Many parents are under great pressure now. The greater the pressure, the easier it is to release the pressure by yelling at children. At this time, it is difficult for many parents to control their temper, vent all their temper on their children, and it is easy for children to suffer a lot of grievances. In fact, when educating children, parents need patient guidance and education, try to be less angry with their children and communicate with them patiently. Otherwise, being angry with children often will do great harm to their future growth:
First, affect children's future.
Parents habitually lose their temper and solve problems in this way. Children are also easy to learn to imitate, and it is easier to imitate people and things around them in early childhood.
If parents often lose their temper with their children, children will gradually like to lose their temper in this living environment and use it to solve various problems in life and work when they grow up.
However, losing one's temper can't fundamentally solve the problem, it will only make people around you feel disgusted and affect the harmony of interpersonal relationships.
Second, it affects parent-child relationship and family happiness.
Parents often lose their temper with their children, which will easily lead to the deterioration of parent-child relationship, the formation of a negative mentality of self-denial and even the establishment of interpersonal relationships with others in the future.
Children who have been scolded by their parents for a long time often have more negative emotions, making them doubt whether they are their parents' own, and often have more sense of inferiority in the process of growing up.
Children who are often beaten and scolded often have this idea in their hearts: I often do something wrong, and my mother either scolds me or hits me. My mother certainly doesn't love me or like me. On the road of children's growth, it will cause a great negative shadow to children.
In the process of educating children, parents must pay attention to controlling their emotions, try their best to solve problems, and don't let children have serious psychological problems because of too much beating and cursing during their growth.
Of course, many parents think that beating and cursing is the most correct way to educate their children. Before hitting or scolding children, please read the following story:
Educate children
Just like taking a snail for a walk, it needs our delicate care.
most of the time
Only by raising slowly can we teach better children.
Crashing will only make the child deformed.
If you can't help being angry with the child next time,
Please read the following poem first.
Don't let the child become a tearful snail.
Text | Liu Wei
God sent us to earth,
Complete the task:
Holding a snail,
We don't know what to do.
That's the problem,
We can't always get along with it!
Are we going too fast?
Walk a little at a time ...
We rush it, scare it, say it,
The snail looked at us with sorry eyes.
In fact, I have tried my best!
We pull hard and even kick it ...
It's hurt and sweaty.
Still panting and crawling forward …
Sometimes,
We were particularly angry,
"Why did God let us lead a snail?"
When God is not looking,
Let go of this snail.
At this time,
We smelled the flowers. ...
Feel the breeze, so gentle!
Slowly,
We hear birds singing and insects singing. ...
I also saw the stars all over the sky!
That's when we discovered,
God wants us to take it for a walk!
Educate children
Just want to live a slow snail,
Having children,
Accompany them through childhood and youth,
Sometimes,
We were so angry that we lost our patience.
But,
He showed us the beauty of life,
Children's innocence, kindness, uniqueness, frankness …
Slow down and experience it slowly!
Experience the beauty of life with children,
Patiently listen to the child's inner voice,
Understand children's whimsy.
Give yourself some time,
You will find many things you don't know.
Children are the cutest people in the world that we have ever met.
To all busy parents.
Don't let the child become a tearful snail.
At the end of reading
Will you relax?
Are you going to be angry with the baby again?
Do you think everything happened with a little luck?
There is also a village.
The child is his own.
Companionship is the longest confession.
The child's eyes are frank and the perspective is unique. Parents should slow down, put their emotions aside, accompany their children to experience the taste of life quietly, listen to the voice of their inner world, leave some time for themselves and find some space from the restless and noisy world. This achievement is not only for children, but also for all busy parents who can't help losing their temper with their children. Don't let your child turn into a tearful snail.