Ten methods of children's family education
0 1, set an example
Example is an important way to influence and educate children with other people's good thoughts and behaviors. For example, classmates, neighbors, teachers, heroes and model figures, positive figures in literary and artistic works, and excellent qualities of revolutionary leaders are all objects for children to learn and imitate. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a far-reaching impact on children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.
02, environmental edification
Parents should consciously create a good living environment for their children to be infected and edified. Family is the main place where children live. Parents should organize their own lives, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish an orderly life order, and cultivate children's beautiful sentiments.
03, criticism and punishment
Criticism and punishment are the negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we should first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive. Punishment is mainly deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.
04, guide the arrangement of life order
A good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.
05. Persuasion education
The specific methods of persuasion education: First, talk. Parents should put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, so that children can understand certain truth. Speak with pertinence and flexibility, and have a pleasant attitude. Don't be condescending and cynical. The second is discussion, where parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should have the courage to admit that their views are incorrect.
06, the actual exercise
The content of practical exercise is quite extensive, such as adapting to the surrounding environment, exercising, taking care of yourself, housework, working independently, being polite, socializing and so on. To carry out actual exercise, we should first let the children know the purpose (why), put forward specific requirements (how to do it), and encourage them to overcome difficulties and stick to it. The content of exercises should be suitable for children's age characteristics and personality characteristics, and the tasks and requirements given should be based on children's actual ability and appropriate. Children should be allowed to make mistakes in practice and not be too demanding. Parents can't stop exercising because they are afraid of their children suffering.
07, praise and reward
Praise and reward is to affirm and praise children's thoughts and behaviors. Through affirmation and praise, strengthen children's enterprising spirit and sense of honor, and strive for greater progress. Praise and reward should be realistic, timely and explain the reasons, and should be based on spiritual rewards, supplemented by material rewards.
08, guide extracurricular reading
Guide children to read books, newspapers and magazines, and learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of children's reading, discuss with children, and guide children to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and get spiritual cultivation through reading.
09. Use home TV
When TV enters the family, children can gain a lot of knowledge from watching TV, increase their knowledge and make full use of it. But be careful: you can't have no choice and don't spend too long. After watching TV, you'd better talk to your children and discuss the TV content.
10, leading children out to contact the society.
Take children to parks, scenic spots, shops, factories, and rural areas, or visit classmates, relatives, and friends for social interaction, so that they can broaden their horizons, get in touch with society, and get to know society.
Content expansion: the correct method of family education
1, set an example and experience the power of example: children are very imitative, and parents' words and deeds can easily become the content of their imitation. Therefore, if you want your child to have a good learning environment, as a parent, you should set an example, and you should pay attention to setting a good example for your child, whether you are interacting with others or cooperating with others. Children will naturally learn well after their parents' correct practices affect them for a long time.
2. Pass on love and teach children to care about others: children's hearts are sensitive and delicate. They can learn to care about others from the process of helping others and get happiness from it. Over time, it is easy to form a' good habit' of helping and caring for others. Therefore, parents can encourage their children to participate in some charitable activities or do some volunteer activities on weekdays. Even if the child is still young and doesn't know much about the concept of charity, it will be of great benefit to the child's character development after long-term contact.
3. Combination of work and rest, not depriving children of the right to play: Many parents know the truth of combining work and rest, but once they find that their children's academic performance has declined slightly, they just ask their children all day, or force them to spend more time studying and reviewing, depriving them of time to play. In fact, children also need some leisure time to play, which is good for their health and more efficient in their studies. I hope every parent can realize and really do this.
4. Give priority to encouragement, with less blame and punishment: here, I will tell you a typical example. When a child is doing four math problems of addition and subtraction, he gets three right and one wrong. After seeing the child's mistake, his parents have been clinging to it. The child was puzzled by this and asked his parents why they only saw the wrong questions and didn't see the right ones. This case tells us that parents often only remember the mistakes made by their children, how severe they are, how much they blame and how little they encourage them. Therefore, I hope that parents all over the world can avoid such a wrong educational concept.
5. Listen attentively and truly feel the child's inner world: nothing is easier than this to express the child's concern and love for his parents. If parents can be good listeners, not only with their ears, but also with their hearts, and can stop what they are busy with when their children tell you, children will feel your attention and respect for them and will often share some secrets with you in the future. Therefore, parents should learn to always listen to their children's voices, seriously understand their real world, and let their children truly feel their parents' care.