High expectations
Parents expect too much from their children and try to make them better by coercion, which often leads to psychological problems and even resentment against society.
Lack of respect
Many parents do not respect their children, make decisions for them without authorization, and ignore their wishes, which seriously hinders their healthy growth.
♀? distrust
Parents don't trust their children, which is not good for their growth.
Timely praise
Timely praise can make children feel recognized and stimulate their enthusiasm.
Inappropriate comparison
Many parents like to compare their children's shortcomings with the advantages of other children, which will make their children feel inferior and lose self-confidence.
emotional transfer
Some parents vent their emotions on their children because they are tired or unhappy at work, and pass on the pressure at work to their children.
♂? Agree easily
Parents make promises easily, but they can't keep them, disappointing their children.
Cultivation of character
Parents should not only cultivate their children's skills and interests, but also pay attention to the cultivation of their character. Otherwise, even if the child is excellent academically, but his personality is flawed, he will eventually be eliminated by society.