adjust one's mindset
Parents should understand that it is normal and normal for children to disobey, and we should treat this phenomenon reasonably. Adjust your mentality and emotions, avoid getting angry, and solve problems, so as not to say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, and hurt your child and parent-child relationship.
Appropriate reward and punishment methods
Parents should find a reward and punishment method suitable for their children. The purpose of rewards and punishments is not to end mistakes. It is to guide children to recognize and correct their mistakes. Parents can't just focus on the form and ignore the fundamental purpose. If the child really corrects the mistake, then Sister Xiaoyue can do the same.
Calm communication
After the child accepts the completion method, parents should talk with the child calmly, understand the child's inner feelings, give comfort in time, dispel the child's negative emotions, and let the child understand the parents' true intentions. Only in this way can the students grow up healthily.
teach students in accordance with their aptitude
If the child is disobedient, parents must come up with corresponding measures and punishment measures after education. As long as they are suitable for the child and conducive to the growth of students, they can try them. However, growth is a compulsory course shared by children and parents, and parents should also grow up with their children. The best way is to change the educational strategy, not stick to the rules and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.