My daughter is now studying in Jiangxi Art Vocational College. When she graduated from primary school and was about to enter junior high school and set foot on the so-called second starting line of life, I let her leave that starting line and run in the direction of art according to her own characteristics, interests and wishes. I am happy for my children and myself. This is a sunny road. "Sunshine Boys and Girls Grow Up in the Sunshine" sings Qian Qian's wish to be a parent. Regrettably, the cheerful rhythm sung in songs is often bound by the distance between reality and ideal, which becomes a helpless groan. "The primary and middle school students are really suffering now, and I want to send my junior high school daughter abroad …" This sentence actually comes from a friend of mine who is the head of the education department. I feel sad at the same time, and I seem to get a little "comfort", although this comfort seems a bit unfair. When compulsory education is more and more like a compulsory subject under the banner of exam-oriented education, the unchangeable curriculum can make a child study the same course consistently from primary school to high school graduation 12 years. Today's high school students are studying courses that used to be offered only by universities. No one told us why a person can't use those abstruse mathematics in his later life and work, but it's not enough to say that he has to learn calculus from elementary school to high school! A person may never go abroad, but he will begin to receive English education in primary school. Once basic education is regarded as professional education, the result is ridiculous. A child from China who has studied English for 12 years can make American adults feel sorry for themselves, but his English application level is not as good as that of a worker who has stayed abroad for two years. ) When quality education is distorted into a fashion by industrialization, when an industrial chain calls "fun mathematics" originally a game "Olympics", and even an incredible Olympic language-Olympic English is derived, countless poor children and their equally poor and helpless parents go to various cram schools regardless of holidays, day and night, and equip their teeth with 18 kinds of martial arts. Learning has lost its original fun, and "quality education" has not brought more aesthetic feeling. Copier-style cram school training classes have made many children machines that parents can use to display their talents at any time, but they have failed to show their innocence on their vacant or even indifferent faces. They will bow mechanically in the taekwondo training class, but they don't know how to greet others on the road, even if it is a soft look. They will shout "I am the best" in the "bilingual" cram school, but they will not wash a pair of socks for themselves at home ... The children are driven by an invisible hand and bite the bullet to learn those courses and "talents" that don't matter whether they like it or not. The invisible hand is called the college entrance examination. Some primary and secondary school teachers have a very popular concept: good students and poor students. If you don't do well in any subject, you will lose everything, not to mention those who are only excellent students (even if they are extremely excellent). Words such as "stupid", "unruly" and "rotten wood cannot be carved" are all for them. A teacher with a little "self-restraint" only needs a contemptuous look and a cold word, which is enough to make a "poor student" unforgettable for life. On the way to the exam, which is four years longer than War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression's, I don't know how many natures have been obliterated and how many unique talents have been buried. Sometimes, a few traitors, such as Han Han and Edison, angrily choose to drop out of school. We are neither so wise as Edison's mother nor so brave as Han Han's father. Of course, it is not necessary. Daughter is not Han Han's "outshine others", nor is it the "lost game" of Edison Elementary School. Respecting children's nature and choices, we "find another way" because our daughter is naturally intelligent and likes dancing. Although I don't value her talent in dancing, I don't want my daughter to suffer from imbalance because of a certain course. My daughter's alma mater, Jiangxi Art Vocational College, came into our life, which made me admire. Here, the child found the happiness, sunshine and confidence that originally belonged to her age. In any morning, when many middle school students of the same age are still coaxed to get up by their parents, the children of our art college have been running in groups on the campus path in the early morning, bringing freshness and vitality to the whole campus and happiness and vitality to their new day. There is no harsh dogma in this morning run. The only purpose is to let the children exercise and meet the physical requirements of dance majors in a naturally relaxed state. Daughters are always full of pride when they talk about campus mornings. When they freely choose breakfast in the restaurant like adults, perhaps many children of the same age are still at the gate of primary and secondary schools, forced by their parents to put a piece of bread in their mouths and feed them a mouthful of milk. Smiling is the most common sight in art colleges. Whenever I walk into the campus, the oncoming classmates always greet me with