The first drawback: children will also respond to their parents by beating and cursing, or get along with others by beating and cursing. The main way for children to learn is to imitate, observe the people around them and then imitate. For example, if you often throw socks around at home, your children will throw them around. For example, a child's mother often calls her father, and the child will learn from her mother to call her father.
Children have little contact with things and there is no way to tell right from wrong. They can only judge whether people around this matter can do it. When they see their parents do it, they feel that they can do it, and they will not judge whether it is good or bad.
Similarly, if you often beat and scold children, they will feel that they can do it. Then he will get along with his parents by beating and cursing, and he will also beat and scold other children when he gets along with other children.
As a parent, you must pay attention to your behavior. You are your child's first teacher. You shouldn't do what you don't want your child to do, and it's the same with beating and scolding your child.
The second disadvantage: children are easy to resist and the parent-child relationship is getting worse and worse. Parents will beat and scold their children, which will make them feel that their parents don't respect themselves. For children, they still care about self-esteem. If they feel that they have been violated, they will fight back.
Does adolescence have to be rebellious? Not necessarily. Rebellion is not the only way for people to grow up.
Children also have their own ideas and hope to be able to make their own decisions. Beating and scolding children will not make them afraid of you, but will make them want to defeat their parents and launch resistance.
Beating and scolding children must not be the best way of education, although the old saying goes: talent comes from under the stick.