Teacher Yang Yun.

In a book, there is such a passage:

When you can accept and forgive yourself, you can naturally accept and forgive others and live in harmony with others. To be a perfect person, it is better to be a person with special skills and value.

Hello everyone! I'm Yang Yun. I am a dream tutor, certified digital psychological tutor, national second-level psychological counselor, NLP executive, sand exploration consultant, etc.

I started my own business earlier, worked as a nanny and worked in a foreign company, mainly engaged in internal training in the communication industry.

20 15 I learned about the subject of "digital psychology" by chance. At that time, I worked in Mr. Yang Rongwei's company. Our previous company was engaged in education and training, focusing on the internal training of the communication industry, mainly providing some technical and management support.

You know, the boss of the training industry likes learning very much, and Mr. Yang Rongwei is also one of the leaders of our 16 team. She thinks the course of Digital Psychology is particularly good, and it is a very practical and practical tool. She believes that this course can help colleagues in the company to be more harmonious in cooperation and better understand each other's personality and talents.

At that time, the expenses of several colleagues were paid by Mr. Roewe personally. Not only tuition, but also travel expenses and accommodation are paid by Mr. Roewe. Until now, I really appreciate Mr. Roewe. She led me into the door to get in touch with the new subject and resource of "Digital Psychology".

In the eyes of others

I must be an unqualified mother.

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Teacher Roewe said that he hoped that our company could set up a department to promote digital psychology. My digital code has a set of 2 13 digital talents, and she highly recommended me as a lecturer. After the course, I began to share the speech of the conference. In this process, different topics will be involved, including sales, intimacy, parent-child relationship and so on.

Teacher Roewe told me, Yang Lan, tell me about the parent-child relationship. At that time, my son had just entered the first year of high school, and his grades were not particularly satisfactory. He was unhappy in the process of getting along with his teachers and classmates, which led to the most serious situation of not wanting to go to school. I was in a hurry. I said that parent-child classes are out of the question before my own son is settled.

At that time, I told my son that either we went to the hospital to see the psychology department, or we went to the school's psychological counseling room, or you went to the company's psychology department with me. Finally, he chose to go to the company with me.

At that time, I talked with Mr. Roewe for an afternoon and felt touched by him. Later, I started to go to school, but intermittently. That's how high school came.

By using digital psychology, my relationship with my son is getting better and better. Numerically speaking, my number 3 is quite anxious. I divorced his father when he was very young again, mainly because I was worried about affecting the child's mental health.

I have studied digital psychology and know that he has two numbers 2, which shows that he is sensitive. Before learning numbers, my cognition was that boys don't cry easily when they encounter problems. When I knew the child's model, I gave him permission as much as possible.

He used to live in high school, and the school stipulated that electronic equipment could not be used. He found it inconvenient to contact his junior high school classmates. On the way out of school, I cried and said, "Mom, I don't live in school" because the accommodation fee was paid and the bed was made. It's hard for you to imagine the scene at that time, a big boy one head taller than you, holding you in the street and crying.

Occasionally, he doesn't go to school. When the school teacher looks for parents, I will stand on his side and analyze the child's personality characteristics with the teacher. I even gave all the books on "Digital Psychology" to my teacher. In fact, I hope to tell the teacher that I can know the students better. Because everyone has a different personality.

Whenever I want to lose my temper, I adjust myself and tell myself silently: this child is here to help me grow up. This adjustment has given me a lot of patience, including when I am doing a case and consulting others, this patience will also accumulate and grow, and the children will grow up simultaneously.

Our family is a family with knowledge background. When children say they don't want to go to college, it's incredible in our family. Grandparents, parents and even grandparents all graduated from college.

Then I told my children that if you want to know what you want to do, I can accept that you don't go to college, but you must be able to support yourself first. I will subtly guide the children: "You are under the education system in China, but we still have to abide by the' rules of the game' in this big environment. Because now you have no ability to change the world, you have to adapt first. " In the process of chatting, give him room to think.

Children grow up with me.

He is the No.9 male in 279, and his hobbies, including ideas, have changed greatly since he was a child. In fact, I gave him a lot of tolerance and permission, such as playing games and not going to school. These mothers are considered unqualified by other parents or teachers. How can you educate your children like this?

Later, I learned that the child was very close to a girl in their class. In order to help the girl study, it means that she must go to class first. Until the college entrance examination, he did quite well. In fact, puppy love is not necessarily a bad thing.

Later, the girl went abroad first. On the one hand, he wants to be with that girl. On the other hand, I also want him to learn Spanish. He realized that learning idioms in a foreign language environment is different from learning languages in a domestic environment. So I support his idea of studying abroad.

Harmonious ark

Accept your imperfections.

Accept the imperfections of others.

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In the process of chatting with me, my son said that I often told him: Although mom and dad are separated, we all love you very much. He said that although their classmates' parents were around, their feelings were not good.

I don't want to speak ill of his father in front of the children. Sometimes I will say to his father, "You are free to have dinner with the children." Let children feel that father is an indispensable role in life, and the second is to establish a positive image of father in front of children.

When the child is about 20 years old, I also explained to him why he should be separated from his father.

When the child is old enough to face these emotions, I want him to know that everyone is ordinary and has imperfections. Most of the mistakes we make abroad are that we don't know ourselves, so we don't know others.

I didn't deliberately avoid these questions, but chose the right time to tell my child and lifted the confusion hidden in his heart over the years.

