Among them, Meijia plays the most with a boy named Xiaojin, and I know Xiaojin's mother best. Xiaojin's mother is not that kind of housewife. In Japan, many mothers feel that their children are pitiful in the nursery and can pick them up early. Xiaojin's mother, like me, rides a bike to pick them up every day. The reason for stepping on the spot is mostly because I can't get off work. Unlike Meijia, it is said that Xiaojin will come to the nursery on Saturday and stay all day, because Xiaojin's mother has to go to work on Saturday and there is no one in the nursery on Saturday. This is really a little pathetic. After a lot of talking, I realized that Xiaojin's mother was not a local, but came to Jiafu with me at the same time. I asked her why she came to Yamanashi, and she said lightly, because my job was settled here at that time. I was very surprised after listening to this, because Japan is a male-centered society. Even if I stay well in a city, my husband will have to leave as soon as he changes jobs. I am a typical example. It is rare to be "independent" like my mother. Compared with China's only child, Japanese children are very polite. When they want each other's toys, they usually don't grab them directly, but say "lend me to play" to discuss. So there is not much controversy. But Xiao Jin and Meijia had an argument yesterday. There is a small house with doors and windows in the nursery. Children like to come in and play. Xiaojin went in first and stood by the small window. Xiaojin's mother took out her mobile phone and took pictures of him. Meijia also went later, and Xiaojin's mother also took photos of Meijia. When Xiaojin saw that he quit, he wanted to push Meijia standing by the window, and Meijia shouted for help. This is Meijia's consistent style, only making noise, not making moves. Xiaojin's mother began to say Xiaojin, "keep order". Xiaojin, after all, is a child over two years old, and suddenly he vomited angrily. Meijia was playing. You robbed her out of order and hurt her. I looked at the back of Xiaojin's mother riding a bicycle, and my heart was filled with emotion. The order and civilization of Japan, which is well known to the world, was established in this little bit of education. Japan has a small area and a large population, but it has always been orderly. Needless to say, during the 3 1 1 earthquake, hundreds of thousands of people in Tokyo can't go home at night, and they are either robbed or crowded everywhere. When I return to China this time, I sometimes take Meijia to the kindergarten to pick up my sister. I think I would like Japan to stand by. I have been there once and found that picking up and dropping off children is a manual job. The children are running around like crazy. If the children walk slowly on the slide, the older children in the back indicate that they are going to move. There are often five or six children who want to play beside the swing. Who can play depends on who can grab it. After half an hour, the adults were exhausted. What a mess. Actually, I'm not saying that parents in China don't understand education, but that China often has no principles. When you do things, the first thing you think of is not to suffer losses and to consider the feelings of others less. Form a vicious circle over time.