First, doting will make children never grow up. No matter how old a child is, parents will always be his umbrella. For many parents, when their children grow up slowly, parents will give up some rights and let their children do something independently. Children educated by such parents will become more and more independent in society. They no longer depend on anyone, they can finish a certain job by themselves, and the future road will develop better and better. But for this group of doting parents, they always want to protect their children. If they don't trust their children to do something independently, they will gradually let these children give up their struggle, and their children will give up their studies because of their parents' help. One day, if their parents are gone, these children will become very insecure and can't find their place.
Second, doting will lead children astray. Every child makes mistakes when he is young. If a child is educated by his parents because he made a mistake, then the child will consider the consequences of this matter the next time he does it, and will give up many bad habits and become a good child in the process of growing up slowly. However, for these children brought up in a spoiled environment, they simply don't know what is right and what is wrong. They may infinitely magnify their childhood mistakes and lead their children astray.
Children who grow up in a doting environment will become willful. They always think they are the boss, and no one can restrain themselves. It will make fewer and fewer friends around you, and it will also make more people have negative views on them. It is difficult for such people to gain a foothold in society.