1. Tell the girl that no one is allowed to touch the place where underwear is covered, even parents;

If someone does this, they should tell their parents at the first time. Of course, this also applies to boys.

2. When children can take a bath by themselves, parents had better not help their children to take a bath;

Whether a father bathes his daughter or a parent bathes his son, to a certain extent, it will distort children's understanding of their own gender-taking the behavior of "naked in front of others" as normal.

3. When the child wants to urinate when going out, parents should try to let the child "solve" in the public toilet;

There is really no way, but also tell the children afterwards that they can't expose their "genitals" in public.

4. Treat children's curiosity about sex correctly, and don't avoid talking about some sexual knowledge because children are still young; For example: sexual organs, animal sexual intercourse, etc.

Sometimes, it is precisely because children are still young that parents should give positive and generous answers, but they will not let their children think too much;

Otherwise, the more secretive the parents are, the more mysterious the children feel, and the more they want to find out for themselves, leaving hidden dangers of sexual safety.

(2) The harmonious relationship between husband and wife determines children's gender cognition.

1. If a girl/boy lives in a harmonious and happy family, when she sees her mother/father, she gets full respect, support, understanding and tolerance from her husband/wife;

Then, in children's gender cognition, they will be positively motivated; She/he will think that as a woman/man, she deserves to be cared for and respected, or has the ability and responsibility to support and care for each other;

On the contrary, they will think that they don't deserve to be loved, or they don't deserve to be understood and respected, which may eventually lead to self-gender cognition of "inferiority".

(C) to avoid bringing children into the gender "misunderstanding."

For boys who often stay with their mothers, mothers should be as masculine as possible, and don't do too many "feminine" actions in front of children (boys).

For example, it is very inappropriate to say "Come on, baby, be good, mommy will hug you" to a son who has already entered primary school, or "make a gesture" in front of the child, because it may hinder the development of the child's masculine character.