There are too many parents who shield their children and always think that their children are too young to do anything, and what they do is not their own intention, but we will find that these children often do things beyond people's imagination, so we should educate them as soon as possible.
Most children will reach a normal state of intelligence and emotion after 10 years old. If you talk to him, you will feel that the child has obviously grown up, can understand the thinking of adults and has his own opinions.
However, if you think that children are "not sensible" before this, it is wrong. Don't teach until the child is fully sensible. By then, the child has been finalized, and it will be too late to correct it.
The 8-month-old baby began to be conscious.
Some clever babies begin to be conscious when they are eight months old. When you tell your child to hit him, he will immediately slap that person, which shows that the child can understand the words of adults in a specific context, and he will follow your words to make specified actions.
At this time, we began to consciously educate our children. In front of children, the first thing we should do is to have a correct attitude. Children can't communicate. We should teach what we should, not what we shouldn't. At this time, it is easier for children to follow our instructions, so our instructions must be correct, not wrong instructions to mislead children.
One-and-a-half-year-olds can already express their ideas.
Children aged one to one and a half have begun to express their ideas. They will express what they like and dislike. If the pronunciation is unclear, they will express it with their hands. In short, they will tell you what they like and don't like with their own actions and words. At this time, it is necessary to stop some wrong behaviors of children. Children at this stage are imitators. They can imitate adults to walk and learn. Therefore, those wrong behaviors of children must be stopped, and adults had better not do those behaviors that mislead children.
A three-year-old child has a very clear consciousness.
We have really seen a three-year-old child scold an adult. At this time, children will have a clear consciousness and will achieve their goals through their own behavior or abuse. So many old people say that children are old at the age of three, because adults have given them too many demonstrations in the past, which is the wrong demonstration, which has led them to become like this. Three-year-old children are extremely clever, and it is impossible to show wrong ideas and statements in front of them. We will find that children's imitation ability is the strongest at this time, because they have a clear consciousness and a very strong sense of learning, so they will imitate many languages of adults, including behaviors and actions, so the wrong behaviors and actions are the easiest for them to remember, so be sure not to show their wrong ideas and statements in front of children.
Five-year-old children, they begin to form a sense of independence.
Children aged four or five are the most problematic stage. They began to form their own independent consciousness and began to explore the world, so they were curious about everything in this world. And this time is also the most important stage of education, because this time is the first rebellious period of children.
Tell children clearly what to do and what not to do, set rules, and combine rules with truth to educate children. It is precisely because they begin to explore the world and have some resistance to their parents, so at this time you must clearly tell your children where your bottom line is, let them know what they can and can't do, and keep their bottom line, so as to teach their children well.
The child has been basically stereotyped since he was six years old.
When children are five or six years old, their personality characteristics have been basically stereotyped, and all their personality characteristics and etiquette are in the early stage of education. At this time, they began to contact with formal education, that is, our primary education, and perceived the world through school education and family education. Therefore, at this time, they are considering the consequences of everything they have done. For the children at this time, we began to educate them from the heart in a reasonable way.
At this time, children cannot be solved by violence, so we use more reasonable methods to educate children and let them feel themselves from the heart. In fact, their psychological education makes them feel more guilty than you beat him and scold him.
When a child is about eight years old, he is endowed with a relatively stereotyped personality, so even if he encounters a rebellious period in the future, it will not be as serious as we thought. After all, he has formed a good personality, which is something that is integrated into his bones and blood. It's hard to change. He may be angry with you, but he won't do anything wrong.