Last week, I read a short story called Children's Heart. This story is about a kind-hearted and helpful child. Although his family is poor, he is still willing to send candles to others. To this end, the woman changed her view of him. Once, there was no electricity in that area. The woman had to light the candle. After a while, she heard someone knocking at the door. She knew at a glance that it was a neighbor's child. He asked nervously, "Do you have any candles at home?" The woman thought: Is his family so poor that there are no candles? Never lend it to him, lest you depend on them. Then he roared and said, "No!" Just as she was about to close the door, the child smiled lovingly and said, "I knew you didn't, so my mother asked me to bring you one." The woman was moved to tears and held the little boy in her arms. How touching, yes! If everyone has a helpful and grateful heart in life, the world will always be spring!

2. Find a few inspirational stories and feelings.

1, broken arrow

If you don't believe in your will, you'll never be a general.

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. " This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers.

The son is beaming and greedily speculates about the appearance of the shaft and arrow, as if the arrow whizzed past his ear and the enemy commander died in response. Sure enough, Bao Jian's son is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver.

I've been fighting with a broken arrow on my shoulder! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed.

The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army.

Blowing away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your will, you will never be a general."

How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, pin your hopes on children; Put happiness on her husband; Insure the crew with life insurance ...

Tips:

You are an arrow. If you want it to be tough, sharp, piercing, sharpening and saving, you can only be yourself.

2. The value of life

Don't let yesterday's depression cover up tomorrow's dreams!

At a seminar, a famous speaker didn't make an opening speech, but he had a $20 bill in his hand.

Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands. He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.

"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or sloppy, you are still priceless. "

Tips:

The value of life lies not in what we do or who we make friends with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!

It's beautiful to hold your head up and chest out.

Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.

Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although Jenny doesn't believe it, she is very happy. She couldn't help raising her head, eager to show it to everyone. It doesn't matter if she accidentally bumped into someone when she went out. Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, how beautiful you look with your head held high!" "The teacher lovingly patted her on the shoulder and said.

That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she came out of the jewelry store. Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance.

Tips:

Whether you are rich or poor, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes.

4. Draw a leaf for life

As long as you believe, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever.

American writer O Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf:

In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from the room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch. The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.

Tips:

Life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!

5.flying spiders

-Faith is an indomitable force. When you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed.

One day, I found a black spider making a big net between two eaves in the backyard. Can spiders fly? Otherwise, from this cornice to that cornice, there are more than ten feet wide in the middle. How is the first line pulled? Later, I found that the spider took many detours. Start from a cornice, tie a knot, walk down the wall, climb forward step by step, be careful, cock your tail, don't let the silk touch the sand or other objects on the ground, walk through the clearing, climb the cornice opposite, and then tighten the silk. It will be the same in the future.

Tips:

Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in midair. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. Such an achievement reminds people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.

3. Inspirational stories and insights

1, classic inspirational story

Beggar: "Can you give me 100 yuan?"

Passerby: "I only have eighty dollars."

Beggar: "Then you owe me twenty dollars!" " "

Feeling: Some people always feel that God owes them, and that God has not given enough and is not good enough. Greed has replaced gratitude.

4. He Shaoshao listens to children's stories. What have we realized?

The feeling is that as long as the opinions are correct, we should accept them with an open mind and don't take different attitudes because of people's age.

5. What enlightenment does the story of the old carpenter losing his watch bring us?

There is a story: a carpenter is working in his yard. His business is very good. Every day from morning till night, the yard is full of saws and hammers, and the ground is full of shavings and sawdust. One night, the carpenter and his disciples stood on a high platform and saw a big tree. Pulling, pulling, pulling, accidentally, the watch in my hand snapped and fell into the sawdust on the ground. Watches were very valuable at that time. The carpenter hurried down to look for it. But there are many shavings on the ground, and I can't find them. It was night, and many of his disciples came to help him find it with lanterns. We searched and searched together, but we couldn't find the small watch. When the carpenter saw it, there was nothing he could do. Forget it, keep the change, lock the door and wait until dawn tomorrow. The carpenter packed his bags and got ready for bed. After a while, his little son came running: "Hello! Dad, look, look, I found my watch! " The carpenter was very surprised: "we are so old that we can't even find a small watch with lanterns." How can you find it? " Chapter 1: There is no stock in my heart: how to look at the stock market 17 The child said, "You are all gone, and I am playing alone in the yard. No one is working, and the yard is quiet.

6. Analyze children's growth stories from the perspective of parents.

This is an article that I summed up from my personal experience. I hope it helps you.

There are no bad children, only bad parental laws.

Parents are full of complaints about rebellious teenagers. In fact, there are no bad children at all, only parents are wrong in the law. As a parent, if your teenager has problems, you can find the reasons from yourself, not from the children.

