However, due to the pressure of life, there has been little communication between married couples. How do children play and learn to communicate? Father thinks that he works hard every day and has little time to accompany his children, so he should play with his children at home and enhance the direct feelings between father and son, father and daughter. Mothers, on the other hand, think that children are brought up by themselves, and they have great responsibility for their daily life and study, and they also have detailed arrangements for their daily life and study.
I am looking forward to my child's success, so I am very strict with my child. I feel very uneasy and angry about my father's behavior of conniving at his children's play and not studying. Because the attitude is different, the arrangement is different. At this time, parents will have conflicts, and many times it is the children who suffer. This is caused by different environment, different contact with children and different expectations for children. Then both husband and wife should discuss their expectations of children, and then confirm that they want children.
The most important way to raise children in the future is to determine an absolute concept of sovereign education in front of children, and the latter two can be discussed slowly. But parents should never quarrel because their children are in front of them, which will do great harm to their children. Husband and wife can tell each other their own educational ideas and arrangements, consult each other, understand each other's different love for their children, and reach a balance point. A harmonious family is the best environment for children to grow up.