My son is over 3 years old and will be naughty at first. I was angry with him several times. My son was at a loss and kept looking at me.

Later, as soon as my face changed, he would immediately say, "Don't say that, it's not nice." It makes me laugh and cry.

In fact, I think as parents, we often over-educate our children. We always judge right and wrong things from the perspective of adults. If the same thing is from the perspective of children, the judgment of right or wrong may be different.

For example, I often get angry because my children messed up the cleaning I just cleaned, because cleanliness is right in my mind. However, for children, cleanliness means boredom, and it's fun to make a mess of toys.

I'm relieved when I figure it out. It can be cleaned up a few times at most, but it can give children a creative childhood.

Therefore, I think it is unwise to educate a child to lose his temper. Before you lose your temper, put yourself in the child's shoes. Did he really do something wrong?

What if I really need a degree?

I don't advocate violence education, which is useless to children, and it is easy to arouse rebellious psychology to older children.

Perhaps the best way is to discuss the child as an equal object, give him a chance to express his thoughts, and then guide him.

It works. At least she's afraid of you. If you don't hit him, you won't say anything. You always eat without sleeping, don't get dressed on time, can't get up, don't go to school on time, and don't listen to the teacher carefully. It is impossible for such a child not to scare him. Can children be explained only by the knowledge bureau in books? Children haven't learned from Zhuge Liang, how can they finish reading the knowledge in the book? There is nothing wrong with having a dutiful son under the stick. All instructions before training are invalid!

Many people think that they can't lose their temper with their children often, but if they do, they can't control their emotions, including me. (especially when you are in trouble)

However, I often remind myself to reflect on myself. I lost my temper with my children many times, and then I calmed down. Actually, I regret it. After that, I will have a good talk with my children, apologize to them and say not to lose my temper with them. My child is actually quite generous, and I am very pleased to say "it doesn't matter" every time. As a parent, I don't know how to educate my children. It's pathetic to criticize children or even beat them afterwards. Looking back on the grievances I suffered as a child, I will always remind myself to lose my temper with my children as little as possible in the future.

Although I still make this mistake now, I will always remind myself that parents who want to see the answer often wake up, so there will be fewer and fewer in the future. We will work together. I believe that we will completely change this bad habit in the process of children's growth, so that future generations will no longer suffer the same treatment. Let's cheer together

It's basically useless to lose your temper, but losing your temper allows yourself to vent, and the child is temporarily frightened.

After half a day, everything returned to its original state.

But as children grow up, they are often told the reasons and consequences, and they will change if they don't lose their temper.

You can lose your temper, try not to yell at the weak, and losing your temper with the children of the weak can only get worse.

It's great to have a temper and shout it out There is nothing wrong with being refreshed after losing it.

A reasonable temper can let others know your bottom line and why you can't lose your temper

Tell children that it is ok to lose their temper.

It's just that after parents get angry, they should tell their children the reasons for losing their temper, when they can get angry and when they can't. What is the reason for losing your temper? What should I do when it's over? Don't lose your temper with the weak, and don't lose your temper by hurting yourself or others!

Suppressing your temper blindly will make you sick. It is more rational to know how to channel and use the power of this temper, change yourself and cultivate yourself.

As the ancients said, teaching children and babies is the beginning of teaching women. Yes, children should be cultivated from an early age and educated from the roots. What root? Filial piety When filial piety is opened, all virtues come. Educate children to cultivate future generations and discipline them in different periods.

From one to eight years old, it is mainly to cultivate self-cultivation, educate people and do things, and set an example for children. People's cultivation and communication etiquette will affect the success or failure of their lives.

You don't need to teach him too much cultural knowledge when you are one to eight years old, which will make your child confused and difficult to digest. It will also prematurely turn his pure yuan god into a secular god, making him lack of energy in the future, making it difficult for him to take up his post and lose his life.

If a well-educated person is ill, how can he benefit all beings and society?

After he is eight years old, let him learn the basic knowledge of the world and common sense of culture. After the age of sixteen, it is not too late to learn thousands of things in the world.

If you spoil yourself from an early age, eat well, spoil yourself, don't know how to work, and don't know how to be grateful, it will be a blessing for him! I hope everyone will seriously understand the truth and wake up as soon as possible!

I seldom lose my temper. Lead by example, lead by example. When I practice the piano, the baby will also do his homework quietly. 2. The influence of family environment is very important. 3. Behavior habits should be developed.

When children have problems, as parents, we should first consider how big the problem is. How to guide children correctly and actively, instead of losing their temper, losing their temper may make children obedient for a while, but it will cast a shadow over their psychology and even lead to their autism and inferiority. We can make an analogy. Parents lose their temper with their children, mostly because their children have such problems, made mistakes or made inappropriate behaviors and words. Then we compare their children's problems to dirty things and compare their parents' criticism to bathing their children. We try to imagine that bathing is a pleasant process, but our parents deliberately adjust the water temperature to a state where the child feels "very hot". In this way, the "dirty" of children means that what children care about now is not the dirty body, but that the water is too hot and they don't want to wash it any more ... This analogy may give you some advice. You might as well adjust the water temperature before losing your temper. This is like letting your child eat a sugar-coated pill, which can be "cured" and not so "bitter", and the child is willing to accept it.

You must not know that when you yell at your child, it may be the southern beast-

It could be a "big tiger" or a chameleon-

When you can't control yourself, the second becomes "violent bear"—

Haha, the high-pitched voice slaps you in the face if it doesn't agree with a word, and always communicates with emotion and anger. After losing his temper, the child does not remember why he was reprimanded, but only the experience of being trained.

Someone once said, "there is one thing in this world that is harmful and useless-losing your temper." The same is true for educating children. "

NoNoNo, children need to be persuaded, too. Only unreasonable orders will definitely have no effect.

Yes, yes, it is more effective to punish and reason when doing something wrong than to shout.

Butbutbut, is it really because of the child's fault that you lost your temper? When you can't hold back your personal emotions and inadvertently let your child become an outlet, every time your anger will become the shadow of your child.

Love is something that needs constant practice, and so is losing your temper. Most tempers end up hurting each other, but rarely achieve results. I hope we all love children more and have less temper.

When educating children, you often lose your temper with them, which is useless for their education. Because children will only think that you have a bad temper and are not easy to approach. Children just dare to be angry and dare not speak, because they are still young, but they dare not resist on the surface, but they are resisting inside. When he is as tall as you, he will burst into repressed anger. At this point, you will regret the temper you often lost when you were a child. It will be better to educate children, lose their temper less and have more heart-to-heart communication.