According to my own research on an educational project about teenagers' problems, the following are some main evidences that some wrong parents' laws lead to teenagers' problems:

1) The relationship between parents and children is tense and even hostile.

Parents adopt an authoritative system for their children, treat them with orders and don't respect them. Tension and even hostility hinder the communication between parents and children. Frightened by the powerful authority of parents, children often choose to vent their emotions in friends' homes and leave their parents and their control.

2) Parents expect too much from their children.

Parents' high expectations of their children have caused great psychological pressure on them. Many parents expect their children to realize their dreams and become the top of the school. Parents often measure their children by their own success criteria. When children can't meet their expectations, they adopt a policy of excessive pressure and criticism, which seriously hits their self-confidence. In this way, children feel that they are nothing, nothing, and can never please their parents and meet their requirements.

3) Too much criticism and too little praise and encouragement.

Children who are encouraged can usually maximize their potential because they are full of confidence in themselves. If parents criticize their children's shortcomings and mistakes blindly, their children will become more and more negative and lose confidence in themselves. If it is serious, their children will be destroyed and will never recover.

4) Parents often treat their children with humiliating tactics.

When children have shortcomings or mistakes, or fail to meet their parents' requirements, parents often push their children into the shame trap and make them feel ashamed. Parents will put their own efforts and sacrifices on their children and accuse them of failing to live up to their efforts, making them feel ashamed and regretful. But as a result, children are becoming more and more rebellious because their self-feeling is always negative.

As a mother of three children, I made the above mistakes, which made one of my daughters, 16 years old, a juvenile problem. Later, I attended a series of courses and work camps for parents with adolescent problems. There, I learned from myself why my daughter made a mistake. My daughter and I study together in the youth problem education camp. When I make a change, the interaction between us becomes much easier. My daughter's thoughts and emotional intelligence have also improved by leaps and bounds. After the education camp, she skipped classes and ran away from home. Her daughter, problem of juvenile, who failed in all subjects, got a high school diploma, went to college and entered a medical school. Now she has graduated as a respected medical practitioner and opened her own clinic in California.

Through this experience and study, when children have problems at home or at school, I learned to look for reasons from parents' laws. My conclusion is that bad children are not born, but are caused by parents' legal mistakes.

7. What does the story of looking for a gold watch in the barn tell us?

A farmer accidentally lost a valuable gold watch in the barn when he was patrolling it. He couldn't find it anywhere, so he posted a notice at the gate of the farm, asked for help, and offered a reward of 100 dollars.

Faced with the temptation of rewarding people, they all searched desperately, but there were mountains of grain and bundles of straw in the barn. Finding a gold watch in it is as difficult as finding a needle in a haystack.

After sunset, people were too busy to find the gold watch. They either complain that the gold watch is too small, or that the barn is too big and there is too much straw. They gave up the temptation of $65,438+000 one by one. After everyone left, only one child in rags continued to look for it. He hasn't eaten all day, hoping to find a gold watch before dark to solve the family's eating difficulties.

As it was getting dark, the child continued to search in the barn. Suddenly, he found a strange sound "tick-tock, tick-tock" ringing all the time after all the noise calmed down. The child suddenly stopped watching. The barn is quieter and the ticking is very clear. The child followed the sound to find the gold watch and finally got 100 dollars.

Success, like the golden watch in the barn, has already existed around us and is everywhere in life. As long as we keep looking, we will find it.

8. Reflections on Reading Looking for a Pocket Watch

Thinking about Looking for Pocket Watch

The king left his pocket watch on the farm. He ordered everyone on the farm to find him a pocket watch and give him a reward if he found it.

After a busy day, everyone can't find their pocket watches and lose confidence. At this moment, a little boy thought of a good idea. He used the quiet night to find the king's beloved pocket watch and its ticking. Finally, the clever boy was rewarded by the king.

In this story, most people on the farm are actively looking for pocket watches, but there is no good way, which wastes a lot of physical strength and can't be found. The little boy found his pocket watch easily. This stems from his good idea of judging the position of pocket watch by sound. This story tells us that we must be calm and use our brains actively in order to find the best way to solve the problem.

