can children see their parents' expressions, and then their voices are much lower.

Analysis: sometimes expressions can tell each other more clearly about their psychological state than eyes. People's expressions can convey a variety of information, just like you can do this, you can't do this, you can't do this. You can stimulate children and then make them react according to your expression.

Parents should praise the child for doing a good deed and nod their heads. If a child makes a difficult problem through hard work, you will smile knowingly at him, which is a great encouragement to her in the eyes of the child.

4. Verbal hints

Some children don't have the habit of folding quilts after getting up in the morning. Mother and teacher told their children to fold the quilt, but the effect was not satisfactory. So mother took another approach. The mother told the child that she met the mothers of other children downstairs today. Her mother said that the child could be obedient at home and clean the bed every morning.

After listening to his mother's words, the child seems to disagree, but slowly he will learn to fold the quilt by himself.

Analysis: When we say "hint", we just cannot say it directly. Therefore, when praising or criticizing children, we should take a circuitous approach. By comparing hidden things, children will get the message and feel what they should do in a subtle way, without this link, and then feel their mother's expectations.

Several psychological suggestion methods available when educating children II. In family education, psychological suggestion methods are mainly used in five aspects:

1, intelligence education;

2. Non-intellectual and psychological education for the strong;

3. Health education and new concept of health;

4. Moral education;

5. Guidance of comfort state.

These five aspects can let the child enter the good image we designed for him through psychological suggestion. This hint is the simplest method of family education. Psychological suggestion can also be used on parents themselves. In terms of intelligence, children should be convinced that they are smart and creative through hints. In terms of psychological quality, children should be convinced that they are strong, confident, brave and socially adaptable through hints. In terms of health, children should be convinced that they are healthy and will become healthier and healthier. At the same time, make children establish a new concept of "health and glory".

Second, the meaning of children's three age groups:

For children's moral status, I should imply that my children understand right and wrong, are willing to care about others, and have the ability to care about others.

A child's comfortable state can imply that he is interested in learning, has the consciousness and enthusiasm to learn, and is willing to manage his own life. These five tips can be given to children of different ages.

1, the hint of the first age group is prenatal education.

Scientific research shows that everything parents say to the fetus has an impact on the fetus.

Mom and dad can give the fetus such psychological hints: the baby is particularly smart and creative, the baby is particularly strong, the baby is particularly healthy, the baby is a good boy and loves to learn, and so on.

2. The suggestion of the second age group is a hypnotic suggestion to the baby.

When the child is still not quite able to understand, when he is half asleep and half awake, parents will describe him from these five aspects, which is a hint to him. When parents put their children to bed, they can tell him this: the baby is smart, the baby is beautiful, the baby is brave, the baby is generous and the baby is healthy. After waking up, the baby is smarter, healthier and more beautiful.

3. Suggestions for the third age group can be used by children and adults over two years old.

For children who are already sensible, for adults, it is necessary to use the suggestive function of clear language. At the time of suggestion, parents:

(1) The language should be concise, not so long;

(2) The language should be clear and not ambiguous;

(3) Language should be positive, not negative.

The so-called affirmation is that children are smart. If the child is not stupid, it is called looking at it from the opposite side. Cut through the front. For example, if you are a good boy, this is a front cut. Instead of saying that you are not a bad boy, this is called cutting in from the negative. With concise, clear and affirmative language, plus repetition and repetition, a complete psychological hint can be formed for children.