Good family education enables children to get twice the result with half the effort whether they go to school or go out of society; However, failed family education will make children spend more time and energy, and even go astray. Teachers must improve the level of guiding family education if they want to guide family education. In order to really educate problem students, teachers must start with family education. Therefore, guiding family education will become another task for teachers. A teacher who can guide family education is a successful teacher. To guide parents in family education, we can mainly start from the following three aspects: 1. Help parents understand what family education is and what its essence, characteristics and laws are. 2. Help parents to establish correct guiding ideology of family education and correct incorrect guiding ideology. 3. Guide parents to change the wrong attitudes and methods of tutoring. Of these three aspects, the second is an intermediate link, which is very important. Teachers must grasp the root cause when guiding parents. Only by raising awareness fundamentally can we really improve the quality of parents. Secondly, we should be familiar with the way of guidance. If conditions permit, you can do the following work: run a parent school; Establish a parent Committee; Hold regular parent-teacher conferences; Open a parent-child meeting; Regular parental counseling. The most important thing is that we should remember some points when guiding parents: always talk to parents in a parent's tone; Guide parents to know their own shortcomings; Pay attention to the promotion of parents' advanced experience, and ask parents who have done well to make a report; Pay attention to parents; Both parents should give guidance; Guidance should be timely. If teachers want to successfully guide family education, they must study systematically and strive to improve their own quality. If a teacher's own level is not high, even his own children are not well educated, what can he talk about to guide other parents to carry out family education? As far as the specific content is concerned, I think we should start with the following points. Correct the guiding ideology of educating children. This is a common feature of well-educated parents. They don't engage in single intellectual education, let alone "force children to become talents", but firmly educate their children to develop in an all-round way in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor ... If a middle school student really develops in an all-round way in morality, physique, beauty and labor, he will definitely enter the university. Second, we should cultivate children like saplings. Educating people is like planting trees, which is more complicated and more difficult. Parents should have a high sense of responsibility, devote energy, time, efforts and sometimes make some sacrifices … Third, parents should set an example. Your own thoughts and actions should be role models for children. Be strict with yourself everywhere, influence and educate children with their words and deeds of loving the motherland, life, work, study and labor, so that they can worship themselves ... Fourth, help them set up lofty aspirations. It's done very well. Children will have an internal and lasting motivation, so that children can correctly treat the success and setbacks on the road to success and work hard to achieve a beautiful ideal in a down-to-earth manner! Fifth, we should strive to cultivate children's good habits. Good habits are a prerequisite for forming all the qualities of will. Regrettably, so far, many parents have underestimated the role of good habits and adopted a laissez-faire attitude. And some wise parents ... stand on the height of cultivating children to become strong-willed people with a high sense of responsibility and obligation, start from small things in daily life and study, cultivate children's good habits in all aspects, and pay attention to continuous strengthening through regular practice, which has received good educational results. 6. Be reasonable and persist in persuasion. This is the common experience of many excellent parents in educating their children. Know the truth, pass it on again; Perseverance in persuasion education is successful. Seventh, create a good growth environment and a harmonious family atmosphere for children. This is an important condition for children to maintain a healthy mood. Parents should strive to be bosom friends of their children. Let children dare to talk to themselves. Even if the child says something wrong and expresses a wrong view, parents should never "bump their heads" ... instead, they should listen to the child's opinions patiently and take appropriate ways to inspire, induce and convince others. Nine parents should take the initiative to cooperate closely with teachers, often know their children's performance in school and the trend of their classes, so as to discuss coordinated educational methods with teachers in time according to their actual situation ... ⑽ The education of children within the family must be coordinated. On the issue of educating children, parents, grandparents, grandparents and parents often disagree ... Therefore, the most authoritative parents in the family should play a major role in educating children and be responsible for coordinating children's requirements for education in all aspects ... In addition, we should pay attention to: 1, and guide parents' management in detail. In fact, children have many problems that parents are used to. Parents take care of their children so carefully that they completely forget what they should have remembered to do, such as preparing stationery and sorting out schoolbags, because parents do all this for them. Excessive consideration will make children lose their autonomy. To change this situation, preaching is useless. The most effective way is for parents to start from the details, persevere and take pains. Never "cure the disease". When the child has a problem, come back to teach. Parents have time to take care of it, but no time to turn a blind eye to their children's mistakes. Some parents even think that if I teach my child to do something, I have to keep saying that my child is slower and more tired than me, so it is better for me to do it. Over time, parents' inertia and generalization will develop the bad habit of children's dependence. 2, parents should talk about credit, rewards and punishments are clear. Being playful is a child's nature, and many parents will "trade" with their children by "letting them play". However, most of the transactions between parents and children were unsuccessful and did not achieve the expected results of parents. What is the reason? One situation is that parents don't keep their promises, and children do what their parents ask, but parents often break their promises and let their children do another thing. Once or twice, children no longer trust their parents, and future "transactions" cannot be done. There is also a situation where parents' rewards and punishments are not clear, and parents have given in when the children obviously fail to meet their parents' requirements. Slowly, the child touched the weakness of his parents and felt that it didn't matter if he delayed for a little time. Over time, children have developed the bad habit of procrastination. Therefore, when parents make "transactions" with their children, they must keep their promises and make clear rewards and punishments. 3. Parents should learn to play their children's peers and let their children know how to be modest and share. Now most children are only children, leaving his grandparents, parents and children at home. At school, the students are all only children, and they are used to "bullying" at home. When there are contradictions, everyone wants others to let themselves go, but they don't want to let others go. Therefore, disputes often occur between classmates, and children no longer get along with others. Therefore, at home, parents should learn to play their children's peers and try to compete with their children. For example, if there is delicious food at home, share it with your children, instead of letting them possess it independently. Let children learn to share what they like with others, learn to think for others, and learn to be modest when there are contradictions. 4. Be a principled parent. In children's family education, parents have no principles or can't abide by them, which will lead to the failure of various educational means. Parents have no principles, and children don't know what their parents want. After a long time, children will think that their parents have no requirements for themselves and will let themselves go. There are principles, but you can't abide by them. If the rules are made and the children do it, they must unconditionally abide by the rules agreed in advance. Let the children play. On the other hand, parents should strictly enforce the regulations on the management of their children, and the TV must be turned off without consultation. If parents find that the rules are unreasonable, they must negotiate with their children to formulate new rules, instead of changing them when parents say so. Once everyone has rules in mind, children's good habits will naturally develop. In fact, there are many things to guide family education. The above is only about how to cultivate children's good life and study habits.