At the beginning of this semester, the county education bureau asked the teachers and students of the county to study Disciples Rules together. I have also made great efforts in guiding my classmates to read and recite, gained a lot, and realized the significance of the education bureau to carry out this learning activity, especially in such an era of calling for morality. Repeatedly reading this simple old adage can't help but make people's hearts suddenly enlightened, imperceptibly, and it seems to narrow the distance with the sages.
After reading Teacher Cai's Lecture on Happy Life systematically, I have a new understanding of its far-reaching significance and deeply realized that Disciple Rules is really an ancient and fashionable reader. It is the best teacher in our daily life, telling us many truths, leading us to appreciate the true meaning of life, standardizing our life principles and pointing out our life direction.
Disciples' Rules gives a thorough and detailed explanation on filial piety, respect for elders, brotherhood, prudence, honesty and mutual love, which makes me understand a lot of truth. Disciples Rules teaches people to be filial to their elders and have a friendly heart. Only when a person's moral quality is improved can he become a good person, and the fundamental thing we learn is: people's moral cultivation.
The most memorable sentence in learning Disciples Rules is "All people are friendly. Heaven and earth cover, and the ground bears the same load. " It conveys Confucius' "universal love", catchy and gives people a warm feeling. Under the blue sky and above the earth, all people should love, and all people need love. In the expression, "all people are friendly." "Heaven and earth cover each other and share the same burden" is more tolerant than "all brothers within the four seas", which makes people feel broad-minded and still has practical significance today. Writer Bing Xin once said: "With love, there is everything."
Love is the greatest emotion of human beings and the core of all noble qualities and good morals. Only when people know how to love, appreciate, be considerate, be grateful, be tolerant and be humble can there be no emptiness and loneliness in the world. Where is love? Love in a faint smile; Love is in an apple that has been handed down many times in a family; Love is in the warm quilt, and love is the main theme of life. It is said that parents' love is higher than mountains and as deep as the sea. In the world of affection, raindrops will turn into coffee, seeds will bloom roses, clear springs will turn into wine, tears will flash smiles.
Disciples Rules truly tells us how to be a man, how to be kind to others, how to do things correctly, and how to meet things in a measured way. It will always shine on our progress and enrich our thoughts. Let's rush to the ocean of traditional cultural knowledge and learn the truth of being a man.
"Filial piety is when you enter, filial piety is when you leave, honesty is when you believe, love the masses, and learning when you have spare capacity" is the general program of Disciples Rules. As long as you study hard and feel carefully, you will understand a lot of truth, what you can and can't do in life, and with the principle of being a man, you will have correct judgments in life and work and correct your mistakes in time.
By studying Disciples' Rules, I deeply realized that I didn't do enough, especially in filial piety. Last year, my father suffered from rectal cancer and needed my help and care, but he refused to let me take a vacation on the pretext of being busy at work. In retrospect, it really shouldn't be. My parents are very kind to me. When they need me, what reason do I have to disappoint them?
I am sick, too. They are very cautious. What about me? Lack of care and patience. Learning disciple rules is not only a process of improving personal accomplishment, but also a process of ideological sublimation. It is very necessary for a person's growth. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world.
Disciple Rules is an educational model that integrates the essence of China's traditional culture and condenses the knowledge of eight virtues (filial piety, loyalty, faith, courtesy, righteousness, honesty and shame) in the form of learning rules and regulations and three-character idioms. It is easy to read and explain, but it is practical. No matter from work to life, or from doing things to being a man, Liao Liao 1080' s words clearly explain what human society advocates, opposes, obeys and violates, and have rich connotations. Disciples Rules itself is "Dao" and "De".
Therefore, we should keep in mind the Disciple Rules and use it to demand ourselves, check ourselves, reflect on ourselves and do our best. A large number of facts have proved that a person who can regulate his words and deeds according to the requirements of Disciples' Rules is definitely a good son, daughter, husband and wife, good parents, good brother and sister, good employees, good colleagues, good friends and good leaders, and is definitely a respected saint in society.
Disciple's Rules itself is a norm, a norm of moral quality; At the same time, it is also the code of conduct for everyone to practice and manage themselves. It is not used to ask others, but through its own practice to guide and drive people around to study and work together, gradually improve its own quality, improve the quality of family life, improve the working and living environment and social atmosphere, so as to achieve the purpose of building a harmonious home and a harmonious society.
