Replace fear with trust. I firmly believe that fear exists not only on campus for a long time, but also in family life-parents are afraid of losing face in front of their babies, being ignored by their children, and not listening to their children; Children are more worried: they are afraid of being scolded, insulted, making a fool of themselves in front of their partners, failing in the exam and coping with their parents' anger. When parents and students worry together, they create a relationship of fear, depression, anxiety and antagonism. But Mr. Rafe said that his class group is often special, not because of what it has, but because it lacks one thing-worry. Ladies and gentlemen, will you be angry because your child doesn't understand? Do you feel anxious about your child's disobedience? Will you be angry with the bullfight because your child's work is unsuccessful? In fact, there is a problem with its own purpose and method. Parents and teachers should never feel depressed if children don't understand. Everyone should deal with problems with a positive attitude and care, and build immediate and long-term trust beyond fear.
Be a reliable shoulder for children. One of Rafe's friends promised all the students on the first day of school and would take them out for a trip at the end of the year. But almost every day, she hurts misbehaving students by revoking their qualifications for traveling, so many students make a lot of extra investment. By the end of the year, the teacher announced that he would move out of here and the tour had to be cancelled. You have no idea how cold and dissatisfied the children are. This rebellion ruined everything she did this year. As a parent, please recall, have you ever done something similar? If so, please be sure to correct it, because I believe it is difficult to repair it. Please remember that you must keep your promise. You don't have to say how responsible you are to your children, but let them put their trust on their shoulders.
Organizational discipline must be observed. In fact, no matter at home or on campus, there will inevitably be some requirements, but don't forget the basic knowledge of organizational discipline: harsh but unreasonable regulations will be looked down upon by children. As long as the children see that your rewards and punishments are unfair, you will lose the hearts of the people. In Mr. Rafe's class, the most severe punishment for misconduct is to ban from participating in the theme activities that need to be carried out when misconduct occurs. For example, if the child doesn't do the experiment with his heart, the punishment is that you can't do the experiment, but you have a chance to correct it the next day. Therefore, if the child doesn't want to study, but you let him pick up the garbage, please be sure to express clearly the essential logical order. Naturally, I think the connection is very good.