Speaking of children, probably every parent has endless topics. The growth of children has devoted too much effort and love to us. Of course, children have also brought us countless joys. Children are growing up day by day, from babbling and toddlering to today's children, and their changes bring us surprises one by one. In fact, the growth process of children is also the growth process of our parents, and we are constantly learning and making progress in their schools. I really don't know whether we taught the children or the children taught us.

The birth of a child means the beginning of education, which can be divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just care about their children's intellectual development and academic performance. In my opinion, parents should pay attention to: children's physical and mental health education; Emotional education; Social morality; The education of non-intellectual factors such as will quality is family education. Knowledge transfer and intellectual development must be completed by school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they may not know how to solve problems, or even contradict the methods of professional teachers. Therefore, as long as parents do a good job in family education, they will support teachers' work. Below, I will talk about some of my experiences in children's education.

This process is really the condensation of our efforts as parents. There is also a lot of confusion. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.

First, the word "strict" took the lead and seized the critical period of primary school.

Hu Shi, a great scholar, once said, "When a person is young, it is most important. In the future, becoming a great saint, a great hero, a great hero, a great traitor, a great thief and a great thief are all divorced from this kind of family education. " Nowadays, there are more only children in society, family conditions are better, and there are more phenomena of discipline from generation to generation and even asking others to discipline children. In the process of children's growth, many parents often ignore the strict education of their children, "love" and "spoil" their children and spoil them. If they are rude to others, their parents and grandparents should do things for them themselves, talk while doing their homework, or ask an adult to accompany them. For example, among the college students and high school students I know, there have been incidents of asking my parents to cook for me. We should never think that this is a trivial matter. I call it an event because I think such a child is spoiled, selfish and self-centered. No sympathy, no self-care ability, no will to overcome difficulties. Trees are not born straight, but grow into trees with crooked necks.

The purpose of my family's education for children is to let them understand truth and virtue and become a sincere and sincere person. Everything should be guided correctly, so that children can develop the habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality. Children should be trained to think more about the public and try to get rid of selfish ideas. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love the society, honor their parents and respect their teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique.

My family's habit of raising children is strict and lenient. In kindergartens and primary schools, children are obedient, easy to discipline and easy to form good habits. At this time, I am very strict with my son. As long as children form good habits when they are young, they will not be out of line if they are bigger and looser. This is a critical period, and any education has a critical period. It is most effective to cultivate children's behavior habits at this age. If this kind of education is carried out after this age, the effect may be much worse. The primary school stage is the most critical period to establish routine and cultivate good study habits. It is most effective to cultivate all kinds of good habits at this stage. Grasping this link is equivalent to grasping the child's future.