I learned the following four points from studying Disciples Rules: 1, being a man should know how to be grateful; 2. Treat people with courtesy; 3. Be modest; 4. Find the right goal in life. Disciples' Rules teach people to be kind, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's nature, with the aim of leading a meaningful life and learning the wisdom of being a man from Disciples' Rules.
Let's listen to the teachings of sages together, and start with the responsibility of good human relations, and be good children, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, employees and friends in everyone's mind. Only in this way can we undertake more social responsibilities and contribute to social harmony and tranquility. I encourage you to be strict with yourself, be grateful and respectful, be modest and eager to learn, practice hard, constantly improve your personal cultivation and quality, and make your own contribution to the development of education.
When I entered the school gate of primary school, I learned Disciples Rules for the first time, which gradually made me realize the significance of Disciples Rules. I just found out that there are many rules to be a man. Therefore, if you want to be a respected person, you must behave appropriately, be polite, respect the old and love the young, and keep your word. I'll just talk about my feelings after reading it!
First, it is filial piety. The main purpose here is to educate us to be filial to our parents and relatives. What they say and do is good for us, and we should listen to their teachings anyway. Also, whether they love us or not, we should love them with our own hearts. Because, after all, they gave birth to us and raised us, we can't forget the grace of raising us, can we? What's more, it is also written in Disciples Rules.
"Dear me, why is it difficult to be filial, hate me, and be filial?" It means: whether your parents or relatives love you or not, you should try your best to be filial to your parents and relatives.
Secondly, being a younger brother taught us how to get along with others. For example, "Brothers are friends, brothers respect each other, brothers are in harmony, and filial piety is in the middle." Brothers and friends should respect each other and live in harmony. If it is not harmonious, parents should worry about you and be harmonious.
Without parents' worries, it is tantamount to filial piety. So we must live in harmony with our brothers and sisters, so that our parents will be happy for us from the heart and we will be happier.
Dear, we should always be careful what we do in life. As the saying goes: Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. Wear clothes with buttons, be neat and in line with your own identity; Drink in moderation and don't get drunk, or you will be easily "gossiped" by others. In particular, don't talk about others behind their backs, which is bad and immoral.
Don't be selfish, be generous and don't care about small things, so people will become very happy.
Benevolence stands for kindness and kindness. Be kind to outsiders, relatives, friends and colleagues ... Now everyone has it, but how many are "benevolent"? As the saying goes, nobody is perfect! As long as we try our best to do what we should do, as for what others say, that's their business!
I already know the truth of being a man and doing things, but just knowing it is not enough. I have to learn to do it. What should I do? Learn knowledge. How to learn? Learning can be divided into direct learning and indirect learning. We can learn from others, who are not always right. We should "take the essence and discard the dross". If we should study, we shouldn't. I think Disciple Rules will be helpful to our life, and I will always use this book to motivate myself.
Disciples Rules is an ancient textbook in China, which tells the story of ancient civilized people and ordinary people. It can make modern people feel the respect of the ancients for the elderly and the filial piety to their parents.
What impressed me most in this book is: "Treat your servant with dignity, kindness and generosity." This story tells a touching story: "In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a prime minister named Liu Kuan, who was always considerate of subordinates who made mistakes, and was not angry or arrogant. Once, Liu Kuan's wife wanted to test him, so she asked the maid to bring him chicken soup. When he picked up the chicken soup, she accidentally spilled it on Liu Kuangang's royal dress. Unexpectedly, instead of being angry, Liu Kuan was concerned about whether the woman had been burned.
In modern times, contrary to Liu Kuan's gentlemanly demeanor, the superior leaders of some units never treat the employees below leniently. Employees who make some mistakes will be severely criticized at the meeting, instead of being lenient to others like Liu Kuan.
This story makes me understand that kindness and generosity are perfect. It also taught me that tolerance is a virtue.
"Small things, not fine. If you are good at it, you will lose. Although things are small, don't hide them. If you hide something, it will break your heart. "
The meaning of this passage is: even if it is a small matter, don't be willful and make a decision without telling your parents. If you are willful and easy to make mistakes, it will do harm to your children's duties, so it is unfilial to worry your parents. Although the public property is small, it can't be collected privately, so it is yours. If you hide it, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know.
Moreover, I am usually willful and often make decisions without authorization. Sometimes my mother asks me to do something. I like it and don't do it if I'm unhappy. Let me go shopping. Sometimes I buy what I want without my mother's permission. Sometimes I hide the money my grandparents gave me and buy some small toys or snacks without telling my mother. I know it's wrong to do this. My mother actually doesn't forbid me to take pocket money. My mother just taught me to spend money correctly and not to buy unqualified toys or snacks.
