Without the children's knowledge, the program group recorded the first time they went shopping or running errands for their parents alone.
The starting point of this program is to let children grow up naturally, let children face their own problems and find their own solutions. In fact, children always have a way.
The children inside are really cute and brave, which makes Mommy laugh and cry. To tell the truth, Ma has not seen such a real and warm variety show for a long time.
Some children walked on the road for a second and suddenly fell asleep on the side of the road; Wake up the next second and proudly continue your big adventure.
Ma has always believed: "All the love in the world is for aggregation, and only one kind of love points to separation. That is family. " And "The First Dispatch" is such a program that teaches parents "love and separation".
Being a parent is a kind of practice. If you don't give your child a proper chance, you won't know how much potential your child has.
Strong sister and crying sister.
The first story is about two sisters buying aprons and a new chicken (a very famous and delicious chicken).
The protagonists of the story are two-year-old Woody Sakura and four-year-old Little Kwai.
It was Mother's Day, and my father sent two little cuties to perform this glorious task.
My gentle and well-behaved sister, with a 2-year-old sister who can't talk much but goes her own way, is going to start her first initial dissolution!
Woody Sakura's task is to buy an apron for her mother, and her sister's task is to buy new chickens and flowers.
Sister firmly remembers what Dad said before going out: Never let go of her hand!
But my sister is really cute! Just go out, my sister Muyingsakura wants to poop. In this scene, Mother Mi really smiled.
Maybe I know my task, but I don't want to get my sister into trouble. Woody cherry said sensibly, I will endure it.
My sister is particularly distracted when she walks. She didn't walk a few steps, and when she saw the bug, she wanted to have a look.
My sister said coldly, "Look alone, I'm leaving."
Sure enough, my sister quickly followed suit. My sister said with satisfaction, "Listen to my sister."
Thanks to the "free and easy" woody cherry, my sister instantly became an adult and became more reliable.
First, the sisters want to buy "Mom's apron". They chose a "pink stripe" suitable for their mother and wrapped it in a pink striped bag.
When leaving the apron shop, my sister accidentally fell down. Because holding my sister's hand, my sister also fell down.
The program group said naughtily, "Holding hands has both advantages and disadvantages".
My sister is fine. My sister's wronged face shrank into a ball and her shoes fell off. She was so wronged that she was about to cry! Ha ha ha, so cute!
Now my sister is careful not to fall, but "it never rains but it pours", and this time my sister fell.
My sister finally burst into tears.
My sister didn't say anything, but her expression was still crying.
My sister is really good. I remember what my father told me, even if I fell many times, I wouldn't let go of my sister's hand.
She resolutely led her crying sister to carry out the second task-to buy a new chicken!
It went well this time, great!
I'm going to the convenience store to finish the last task!
2-year-old Woody Sakura noticed, but unfortunately Woody Sakura can't talk! (Sister, it's really a loss that you can't talk after eating! )
At the checkout, the sister of the convenience store kindly reminded me of what else I bought today. Sister Xiao Kui remembers that she left her apron in the shop!
At this time, mother Amy found her sister dragging the newly bought chicken bag on the ground. Sure enough, the bag is broken!
My bag was broken and my apron was lost. My sister cried bitterly: "I want to go home."
Wow ~ what a big cry!
But I haven't got the apron yet, and the task has not been completed! My distressed sister decided to go home first, although she was helpless.
My sister is still a child, and I have to take care of my sister and buy things.
When I got home, my sister worried that my father would be angry if I didn't finish the task.
Dad warmly held the two sisters in his arms and said, "I won't be angry."
It's really hard and great.
But my sister cried regretfully and planned to take another apron and go alone.
My sister is wronged and sad by my side: although she won't take me, I will cheer for her!
Finally, my sister went back to Xindi chicken shop and found the apron smoothly!
I have to say, my sister is really great!
Mother Mi feels that the experience of "first dispatch" together, even if it is n times, even if it is almost not completed, will become an unforgettable memory and shining pride of the two sisters-the first successful completion of the task is really an independent and excellent child!
If dad doesn't insist, the two daughters may never have the experience of going out shopping alone, crying so hard and becoming so brave.
Dad won't understand that his daughter can be so excellent and can let go appropriately.
This is the heart of parents. They always think that the child is a small sapling. They want to protect him, but they don't want him to stand alone in the wind, let alone expose him to the sun and rain.
But in fact, if you let him go properly and let him bear the wind and rain alone, the child can grow sturdily.
Children are a magical treasure chest, and you never know how many surprises are hidden in it.
You think he is just a child, but in fact he has grown up unconsciously. Growth is not instantaneous, but parents always find it in such an instant.