9. The story of kindergarten children knowing time.

A good beginning is half the battle. 40 days of pre-school life has benefited me a lot. First of all, thank you for your help. After working in kindergarten for more than 40 days, I learned how to manage students and how to establish a good relationship between teachers and students. Let me realize that our teachers need to constantly enrich and improve themselves. To give children a bowl of water, you have to prepare a bucket of water. I deeply felt the importance of kindergarten education and the care and dedication of leaders to education. As a new kindergarten teacher, I came to the kindergarten with enthusiasm. Facing the lovely face, I am confused and have a new understanding of early childhood education: my feelings about the new kindergarten. First of all, I have a brand-new knowledge and understanding of the characteristics of kindergarten education. When I first entered kindergarten, I was tired of dealing with the children's discipline in class, the safety after class and going to the toilet every day. Teaching activities in two or three classes a day and playing games all day are very different from what I imagined when I stood on the podium and talked about Kan Kan. Suddenly, I was at a loss, at a loss, at a loss, unable to find my own value, and felt that I had completely become a senior nanny. At night, when listening to the video of the national excellent preschool teachers, I suddenly regretted it: games are an instinct of people, and toys are children's angels. Games are the main way for children to learn. It is the essential meaning of "kindergarten takes games as its basic activity" to organically integrate the relationship between games and teaching, take games as the basic way of kindergarten teaching and let children learn lively in games. Let the children learn while playing. Through role games, building games, intelligence games, sports games, music games, performance games, etc. We can play our wisdom, knowledge and habits in the game and play a small communicator. Give more time back to children and let them play freely and grow up happily in more game activities. Secondly, the goals and methods of preschool teachers' professional growth are clarified. Many people think that kindergarten teachers are just fooling children, and their knowledge requirements are not high. Anyone can do it. I used to be one of these people. But when I really became a kindergarten teacher, I was surprised to find that my professional teachers college graduate was not a qualified professional kindergarten teacher. In reflection and confusion, through communication with old teachers, I know that to grow into a professional preschool teacher, we must first establish a professional, happy and young educational concept. Take preschool education as a career, fight for ability, and take preschool education as a career, and fight for the best. Secondly, care for children, recognize children, talk on an equal footing, form a cooperative community of learning with children, and be good at catching the "ball" thrown by children. Thirdly, he has a solid artistic talent in playing, singing, reading, writing and drawing, grasps various learning methods, and is good at planning, organizing and implementing activities in a timely and reasonable manner. Finally, we should constantly practice reflection, constantly learn from ourselves, be good at summing up, be brave in innovation and achieve lifelong learning. Third, kindergarten teachers should cultivate professional happiness. When we repeat the same work every day, when we face unreasonable parents, when we don't eat children's naughty hard and soft, and when we make efforts but don't return, job burnout will more or less float in our hearts. Yes, who hasn't encountered such a situation? However, as kindergarten teachers, we are the closest people to angels. How can we bear to be irresponsible in the face of that innocent face? How dare you hurt them? Therefore, I want to adjust my mentality and face job burnout correctly. First of all, straighten your mind and adjust your desires. Because the desire is too high, when we can't reach it, we will always be bored and tired. We will ensure a normal heart, we will be lucky, not my life, let nature take its course. Second, cherish possession. We are miserable because we only see what we have lost, but never carefully examine what we have gained. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. When it rains cats and dogs in your world, how do you know that beautiful rainbows will not appear? As the head teacher of our kindergarten, I know that the responsibility is great, so I must study hard and constantly improve myself. Feelings about the new kindergarten. Teachers are engineers of the human soul and the noblest profession in the world. Preschool teachers are the pioneers of education and the first teachers of children. As we all know, the initial education has a far-reaching impact on children's future. We are the cultivators of tomorrow's flowers. I will be an excellent preschool teacher with the aim of "all for children, all for children, all for children". To teach students well, a new teacher must first have a good attitude and then give himself a suitable position. First, start with small things and do a good job in teaching bit by bit. Educate and guide our children according to their age characteristics and development level, so that they can grow up not only healthily, but also healthily. Second, we should keep learning. Learning is a very easy thing for our young new teachers, but the most important thing is how to better apply what we have learned to practice. We should not only learn professional knowledge, but also learn from every child and find that every child is different. Learn from each teacher's excellent quality and practical experience. Have good experience and good teaching methods in future teaching, and share and discuss with other teachers. Thirdly, in teaching, we should choose a better and simpler way of education and seek happiness from cooperation with other teachers. For our new teacher, innovation is very difficult. In the field of education, we hold high the banner of education foundation and innovation and reform. For our young new teachers, the burden on our shoulders is very heavy. Fourth, the teacher's morality requires us to be a model, love our jobs, love our students, and be rigorous in our studies. I don't have much experience, just a little personal experience after studying. I think I will study hard in my future work and life and gradually increase my experience in real life. I believe that I will become an excellent kindergarten teacher in the near future, which fully embodies the concrete performance and expectation of our new teachers' professional ethics. In short, after more than 40 days of teaching, I have learned a lot of truth and knowledge. How do you feel about the new kindergarten in the future? In my work and life, I will continue to work hard to watch for children in rural areas and dedicate my light and heat to children in rural areas.