Now that I'm grown up, I know I did something wrong. I will learn to manage myself in the future and not let my parents worry.
According to the requirements of the company, I finished reciting Disciples Rules. Then, according to the company's requirements, write the experience.
Same thing: company requirements.
The difference between the two is: I feel confused and helpless by following the rules according to the requirements of the company; But when writing according to the company's requirements, I think there are some meaningful words to write down for later use.
First feeling: Disciples' rules are just a foundation, but they will bring us real life.
I've heard about apprentices since very early, and I've always been a person who doesn't like apprentices. Because I don't like to restrain myself, especially my thinking. I think the creativity of society comes from the laissez-faire thinking of pattern, details, concreteness and methods, and finally forms a comprehensive understanding of all thinking information. This is the way of doing things.
It is this idea that has led to me today-a combination of big failure and small success. In my life and work career of xx years, I have done a lot of memorable things with the above ideas as the guiding principle, but I have also experienced too many twists and turns in my life.
In the process of reciting Disciples Rules, I suddenly found that in fact, in my thinking of doing things in an eclectic way, I lacked a basic life and work criterion. This is the deep-seated reason that affects the present. Because the purpose of work is life, the purpose of work is by no means work. Otherwise, there will be various family problems, even extending to work problems.
The rules of an apprentice are only the basis of being a man, and the requirements are not very high. But with this basic principle of life, we have entered the real life. Look at many of our misunderstandings.
"spare time to study literature", and we may be more "filial piety if we have spare time" Busy work has become a very legitimate reason not to go home. Narration is always good. The first time I was filial to my brother, I believed it the second time. In other words, "parents should call on their parents not to slow down their lives, not to be lazy, and parents should respect their responsibilities and obey their parents", which was before Li Yu studied; For parents, "warm in winter and warm in summer, calm in the morning" is also ahead of Li Yu's study of literature; I tried medicine first when I got sick, and stayed with me day and night for three years, always sad and staying in the house, becoming wine and meat. "It was also before Li Wei studied." Calling people for a long time is not enough "is also ahead of Li Yu's literary research;" The crown must be straight, the new button must be fastened, the socks must be tight with the shoes, and the crown and clothes must be positioned to avoid pollution. "It is also before Li Yu's study. We may all have violated this principle to some extent.
Disciples' rules are not beliefs, but a code of conduct. In other words, if you don't do it well, you can't say that you don't have faith. You may lose the bottom line of being a man, or you may be immoral.
The second feeling: the rules of the apprentice are very fine. Look at the short and the long, the thick and the thin.
1080 seems short, but it actually contains a lifetime of wisdom. Xiao Cheng believes that loving others, caring for others and spare no effort to study literature can be the basic principles of our life for decades.
1080 looks rough, but it tells every detail of life. It tells us to "wash your face, rinse your mouth, urinate and wash your hands in the morning", it tells us that "the crown must be straight, the socks must be tied tightly with the shoes, and the crown and clothes should be positioned so as not to cause pollution", and it tells us to "slowly lift the curtain, don't turn wide, and don't touch the edge". It tells us that "there are several cases, such as clean walls, clean pens and inkstones, strange words and disrespectful words, and ancient books and classics have a fixed place to read and restore."
Don't you have subtle feelings?
The third sense: back, this is the real understanding! ! !
Don't say, "I understand, so I will recite." It's actually wrong. I have memorized it, and my understanding is definitely different. Believe this sentence-accept it before you understand it. How can you understand if you don't fully accept it? When you recite, when you can close the book and still say the original words, you will feel that this is a very wonderful process. It's like you suddenly understand. In fact, many of us, like the long-lost Disciples' Rules, have lost their "reading power", which has contributed to our current impetuosity. Seems to know everything, but can't say anything.
The fourth sense: comprehensive sense.
How important etiquette is.
Respect and modesty are inseparable, and it is difficult to respect others without inner modesty.
Attitude towards good and bad, good and evil. Wait a minute.
In fact, with this foundation, success will naturally come. Perhaps, success is nothing more than that. Just! only ...
It feels over. Recite it again. I have memorized it, so go on.
One of my favorite books is Disciples Rules. Disciples' Rules is a classic document, and it is the teachings left by saints. It teaches us how to be a man and what a man should have. We should cherish this classical literary work.