In fact, over the years, I have gradually adjusted my mentality, and there can be no more hatred in my heart. I even thank the father of the child, because without this man, I can't have my son now. He used to be very kind to me, so I prefer to remember good things.

There are seven numbers in a triangle, and everyone actually has advantages and disadvantages. So I know myself, know my own advantages and disadvantages, and a person can read himself, which is the core of getting a steady stream of vitality. When you can accept your own imperfections, you can also allow others' imperfections.

Reading yourself is the beginning of everything.

When you have the courage

Beauty and luck meet unexpectedly.

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When one day, you are no longer afraid of the loneliness that you need to walk alone, and the road that you have to walk alone, you will continue to encounter beauty and luck.

Everyone is an angel.

Everyone deserves to be loved.

Talking about my story with Mr. Hechen. We are all dream mentors of Harmony Ark. He is the training director of an enterprise in Taiwan Province. After the outbreak, his situation there was not very good. He made some investments and owed some debts before. In April last year, he returned to the Harmony Ark platform.

Stick to what you love.

Mr. He Chen has served as a number of listed executives and has 15 years of experience in education and training industry. 20 10 began to cooperate with Mr. Shu Huan, and he was the first person to undertake the digital psychology course in China!

We and Mr. Shan

Last June, 5438+ 10 "Creating Wealth" class, we were all sand table volunteers, and we would chat when we were free. I didn't think too much at first. We are from different teams. If you really want to change teams together, and you are not in a city, there will be many concerns. After that, there was no more.

Teacher Shu will often tell us in class that you should activate your circle of friends and give praise and comments to others.

I was in a bad mood at that time, so I went to Hainan to travel around the island alone. I was just waiting for the plane to take off on the plane back to Beijing. I flipped through my circle of friends and gave people a compliment.

At that time, I also praised Teacher He Chen. This is probably the arrangement of heaven. Coincidentally, Mr. Hechen replied to me and sent me a poem "Tibetan Poetry". I didn't see it at first, so I put a question mark. What does that mean? He said you were smart, and guess what. Finally, I saw the four words behind the Tibetan poem: How about meeting? At that time, the plane was about to take off, so I quickly answered. We'll talk later.

When I arrived in Beijing, he asked me again, which coincided with the Spring Festival. He said, do you want to play in go to dali during the Spring Festival?

I said, "My father died last year. I want to spend the New Year with my mother at home and I can't go. " ? Then we talked for nearly ten days. The most exaggerated day is talking at five in the morning.

Happiness is as simple as that

I didn't know anything about his family before, but I learned from chatting that his parents were dead. I said, why don't you come to Beijing for the New Year? After that, he bought a plane ticket soon, and he came to Beijing in advance. If he hadn't come at that time, maybe Beijing restricted his entry to Beijing at that time, and then we came together.

If I hadn't studied digital psychology, I might have many contradictions with Mr. Chen in my life, including contradictions from time to time. But we all choose to communicate with each other.

An invisible guide.

We all have our own independent personalities. He is number five. People who have studied numbers must know that number five is actually quite a character. He also has two 1, which is very capable. There is no 9 (recognized) in his digital map. I think he is an excellent person in his early experience. Why does a man have no motivation to work hard? In fact, he just wants to get the approval of his family.

It is important for two people to support each other. Of course, we never quarrel for the night. In the process of communication, not all issues can be agreed, but we will still be willing to communicate with each other. I used to be a person who was particularly afraid of conflict. When I was a child, my parents also quarreled, but now they are together, and quarreling has become an interest.

Sometimes two people are at odds in the classroom, and I deliberately ignore him. Later, he may find another excuse to talk to me and let me know about a case. The key is not that he let me know someone, but that the other person wants to give me a step down. In fact, sometimes apologizing is not necessarily "I'm sorry, I was wrong", but giving the other person a step down.

Someone gave me a cup of coffee that day, and then I gave it to him just to find a reason to talk. Some things, not the stronger the better, should be just right. Deep words, shallow words, we walk a long way slowly.

Thank you, Mr. Shu. If it weren't for this platform, I might not have harvested this beautiful love. Because after studying numbers and fleeting time, I have been wishing to find someone who loves me, and this person really appeared, which is incredible.

Along the way, I am grateful to have you.

Thanks for meeting you.

Thank you for meeting.

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■ I have followed Mr. Shu all the way up to now. From becoming a teacher's student to becoming a dream tutor, there must be a source of motivation to support me along the way: that is, Mr. Shu's character, spirit, dealing with people, integrating knowledge with practice, and being a person full of positive energy.

I often tell other students that no boss can put every student in his heart like Mr. Shu. I have never worked or cooperated with the company. We are like Miss Shu's children, and she is like our mother. Come to the Ark of Harmony, just like at home.

Do you ask me if there is any pressure to follow the teacher? The answer is yes. Because the teacher will have requirements for you, she wants you to be better. I also believe that teachers have never given up on the road to making you better. That's why I want to continue to follow the spirit of Teacher Shu Huan. There's so much to say. I not only gained the parent-child relationship with my children, but also made more families happy and harmonious, and realized the most gorgeous chapter in my life-Ascension to Heaven.

I can remember everything along the way. It's a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and as a dream tutor, I always believe that I will keep up with the pace of teachers and stay at the forefront forever in the future. With the skills and abilities we have learned, we will live up to our dreams and the future on the road of spreading digital psychology.

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