Children don't like interest, and there is always reason for us to find a lot under careful study. In fact, there are many reasons why children like and dislike work. From the side, the feedback of children's painting course is gradually found. It is possible to find that children don't like this course. May need the following points: First, painting is different from what he imagined. Children like to draw, I like to be unconstrained style, and I want to draw freely. I will learn from the basic skills, and I will inevitably interrupt each stroke, and then the teacher will ask for a standard pen, which is inevitable. Children think painting class is very interesting, as interesting and casual as your painting, but they are limited by various restrictions and lack natural interest. Secondly, children did not recognize and encourage in time. Careful observation of children's interest classes will reveal that teachers will refer to the children displayed, and children's demonstrations will get small red flowers. In fact, the teacher wants to consider all the children and raise his hand as much as possible, but there are only 4 people and 30 children, which is really difficult to consider. My child raised his hand first, but I didn't get it several times. I saw the depressed expression on his face.
After class, I asked him why he kept raising his hand. He said,' Well, the teacher didn't point out my disappointment and said,' Mom, am I not a good painter? Finally, parents' bad emotions will bring pressure to their children. Parents in a bad mood will make their children feel heavy. Class is a matter for children. Our parents have broken the boundaries of complex emotional over-intervention, making children just want to' escape'. When you want to give up, face the correct exercise 1. Ask the reason and help the child overcome the difficulties. When a child says he wants to give up an interest class, parents need to be patient and find that the child is trapped or doesn't like it. There are two reasons why children don't want to be interested. One is that they have encountered difficulties in the process of learning, but their interest has shifted. In most cases, this is the first reason. When your child tells you that he or she doesn't want to study, it is a sign of help. The correct way to solve the problem is to understand the reasons why children don't want to study, and help and guide them according to the reasons.
Have a lovely daughter' step father'. Father decided to send his daughter to gymnastics school because she felt uneasy about her children. At first, my daughter was very happy, but she became more and more unwilling to understand. The "counterattack" didn't force her to continue practicing, but when she didn't want to study hard, her classmates often gave up. So he came up with an amazing idea to practice gymnastics with his daughter in tight clothes. Although he laughed at him in every training, his daughter was also encouraged by this special way of refueling and enthusiastically devoted herself to training. After several years, my daughter's condition is getting better and better, and there are many good results. When a child encounters difficulties, he must help, accompany the child and give him enough strength, and everything will naturally develop in a good direction.
Break down the problem into small goals to satisfy the children. There is a girl named Micara, because she was born in Qiang. When she is a sphere, her movements are very stiff. In order to let Micara go on, her teacher broke down the dance into a little trick and let Micara practice. Every time Micara completes an initiative or makes progress, the teacher will give her warm applause. This kind of praise convinced Micara that she could learn dancing well, and she became more and more serious. Break down the problem into small goals, and children will see your progress more easily. At this time, if we give him some praise and encouragement, he will have a great sense of accomplishment and be more confident to solve the "big problem". It is worth noting that when we praise children, we must seriously praise this idea. They all say that "ten children are nine lazy" and practice repeatedly every day to kill their enthusiasm for learning. Many children think they are too lazy. Especially when I see other partners playing, I have to attend classes myself. They are unfair.
In the process of mechanical boring sports experience, lazy thoughts are most likely to occur. At this time, push the child's little "difficulty" and maybe the child can successfully spend this special time. Children like painting, don't they like painting classes? Should parents insist on or respect their children? Sometimes I'm not a bad thing. As the child grows up day by day, his interests may change. When the child confirms that I don't want to go to class, it is not difficult to hinder him, but it is more important to give up than to insist on being interested in change. If your child is simple and doesn't like it in heart and soul, you should respect the child's wishes. When giving up, we also need to choose whether this interest is a reflection of children: whether this decision is made by children or by parents. Many times, parents can even choose a child without considering the child's interest: the child is too introverted, so he reported an eloquence; The child is not very good at sports. He signed up for a basketball class. I want to give him piano lessons to improve his musical quality. Everything is just the subjective will of parents.
In this case, giving up is not a bad thing for children. This also reminds us that when choosing a course, we must understand our real needs. For children who are easy to change, when they are not sure about their real interests, it is necessary to do more extensive experiments to help them determine which interests are best for you. It is necessary not only to cultivate children's interests, but also to rely on the guidance and training of parents. When the child wants to give up, stand on the child, face the problem and solve it, and the child will get more growth. When we press the' pause' button and look at the problem from another angle, we find that the original intention of children's interest is to provide more possibilities and richer ways to perceive life and make him happier and more interesting. If you think so, parents' mentality is the first squint. The next thing to consider is: the key to interest level. What is interest? Interest? The key point is "interest" to interest children. Perfect painting is more important than the standard of action. Nature's care for children's curious little fireflies is the most important thing now. After all, children need to continue learning, which is a long time.