People say that parents are children's first teachers, so parents are the most direct influencers of what children become. Everything parents say and do affects their children. If the parents are unreasonable, unfilial old people, swearing and hitting people at will, then the child will definitely become like this. So if I were a parent, I would set an example, be filial to my parents, be financially independent, not swear, and be educated. My children will always be influenced by me, making them knowledgeable and forming good habits.
It is also very important that if the child does well, he must be rewarded, let him make persistent efforts and let him know that it is very correct to do so. If praised, he will be willing to continue to do so in the future, a virtuous circle.