Where is it like a child now? I have been studying interest classes since the middle class in kindergarten, such as eloquence class and painting class. Girls just dance or learn the piano. Of course, these interests are cultivated from childhood, but some children don't like them at all, and they are completely forced by adults. Some parents let their children attend remedial classes all day, even on weekends and saturdays. In the past, as long as we finished the homework assigned by the teacher, we would go to play on Saturday and Sunday. I think they really worked too hard and didn't have a happy childhood at all.
Not to mention elementary school, some parents even exaggerate and let their children attend remedial classes for several hours after school every day. I didn't come back until dark, and then I had to do my homework. Basically, I didn't go to bed until 1 1 or 12 at night, and I continued this life the next morning. An adult can't stand it, let alone a child. No wonder many middle school students are suffering from depression now. I think education in China is really bad. Learning is important, but children's mental health is more important. We should pay more attention to their psychological growth, rather than blindly pursuing achievements. The school takes exams all day. After three days of mock exams, the children studied in this tense atmosphere for a long time. If they don't do well in the exam, they will be criticized by their parents when they go home. Of course the teacher won't let you go. Let my son learn whatever he likes, and she will never sign up for any remedial classes. I think children are just having fun and don't have so many learning tasks, especially boys. If they get married in the future, the pressure will be particularly great, whether at work or at home.