Teaching a miserable child (also known as "teaching a miserable child is more important" or "one loves his son as an adult")
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Shijie advised Wei Zhuanggong, "I have heard of my beloved son, and I taught him to be upright and tolerate evil. Proud and extravagant, lewdness is also self-evil. When four people came, they spoiled Lu. " Since ancient times, it is better to love your son than to teach him, so that countless people are in danger and humiliated. What husbands love should be taught to adults. Love puts you in danger, humiliation and chaos. Can you love your son? People who love their sons often say, "Although children are young, they don't know their ears. Teach them as soon as they grow up. " It is the bud that still nurtures evil wood, so once it is cut, how hard will it be? Another example is to open a cage to catch birds and loosen the reins to chase them. Don't solve it easily if you don't want to do it.
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1, Shi Jie (què): a doctor who defended the country during the Spring and Autumn Period.
2. Wei Zhuanggong: The first monarch of Wei, Ji, was the12nd generation monarch, who reigned for 23 years from 757 to 735. According to Zuo Zhuan, he lived in seclusion for three years and married his daughter Zhuang Jiang. Zhuang Jiang is not only beautiful, but also gentle and virtuous, but she has no children. Wei ren wrote a poem "On Knowing People" to praise Zhuang Jiang. I also married Chen's sisters Li Gui and Dai Gui. Li Gui died after giving birth to Xiao Bo, and Dai Gui gave birth to Wan Ji, later Wei Huangong. Zhuang Jiang regarded Huan Gong as his own. Another concubine of Zhuanggong gave birth to Zhuanggong's son Zhou Xu, who was deeply loved by Zhuanggong because of his passion for military affairs. The doctor Shijie once suggested that Zhuang Gong should establish a prince as soon as possible and discipline his son Zhou Xu well so as not to cause great disaster. Wei Zhuanggong didn't listen and continued to love Zhou Xu. After Wei Zhuanggong's death, Huan Gong succeeded to the throne. Shi Hou, the son of Zhou Jie, killed Huan Gong, and Zhou Xu became king.
3. love: love.
4. Righteousness: norms and principles that should be observed in doing things. Guan Ren, Yizhoushu: "Save his residence and observe his righteousness." "Zuo Zhuan Zanggong for three years": "Shijie admonished:' I heard that Aiko taught me to be righteous and tolerant of evil. ""Later, because the method of teaching children was much more correct, it was still a tutor. Righteousness, propriety, conduct or reason. Methods and means; That makes sense.
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6. Accept evil: accept the wrong things. Or give someone the wrong thing. Then accept it. Evil, no.
7, arrogance and extravagance: arrogance, luxury, debauchery, lewd.
8. Self-loathing: It comes from wrong thoughts. Come, produce.
9. Four: The emergence of these four problems. Therefore, structural auxiliary words are used between the subject and the predicate to cancel the independence of the sentence.
10, spoil Lu: it means to give luck and wealth.
1 1, rather than: incomparable.
12, reason: reason.
13, danger and humiliation: danger and humiliation. Liezi Fu Shuo: "If people don't respect themselves, they will be humiliated."
14, chaos: defeat and chaos. "Guanzi Farming": "When the owner gives power to others, there will be robbery and murder; Specializing in teaching people the law, there will be chaos. "
15, number of wins: exhausted; I can count them.
16, Husband: The first word of the sentence has no practical meaning.
17, Wu Zaineng loves his son: subject-predicate inversion, the normal word order is: "He can love his son Wu Zaineng", which means "What are the characteristics or manifestations of his love for children?" How can it be regarded as loving children? In nothingness, prepositional object sentences and interrogative sentences, interrogative pronouns are prepositional objects, that is, "in nothingness" (where). Question pronoun, where.
18. Men love their sons: the normal word order is "love their sons", which means "people who love their children". The auxiliary word "zhe … zhe" indicates the postposition of the attribute.
19, knowing: conscious; Have knowledge. It means to know the truth.
20. once: wait. Wait until.
2 1, right: this.
22. Jude: Yes; I think so.
23. The sprouting of evil trees: The normal word order is "sprouting evil trees", which means "rotten trees in the sprouting period". Evil wood: a despicable tree; A rough tree.
24, folding: two arms around. Describe the size of the tree. Laozi: "Hold the wood, born in the end."
25. Logging: Logging. This refers to pruning.
26. it: at that time.
27. Gu: On the contrary; On the contrary.
28. Ruoruo: He Ru. It is better to express it in rhetorical tone. Yes, equivalent to "he", interrogative adverb, where. It doesn't mean "why not" if, the verb "than" is comparable.
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Shijie advised Wei Zhuanggong: "I heard that if you love your child, you should teach him the norms and principles he should abide by, and you should not let him be influenced by wrong ideas. Arrogance, luxury, debauchery and lewdness are all products of wrong ideas. These four problems are caused by the love and wealth given to him by his parents. " Since ancient times, I have known that it is better to educate children than to love them. (Because parents didn't educate their children well), they exposed their children to danger, humiliation, failure and extinction. How can I count them all? If you love him, you should educate him to grow up. How can loving him make him dangerous, humiliating, defeated and destroyed? Most people who love children say, "Children are too young to be sensible. We will educate him when he grows up. " It's like cultivating an unworthy tree at a young age and saying to wait until it grows thick before pruning. Wasn't it harder then? It's like opening the cage, letting the bird out, and then catching it. It's as simple as loosening the reins of a horse and chasing it. It's better not to open the cage or put the reins.