Can you imagine? It is said that there is a rape case every 20 minutes in India. On average, one in eight women is raped, and one in four girls is sexually assaulted in some form before reaching adulthood. In China, especially child sexual abuse, the data are equally sensational.
According to "Child Sexual Abuse in China: A Meta-analysis of 27 Studies", from 2002 to 20 12, the proportion of girls who were sexually abused in China was 15.3%, and that of boys was 13.8%, with a total of more than 250,000. This is just the tip of the iceberg, and I'm afraid there are far more people who don't report it. What is even more unexpected is that the proportion of acquaintances committing crimes has reached more than 87%.
What is the culprit that led to all this?
The obvious answer is the criminal villain, but have you thought about other reasons?
Yes, that is the lack of sex education.
Li Yinhe, a sex education scholar, said: The harm caused by the lack of sex education has not disappeared because we avoided talking about it. ?
Therefore, the first thing to do is to educate children about sex from an early age. You can go from shallow to deep. You don't have to teach children what they don't understand at the beginning, but convey it in a way that they can understand. Tell them that some things can never be done by others. Those who do it are bad people. They can lie and refuse to be bad people.
Second, after they realize that they have met bad people, teach them some simple and practical ways to protect themselves. For example, secretly ask others for help, or find an excuse to go to a safer place, or even run to the toilet to hide. These are easy to do.
Third, society should gradually get rid of prejudice against victims. There is nothing wrong with the victim. We should still treat them like ordinary people. Put yourself in others' shoes. If this happens to yourself or your relatives and friends, how do you want people around you to treat you? So how do you treat those victims?
Fourth, we should gradually improve the relevant laws. There will never be a perfect law in this world. But I hope to get closer to this direction step by step. We should do our best to promote it.
Conclusion: Bad guys always exist. They lurk in the dark, but as long as there are more people standing in the light, there will be fewer people in the dark. Only when those bad guys face up to the harm and bravely expose it can they lose their psychological advantage and dare not be so unscrupulous.
The key to solving a secret and difficult problem is to put it in a bright place!