2. Vaguely awakened sexual consciousness, eager to communicate with the opposite sex. Some girls change clothes three times a day to attract the attention of the opposite sex and show their uniqueness everywhere.
3. Imitation and attempt, bold practice of sexual life. At every stage of girls' sexual psychological development, there is a very complicated and contradictory mentality: they pay attention to the behavior of the opposite sex and hope to get the favor of the opposite sex, but they bury this desire in their hearts, showing formality and indifference, reserve and shyness. They masturbate to masturbate, often in the interweaving of sin and pleasure.
Aipin. com () combed and measured the sexual psychological maturity of these prostitutes with the sexual psychological survey scale designed by Professor Cao of China-Japan Friendship Hospital. Results: 435 people (70%) scored below 15, 15-25, 185 (29%), and 6 people (1%) scored above 25. It shows that although these prostitutes have high frequency of sexual intercourse, most of them are immature, and their sexual behavior is mainly driven by sexual desire, without love as the basis.
The traditional idea that masturbation is not serious makes them feel ashamed of their behavior, but sexual agitation makes them in an uncontrollable state. They need to talk, but they can't find bosom friends. Girls with strong dependence need more care and help from school and family at this time.
There may be two unhealthy tendencies in the spontaneous development of sexual psychology: first, driven by sexual instinct and sexual psychology, out of ignorance and curiosity, premature sexual experience and sexual attempt. At the beginning of adolescent sexual intercourse, there will be two situations:
First, influenced by the feudal concept of chastity, I thought I was unfaithful and unclean, and I was burdened with heavy regrets, unable to lift my head, or broken pots and falls, which was miserable;
Second, sexual desire starts prematurely, which leads to a violent increase in sexual desire and sexual excitement and falls into a state of pursuing sexual pleasure. This is the way some girls go from sexual experience to sexual crime. Sexual crimes can easily form dynamic stereotypes and become stubborn sexual habits, which are difficult to change. This is why some girls can't turn back after fooling around with male hooligans at night, no matter how hard their parents beat them, scold them, turn off their phones and beg for help.
The second bad tendency is that some girls regard adolescent sexual psychology as ugly, have a strong sense of shame and guilt, and regard themselves as indecent people. They form a closed mentality, loneliness, inferiority and introversion. Nowadays, some unmarried women in their forties spent their adolescence during the Cultural Revolution. Their sexual psychology is severely suppressed, so that they can't have normal social interaction with the opposite sex in the future and enter marriage life.
The maturity of human sexual psychology depends on the maturity of sexual physiology, and the maturity of sexual physiology does not mean the maturity of sexual psychology. The sign of sexual psychological maturity is that the occurrence of sexual behavior is based on sex, and it is the combination of spirit and body, sex and love. Therefore, the maturity of sexual psychology is closely related to the maturity of social psychology. In our society, human sexual behavior is not only natural, but also social and spiritual.
The sexual psychology of adolescent girls is in an immature state and has great plasticity. Through active education, they can cultivate and shape healthy sexual psychology. If left unchecked, it may slide into the abyss of sexual crimes. The investigation in Sichuan shows that sexual life has long been an important feature of prostitutes, and some of them have sex at the age of 12 and 13.
What kind of person you have sex with and how to behave in sexual behavior all reflect a person's sense of society, responsibility and personality characteristics. The maturity of sexual psychology needs a process, which requires constant adjustment and adaptation between the two sexes, especially the constant sublimation of emotions, in order to achieve a perfect state.
China scholars' research on sexual psychology is still in its infancy, and the number is relatively small. Whether sexual psychology is healthy or not is not important to people's sexual behavior. Therefore, even some schools with good adolescent sex education are limited to the education of middle school students' physical health knowledge, and rarely involve sexual psychological problems. However, sexual psychological education is indispensable for shaping girls' healthy personality. Education in this field should be constantly innovated and developed step by step.