Personally, I think students love their teachers because teachers love their students. In one year's correspondence with students, I clearly realized that a teacher who loves students will definitely give them full respect and become their bosom friends. Because teachers don't make friends with students and don't respect students, there will be no love and recognition from students.
In education and teaching, although teachers and students have different identities, they are completely equal in personality. Mr. Tao Xingzhi said, "Only equality can completely eliminate the gap between people, and the mutual influence of personality will occur." "Teachers and students are both teachers and students and partners. Therefore, teachers should put down their dignity, abandon authority and "good words", recognize the personality characteristics of today's students and the inherent potential of each student, attach importance to communication with students, and enhance teacher-student interaction.
Treating students equally, teachers should also pay attention to "frugality". For example, when we need students' help, teachers should use the tone of consultation or start with "please" and "sorry". For students' support and respect, we should also give them a reward, say "thank you" to them at the right time, or express our feelings in time.
For example, a teacher talked to a student several times after class to get rid of this problem. In order to get rid of bad habits, the student actually sealed his mouth with tape in class. The teacher touched his head and said in front of the whole class, "You are determined to change your spirit and touch the teacher. Thank you for your cooperation! But what you did made the teacher very distressed. The teacher believes that you can get rid of your own problems by your own perseverance in a certain year. " Immediately, the teacher carefully tore off the tape. I think this is because the teacher can affirm him and encourage him. Even if the student has problems occasionally, as long as the teacher gives him a look, he will understand immediately.
Some people may think that it is natural and unworthy for students to help teachers complete their education and teaching tasks. However, if our teachers can treat students equally and politely, we can enhance teachers' affinity, close the relationship between teachers and students and create a good teaching atmosphere for education and teaching.