Maybe their interest in learning has been overdrawn since primary school, maybe their knowledge is too far from reality, maybe the current examination system can't reflect their overall quality, or maybe they don't think it is necessary to change their destiny through study now. In short, high school students nowadays are increasingly reluctant to learn.
Facing the reality, many teachers are constantly complaining about why these students are unwilling to study all day. However, complaining can't change their unwillingness to learn. If you want to change, you still have to find a way.
So in order to arouse students' enthusiasm, I always educate my students like this. If you have relatives with background in your family, I don't think you will come to our third-rate high school, even if your score in the senior high school entrance examination is not high.
If my hypothesis holds, if you don't study hard in high school for three years, it will be difficult to go to a good university in the future, and it will be difficult to arrange a decent job for you through your parents' relationship after graduation.
Therefore, learning seems to be a relatively easy way to change your destiny. If you agree with me, you will have to redouble your efforts. Because under the existing unreasonable college entrance examination system, it is extremely difficult for Henan people to be admitted to key universities, compared with candidates from Beishangguang, and they may not be admitted as long as they work hard. Of course, getting into a good university may not necessarily lead to a decent job and life in the future, but on the whole it is better than graduating from high school.
Some students will say, "going to school now is not the only way out, even if you go to school, there may not be a way out." There is some truth in this statement, and it does reflect part of reality. However, it should be noted that this era is different from the previous one. In the era of reform and opening up, the first generation of entrepreneurs, as long as they have courage, still have a lot of opportunities to succeed in starting a business. The second generation of entrepreneurs, with their power and relationships, have also achieved many successes in the past thirty years. But that era is gone forever. In today's Internet age, knowledge is more important than ever. As long as you have knowledge, there is no real shortage of talents. Therefore, even if you start a business, you still have to learn.
Maybe your parents are still young, but as you grow up, they will get old. People usually get sick when they are old, but the existing medical security system is not enough to solve the problem of difficult medical treatment for ordinary people. Haven't you ever heard of "working hard for decades, being hospitalized once, and returning to before liberation?" If your parents are not from Gao Qian, they can't enjoy free medical care. If there is not much savings at home, you have to bear their medical expenses. You don't even have a decent job, so I'm afraid it's hard for you to earn a decent income. What if there is no money? You know, hospitals are not for charity. Without money, people won't cure diseases.
Especially for male students, if you don't have a decent job in the future, I'm afraid it's hard for you to find someone. Even if you really meet true love, people are willing to work with you. What about their parents? If there is a better choice, who wants to watch his daughter suffer? You can go back and ask your relatives and friends if they have encountered anything similar. How many people are about to get married, but they are forced to separate because of a house.
Look at what I said to the students, it can be said that it is full of utilitarianism. Although there is education in daily life, the theme of my education is basically for material benefits. I also want to help students set up lofty ideals, which will provide them with lasting motivation. However, before entering high school, they are not a blank sheet of paper. In such a realistic society, I am afraid that you will be laughed at when you talk about their ideals. They will think the teacher is so old and naive.
Of course, I also know that driven by material interests, even if students become talents, I am afraid they are only material millionaires and spiritual diaosi. In the future, when they educate the next generation, they can only be more realistic and material. By extension, this is unfavorable to the progress of our nation and the development of society. Maybe there will be a better way to educate students, and I will keep asking for it.