1. When the child has a beating behavior, first take the child to a quiet environment and tell him gently and firmly that this behavior is not allowed. Of course, other family members also need to cooperate. Don't make any response, let a parent handle it.

It really doesn't matter if children hit people. The point is that they can't tell their own behavior. When children are unwilling to hit their parents and their hands are heavy, parents should shout out pain in time and make a painful expression. At this time, they can hold his arm and pat it, so that the child can know to what extent it is lightly beaten and to what extent it hurts. When the child can pat gently, the parents express their approval.

3. High-quality companionship in daily life. When the child has anxiety and fear, hug the child in time and give him a sense of security. When the child has something that can't be solved, parents should respond at the first time and work with the child to find a solution. When parents pay enough attention to their children, then children don't need to get it through problematic behavior.

Both parents should play an exemplary role in the family. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. Before educating children, adults should first deal with their emotions.