(A), the child's nature

1), independence and growth (making mistakes is a ladder for children's progress)

2), people, creatures, animals, people (emotion, thought, psychology)

4) There are no two identical leaves in the world.

5), peony and roses, golden wood fire, water, soil (shorter feet, longer inches. )

6) Care about material needs and ignore spiritual existence.

7), adult position, children's position.

8), anxiety, entanglement, conformity

Children are expert teachers who study adults. Parents and children are always losers in the struggle.

(2) Children's nature.

1, good game (the game is a child's work)

1), games are a way for children to know the world.

2), naturally active, take the game as life.

3) Children's learning is based on direct experience and is carried out in games and life.

4) Cherish the unique value of games and life.

5) promote health? Develop a language? Develop social skills? Exploring science? appreciate the art

6) Pay attention to the integrity of children's development.

7) Develop ability in activities.

2, good imitation (children are the shadow of adults. )

1), the importance of family and family style.

2) Cooperation between teachers and parents.

3) Children think with their eyes. Don't listen to what you say, it depends on what you do.

4) The importance of good friends.

5) Respond with the same voice and seek the same spirit.

6), words and deeds, words and deeds.

7), idolization

3. curiosity. (Introduction to Curious Knowledge)

Children are natural learners.

2), learning content and methods.

3) Growing up by solving problems.

4), true questions and false questions.

5), curiosity research.

He who is always curious will always make progress-Einstein.

4. For example, success.

1), the winner is confident, and the confident person succeeds.

2), in the success towards greater success.

3) Success requires two conditions-self-esteem and self-confidence-Socrates.

4) Make progress every day-make a little progress every day.

5) Success comes from the magic of failure and the encouragement of success.

5. I like outdoor life.

Man is the son of nature.

Living in the wild is good for children's health.

It is a child's nature to like nature.

Learning in nature

Give children an unforgettable trip (study)

Why did you have a holiday?

6, like to fit in-study alone without friends is ignorance.

Classmates are the best teachers

Listen to the sharing of children.

Don't interfere in children's conflicts.

Friends are children's mirrors.

Equal respect for companionship

Respect for rules and order

The teacher spoke clearly, I couldn't hear clearly, and my classmates couldn't speak clearly, but I heard clearly.

7, like to encourage.

Law of 28: If you want to criticize children, you must find eight encouragements to make up for the two criticisms.

Affirm a sense of belonging and security

The reason why human beings have inferiority complex.

Encouragement is from the heart.

Children need encouragement just as plants need water.

Good children are encouraged.

Attach importance to spiritual encouragement

Necessary, not easy to win a prize.

8. Children's needs (meet the needs and improve the level)

Diet and sleep

Physical and mental safety

Love and need

The secret of education lies in stimulating motivation.

Second, understand education.

Life is education, and education is life. Family is the first lesson in life, and parents are the children's first teachers. What kind of mentor there is, what kind of person there is. The most important thing in family education is moral education and how to be a man. The family should help the child to button the first button and take the first step in life.

Three principles of education

Tao leads, strength leads, restraint leads, and openness leads.

Tao leads to harmony, strength leads to restraint and opening leads to thinking.

Three principles of education: guidance, encouragement and encouragement.

A good relationship is a good education.

Respect for teachers is the secret of success.

Parents, children, teachers and students

Parents and teachers are partners.

There are good things to say and bad things to say.

Man is a thinking reed.

Thinking ability is the core factor of intelligence.

The level of intelligence is achieved through thinking ability.

More important than cleverness, more important than hard work, and more important than hard work is thinking ability.

Pay attention to the quality of thinking

Diligence is the threshold of success, crossing the past is the door, and crossing the past is the hurdle.

Second, education is to cultivate habits (learning from time to time is a natural gift)

Respect others

Good reading materials

Listen carefully

autonomous working

self-management

Habits are cultivated.

Love, patience and wisdom

Third, the educational pyramid.

Respect the law, ideal effect

Knowledge depends on learning, and ability depends on practice. Teaching is the best learning, independent cooperation and exploration.

Third, know yourself (no time to educate children means no time to be a man-Suhomlinski)

Education is a major, and parents' major is education. Let the children grow up on their own, and the fault lies in the children and themselves. Family education has limitations. Growth is a journey of reconciliation between self and self. Parents study hard and children make progress every day.

