Is this violent tendency only available at the age of thirteen? I don't think so. Children's personality and psychology are not formed at one time, but should be caused by long-term environmental effects. Parents' excessive indulgence or excessive discipline will have a negative impact on their children. Spoiling and rude education methods will make children simply deal with problems instead of understanding and digesting them with wisdom. Therefore, the formation of violence must have his growing environment and psychological hints. As parents, we should find out the children's movements as soon as possible and help them have a psychological orientation as soon as possible. This age is the early adolescence, and children who are about to grow up will definitely have restless emotions and rebellious behaviors. As a parent, can you communicate with your child and say "calm down and see if there is a better way" so that your child can make a judgment with such patience. After thinking about the plan, it must be an ideal plan, which may gradually help children find their own life orientation and direction and regain their confidence in their wisdom.

You can't force it at this time, and you can't follow him too much, because he won't listen to you, and following him will make him learn badly. So at this time, you can only wait patiently. 13-year-old children have understood the truth. You can write to him and write down the problems you have to deal with with with him every day where he can see them. He won't accept this method at first. ) you can only stick to it slowly. With this time, you have to do something to make your children admire you. Children of this age just look down on their parents and think they know everything. There is also to see if we can find ways to let children get in touch with some children who have studied well. Generally, children go downhill because they can't keep up with their studies and are not interested, which leads to a lack of interest in learning. You can also communicate with your child's parents through teachers who are in contact with your child, but you must not let your child know. If you know, it will be counterproductive. Being a parent is hard. I wish you success!