bright smiles and warm greetings. Politeness, which is said to be an unwritten rule of art college, has now become a customary habit, which embodies the awe-inspiring demeanor of the whole art college. According to my daughter, although each teacher's style and personality are different, they have one thing in common, that is, they bring smiles into the classroom, give sincere smiles to all students, and always bring praise and rewards into the classroom to make everyone feel that they have a bright spot. The learning atmosphere is relaxed, equal and pleasant. I don't know if this is a democratic and open education advocated by developed countries, but once a smile becomes a rule that a campus will generally abide by without commitment, its direct function is to "make a teacher out of a high school and believe in it", which reflects self-cultivation, quality, ability and loyalty to education! Universities even have parent-teacher conferences. This is a new thing that my daughter didn't expect after she entered school, and it is an innovative feature of the Art Institute. In view of the fact that there are many underage students in the dance department of the college, the college leaders and department leaders borrow the form of parent-teacher conferences in primary and secondary schools to give new content to colleges and universities, take the form of reporting performances and exchanges and interactions, actively communicate with parents of students, and jointly discuss children's education issues. Teachers' comments to each student are objective and true, full of love and respect. There is no ranking announcement of a report card, no condescending warning, only nudging comments and inspiring evaluations. Multiple evaluation criteria enable every student and parent to deeply feel the profoundness of the college education concept. Because I often go to pick up and drop off my children, because I want to know about my daughter's study life, my daughter goes to campus more often and has more opportunities to talk with teachers in the art college. As a result, there are many feelings and feelings. At present, most schools are buzzing in the voice of enrollment expansion, and the expanding campus is like the waiting room in the Spring Festival travel rush craze. However, my daughter's school has always maintained a unique quiet and simple. The piano room with mossy outer walls looms on the lush hillside, just like tadpoles in the staff. Without deliberate carving, they flow with the rhythm of nature, and occasionally a ray of piano music conveys a long and far-reaching distance, which adds mystery and tranquility to the art campus. The rippling pond reflects the jagged forest and there are few traces of artificial carving. Even the brand-new modern teaching building is integrated into it, which looks simple and honest. The whole campus is neither complicated nor magnificent, just like an elegant ink painting. There are first-class teaching buildings and teaching equipment here, and even the dormitory equipment for students is first-class. In contrast, the only "uncoordinated" scene is the dilapidated office building of the college administrative leadership. A college leader told me in a chat that the teaching characteristics of art colleges determine that the number and scale cannot be expanded at will, and people engaged in art education should be able to withstand poverty and loneliness. As a student's parent, I sincerely lament the feelings of the Art College. They put their limited financial resources into the front line of teaching to improve the living environment of students as much as possible. They live in a simple house, and they abide by the fineness and nobility of art, and also guard the integrity and purity of education. My daughter's teacher asked me the most: "Is my daughter happy here?" Whenever this time, I always think of a story that makes me want to cry. /kloc-in the 9th century, there was a teenager who dreamed of becoming a violinist like Paganini. But the poor child plays so badly that he has no musical talent at all. One day, a teenager went to consult an old pianist. The old pianist asked the boy, "Why do you like playing the violin?" The boy said, "I want to be a great violinist like Paganini." The old pianist asked again, "Are you happy playing the piano?" The boy replied, "I am very happy." The old pianist said to him, "son, you are very happy, which shows that you have succeeded." Why do you have to be Paganini? " The teenager fully understood. After that, he still played the violin happily, but he was no longer obsessed with Paganini's dream. This young man is the physicist Einstein who will be famous all over the world in the future. Although the old pianist didn't make a Paganini, he taught a teenager to be calm, calm and confident, thus making a brilliant life for a great scientist. Thanks to my daughter's art school, there are many such admirable "old violinists". They are like the rain that melts in the spring breeze, moistening things silently. Follow the educational concept of advocating nature and promoting human nature, take sunshine and health as the foundation of education, devote yourself to guarding the art palace and interpreting the true meaning of art and life. Every time I see my daughter and her classmates dancing happily on campus, I think that even if there is no Yang li Ping among them, they will fly confidently on the future stage of life like beautiful peacocks.