Presumably, everyone has heard the story of Kong Rong letting pears spread, but it also shows us that when parents educate their children, they will use Kong Rong to let pears spread to make their children humble. At the same time, when children have good humility, they will praise them, but it is precisely because of this that we can see that this is actually a loophole. Modesty is a virtue, but when parents use the story of Kong Rong releasing pears, many people feel a little uncomfortable.

Moreover, Kong Rong has been praised by many people for making Li Hou. When parents always have such a compliment to their children, it is indispensable in the process of children's growth, so parents will be proud of the praise they get. However, I have not systematically thought about whether this kind of education is correct. If you only praise your child and don't guide your child to a correct value, I believe that your child will not develop well. First of all, I can express my gratification when my child behaves well and tell him that this is very correct.

Always be able to accept compliments from others and bear hints from others, so that children will have new performances. Let children keep themselves while enjoying the praise of many people, not driven by those emotions, and become better when constantly inspiring themselves, avoiding arrogance and impatience, and will not bring a state of complacency to everyone.

So when we use Kong Rong to educate our children, we should also give them a correct emotional guidance. I believe they will understand the true meaning of life better, because every child will lose himself because of these wrong comments when he has no correct outlook on life. In that case, it is also a very bad development for their future. I believe that under the correct guidance, children will know how to face the praise of others better.