Some people say that children are like a blank sheet of paper, and what they are taught is what they are. In fact, children are more like seeds. The germination of seeds and the growth of seedlings need both self and environment.

2. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude

Children's own conditions are materials, and environmental conditions are teaching. We can try all kinds of environments to make life possible, but don't be demanding. Conforming to nature, cultivating self-cultivation means teaching students in accordance with their aptitude.

3. Teaching without words

There is a saying called "do what you didn't say", which is to create an environment for children to feel, and what they experience is what they really learn. The deeper the intention of education is hidden, the better the effect of education will be.

Be yourself

What kind of person do you want your children to be? What kind of person should you be first. Children may not listen to you, but they will imitate you. Just be yourself. This sentence applies not only to parents, but also to teachers.

5. What if the child is rebellious?

Children's rebellion is difficult to control, but it is actually improper education. The child wants to pursue what the teacher forbids, but he doesn't like it. It's just that the teacher's prohibition has caused them resistance. Where there is oppression, there is resistance. This is the philosophy of life.

Reflect on yourself

When your child's behavior makes you sad, angry and upset, you must ask yourself, "What's wrong with me? Let children do this kind of behavior, so as to conduct self-review and change themselves, instead of teaching children and changing them.

Update your ideas.

Our birth has its own value. Who am I? Who do you want to be? A person's value is the answer. Live your value, you are complete, you don't need others' approval, you are the answer. It is said that life is not as high as ideal, but the fact is that you can only get what you believe.

8. Build confidence

What kind of person do you want to be? You set this ideal there. Then establish the belief of realizing my ideal: I can realize my ideal through my wisdom and hard work. Then use actions to find evidence in life to prove that your beliefs are correct, so as to make your beliefs more firm. Where there is confidence, there is success.