Without love, there is no education. Education is demonstration, companionship, waiting and encouragement. This is the way that mother bear educates little bear. )

Five hearts and five taboos

First, love.

Love is giving without expecting anything in return. Love is unconditional and unrequited. Need wisdom and give it what it needs (annoying? )。

Thinking: After giving love, does the child get the message of love or hate?

The premise of love is respect. (Yes, emotion, way of thinking)

Second, childlike innocence (children's position rather than adults' position)

The generation gap stems from the opposition of positions. Think about your childhood. Childlike heart is always a young heart. Purely curious, not utilitarian. The closer the centrifuge is, the closer it is to the child. Being childlike is something to be proud of.

Third, sincerity (from what you say in your heart to what you believe at last)

Don't hide your ignorance. Study with children. Self-reflection and understanding of children's grievances. Learn from children and sincerely ask for their opinions. Keep your promise.

The quality of a great personality depends entirely on one sincerity-Lu Xun.

Take faith as the sky and honesty as the foundation.

Fourth, patience (education is the art of waiting)

The enlightenment of flower cultivation (for children, it is necessary to cultivate and raise) and the mentality of flower buds (children have their own growth rules). Mistakes are the steps of growth, and maturity comes from lessons. Ability comes from practice, and you don't do anything that children can do.

Five, normal heart (normal heart is normal heart)

My child is a normal child and I am an ordinary person. Children are probably ordinary people, and what reason do I have to refuse children's ordinary?

Even the crying of a genius at the moment of birth, like ordinary children, will never become a good poem-Lu Xun.

Psychological compensation will be counterproductive. Expect to keep the bottom line properly. Health and happiness is the eternal pursuit.

Please don't tell your children that if they don't study hard, they will probably sweep the streets in the future. We are ordinary, but not humble. We also have our own pride, and we can enjoy the respect of others infinitely. )

Five taboos

First, blame (parents are not judges)

Home is a place to talk, not to reason. In the family, parents hold the absolute truth. Accusations can produce negative self-awareness. Blame breeds cowardice. Love has turned into harm. Explore and solve problems. Lead by example, teach by example.

Second, beat and scold (avoid violence)

Do not be violent under any circumstances. Produce resentment and revenge. Have rebellious inferiority complex. Forcing children to lie, violent inheritance. Parents will love and hate. Isolation method and on-site evacuation method can be used. Scolding children is often because they have emotions.

Third, humiliation (humiliation is mental violence)

Satire embarrassed the child. It hurts self-esteem and soul. It hurts the relationship between father and son, makes children heartless, and is hereditary and contagious.

Fourth, comparison (there are no two identical leaves in the world)

The tiredness of life comes partly from survival and partly from comparison. It is unreasonable to ask your own children by the standards of others' children. Comparison makes children feel inferior and helpless, hurting self-esteem and depressing. Comparison makes children doubt their parents' love. Do a good job of watching children's progress by yourself, and praise children with an eye on their advantages. Look at progress and growth.

Verb (short for verb) nagging (complaining is a disease)

Complaining is aimless telling. Say what you see, giving people the feeling of complaining. It is a disaster for children. It is necessary to train mothers to be deaf. Complaining interferes with normal parent-child communication. Lost respect for children.

Excellent people never complain.

Abnormal behavior motivation. Abnormal behavior is motivated. He may want to attract attention, or he may want to control himself.

The effect of education depends on the consistency of home-school education. Without this consistency, school education and school education process will collapse like a paper house.

A family without books will dull children's minds.

School education must be coordinated by family education, which is not only the foundation of school education, but also the continuation and sublimation of school education.

Without school education, family education and school education without family education cannot accomplish such a delicate task of educating people.

-Suhomlinski.

abstract

Education is a river full of sunshine, and love and wisdom are its riverbed.

Home and school are cooperative partners, and the success of cooperation is the success of education.

Only when parents study hard can children make progress every day.

Only by knowing children and knowing how to educate them can we educate them well.

Be yourself, achieve children, and grow up with children.

Reading comprehension practice is a process of repeated practice and trial.