Listen to the child's "voice"
Sometimes, children may be disobedient because they feel neglected. Listen to their thoughts and feelings, give them enough care and support, and let them feel the warmth of home.
Close the distance with children
Spend good time with children, participate in their activities and learn about their hobbies. In this way, children will be more willing to share their troubles with you and listen to your suggestions.
Parents are the best teachers for children.
Children are natural imitators. If you want your children to listen to you, you should start from yourself, set an example for your children, and convey correct values and behaviors.
Give children positive feedback and encouragement.
When children make the right choice, they may wish to give them some encouragement and praise. This can not only enhance their self-confidence, but also cultivate their good habits.
Clear rules and reasonable expectations
Setting clear family rules and expectations for children will help them better understand your requirements. At the same time, please ensure that these rules and expectations are fair and suitable for children's age and development stage.
Communicate actively and communicate with love.
Avoid using negative, critical or threatening language, and communicate with children in positive, supportive and encouraging language. In this way, the relationship between you will be more harmonious and communication will be smoother.