1. Stop loss in time is the best policy.

Don't listen to him any more, those disguised words will only stain your ears, and don't just let your guard down and let go of your pain to forgive him, which will only make you hurt again with great probability.

2. Give up dependence on him

Many girls pursued by love rat have their own routines. Love rat, for example, likes to capture little girls with sweet words and knows how to say good night every day to impress those cold girls and make them get used to their existence. Therefore, love rat hurt them. The best way for girls to deal with love rat is to find a way to give up their dependence on him.

For example, set a time period for yourself and tell yourself that you must not visit him during this time, so that you can clearly understand the essence of love rat, so that you can' detoxify', and then let yourself develop other behavior habits through emotional transfer, and forget love rat, such as setting a small goal for yourself, reading books, keeping a diary, sinochem, traveling and so on.

Get out of the shadow of lovelorn.

Being hurt by love rat is fatal to many girls in love, but the best way to deal with love rat after being lovelorn is to forget him and start a new life. Maybe you can give yourself some psychological hints, or seek the help of a friend's professional emotional counselor. It's not terrible to be lovelorn. What's terrible is that you have lost yourself since then.

4. love rat isolated harassment.

Many women have been hurt by love rat thousands of times, but every time they are hurt, they just need to be coaxed. Knowing that he is love rat, they can remind themselves to stay away from him for one second, and forget their pain under his sweet talk offensive for the next. This can only make love rat continue his evil deeds. Therefore, it is suggested that girls resolutely hack love rat after breaking up with him and isolate all his harassment.

5. Make yourself live a better life

Many love rat feel very attractive, and many girls are willing to be with themselves even if they have been hurt thousands of times. That vanity will make love rat look proud, so the best way for girls to deal with love rat is to slap him, wake him up and tell him,' You are not loved by everyone, at least I don't want you!'

Of course, I don't want you to slap love rat. I mean, to deal with love rat, I want him to realize that he can still live beautifully without you, and he is more natural and unrestrained. This requires you to constantly improve your personal charm. When you are promoted in all aspects, you will also find that love rat really has nothing to rely on. If a woman wants to live happily, she still has to rely on herself.