Despise younger brother and gentle and handsome brother.
The second story is about two brothers. Both of them participated in the First Dispatch and were interviewed by the program group eight years later.
Eight years ago, my brother Xiang Taro was a third-grade elementary school student.
My younger brother Nandujun is only 2 years old and 8 months old. It was my brother who came to the initial dispatch. Although he is only over 2 years old, he thinks he is the same as his 8-year-old brother.
Why? Because my brother was sent at the age of 2 years and 3 months, how could my brother at the age of 2 years and 8 months give up?
My brother went to the classroom to practice calligraphy after dinner, but forgot to bring his pen, so his first task was to give him a pen.
In my brother's heart, my brother has always been an example, and my brother has always wanted to be a little man like my brother!
So this time I received the task of sending something to my brother, and my brother was particularly excited.
It's raining outside in Mao Mao, and he insists on not wearing a raincoat: "I want to hold an umbrella like my brother", hahahaha ~
The face has been crushed and deformed.
My little body is holding a heavy umbrella, and my aunt can't help laughing in front of the screen. My brother's umbrella seems to have never been straightened. Ha ha!
We will arrive at our destination soon, and my brother is practicing his handwriting seriously in the classroom.
Finally arrived at the door of the classroom.
My brother met the first problem-he couldn't collect the umbrella, hahaha ~
After some attempts and efforts, it was finally closed, which will solve the problem well.
After putting away my umbrella, I want to invite my brother to dinner!
"Masataro, Masataro, let's eat!" The younger brother shouted with milk.
Just like mom shouted.
All the guests in the program observation room laughed, and Mama Mi couldn't help laughing: One world, one mother.
Hearing his brother's crying, he went out shyly.
After successfully completing the task, the younger brother proudly said, Brother, if you forget it again, I will bring it to you.
But my brother didn't find it. When he left, he forgot to bring his umbrella.
The younger brother who worships his brother finally accomplished one thing of his brother independently. Really a sense of accomplishment, happy!
Even in the rain, it is worth it. For boys, the power of example is more important, and he will naturally try his best to get close.
Give your children this chance. Parents get surprises and they grow up.
Eight years later, the program group visited the older brother and younger brother who participated in the "initial dispatch" that year.
At this time, my brother is already a sophomore, and my brother has been in the fifth grade of primary school.
Although I am no longer a fleshy child, I am still so cute!
Ma Daha's personality is the same as when he was more than 2 years old, but his handwriting has become quite beautiful.
My favorite thing is to start playing football under the influence of my brother.
Ask your brother, what do you like about your brother
The younger brother said sweetly: gentle and handsome! Personality is still very good.
My brother thinks my brother is cute.
Large-scale mutual blowing scene haha!
In fact, raising a boy is like this. Don't be afraid that they can't bear the responsibility. In fact, they have the potential to be human since childhood.
Exercise his independence from an early age and let him sleep alone, bathe alone and cook alone; Big enough to let him go out on a long trip alone, they can live up to expectations and even do better.
Because boys are naturally resilient and responsible, as long as they let go properly and give them some opportunities, they can enjoy the sense of accomplishment of taking responsibility early.
This is an invaluable lesson for boys.
The idea of the program "First Dispatch" comes from the Japanese picture book "First Shopping"
This picture book, Ma once introduced to you, poked "I spent 30 thousand yuan to buy a picture book, and I can say responsibly: these 80 books must not be missed!" 》
For a five-year-old child, shopping alone for the first time is definitely a great adventure.
Although I just went to a street shop not far from home, for the little hero Yimei, it was full of adventure tests one after another-
A bike is coming at us, which is dangerous! Wow, she fell and hurt her knee. Will she cry? What should I do if I drop my coin?
Finally, I walked to the door of the shop. How can I get my boss to buy things?
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This picture book was popular in Japan that year, and the variety show "Initial Dispatch" adapted from it was popular for 30 years, and 2,000 parents took the first step of "forcing away" their children in the program.
The general director of the program said that this is not a documentary for children, but an educational program for adults.
"Children are more capable than parents think. Many mothers are very worried about their children and only let them do what they can, but for children, sometimes they can accomplish more even if they don't work so hard. "
Going out alone will encounter many unexpected difficulties, but the potential of children is far beyond our imagination.
As parents, either being a safe haven for their children all their lives may make their children smooth for a while, but they cannot protect them for a lifetime;
Either let go properly and give children more opportunities to face challenges alone, so that children can practice their skills more easily and face the ups and downs of future life more calmly.
Mother Amy thinks that adults tend to exaggerate difficulties and look down on children. In fact, children are more capable than adults think.
Only when parents are willing to let go can children have more possibilities. Because, believing is power.