As the saying goes, you depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. Make friends first and make him trust you. Disciples will tell us how to make friends trust you. If you do this, you will have many good friends because they trust you. Although I am not good at it, I will try my best to do it well.
I have a good friend. She is my good friend and my cousin. I remember once, my cousin and I made an appointment to go to Xinhua Bookstore to read at one o'clock. My sister always makes me trust because she always keeps her promise unless she can't go out. This time is no exception. I also learned honesty from my cousin. Then I should be more honest and let everyone have confidence in me. Another time, my cousin and I went to buy books. I waited for a long time, but my cousin didn't come. I don't want to wait for her! Otherwise I can't buy a book, but I have to tell the truth. What should I do? This question is hovering in my mind. So, I made a decisive decision. I called my cousin. It turned out that she forgot the pool, and now she is doing her homework and didn't come. I have to buy a book by myself. I don't think my cousin is honest, but I believe my cousin will be honest and have many friends in the future. I hope everyone in the world can understand honesty.
Recently, I read a book called Disciple Rules, which gradually made me understand the meaning of Disciple Rules. I just found out that there are many rules to be a man. Therefore, if you want to be a respected person, you must behave appropriately, be polite, respect the old and love the young, and keep your word. I'll just talk about my feelings after reading it!
First of all, "filial piety" is mainly to educate us to be filial to our parents and relatives. What they say and do is good for us, and we should listen to their teachings anyway. Also, whether they love us or not, we should love them with our own hearts. Because, after all, they gave birth to us and raised us, we can't forget the grace of raising us, can we? What's more, the Disciple Rules also says, "Dear me, it's hard to be filial. If you hate me, you have to be filial." It means: whether your parents or relatives love you or not, you should try your best to be filial to your parents and relatives.
Disciples Rules is divided into eight parts. First of all, the general introduction introduces the themes of the seven parts of Disciples Rules. Filial piety tells us how to honor our parents. The article Bian tells us to respect our elders and live in harmony with our brothers. The article "Sincerity" corrects our daily behavior and needs a good habit. This letter teaches us to be honest with others. The article "pan-love for the people" lets everyone know that we should love all people, regardless of wealth; The article "Kindness" tells us that we must be benevolent, otherwise our character is not good; Wen Xue told us to study hard and have a good study plan and attitude. This is the "daily code" of ancient students.
There are many stories in this book, and the one that impressed me the most is: "Eat away from the old and then away from the young".
Whether drinking or eating with elders, let elders eat first, sit first and then leave. As a junior, you should always respect your elders.
In daily life, don't think that children can be put down when they are young, and they are human when they are old. Let children enjoy all the delicious food and clothes first, which will make children have an illusion that they are born to enjoy happiness and adults are their servants. If you are not satisfied, you will lose your temper and coquetry, which will make adults have a headache. In fact, it is all caused by adults' doting!
In the fourth lesson "Faith", I learned that keeping promise is keeping promise. Breaking promises, whether out of necessity or deliberately breaking promises, violates the basic requirements and principles of being a man.
Disciples' Rules is our mentor, it can make you understand a lot of life truths, it can teach you how to be a moral person, and it will make you feel infinite. Learning disciple rules is not only a process of improving personal accomplishment, but also a process of ideological sublimation. It is very necessary for a person's growth. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world.
On Sunday, we came to Keyuan, and Captain Wei led us into the park. This is the second time to enter Keyuan. No matter whether you visit the Science Park for free or study, Captain Wei hopes that everyone will gain something. It is best to focus on learning and play as a supplement, which complement each other.
Captain Wei, who gathered in the park, explained to us the development course of Yingshan Hongguoxue Group. In the future, he will walk into schools, factories, communities, museums and libraries to promote the traditional culture of Chinese studies. After studying hard, everyone will help others grow up. There is no limit to the number of people in this place in the first few issues, but those who bring friends should report the number, consult the organizers and wear volunteer clothes, preferably pants (bugs love new blood and love to laugh).
We took a walk in the garden and found a leisure place by the lake. Captain Wei asked us to read aloud together, and then he broke down the great meaning of the article "Filial piety" with us. Filial piety ranks first among disciples, and the first step to learn filial piety is respect, which is the basis of all interpersonal relationships. "As for dogs and horses, you can keep them. Disrespect, why not? " What's the difference between disrespecting parents, adoptive parents and keeping dogs and horses? ; "It's warm in winter. When you go out, you must talk about it. Don't be good, don't hide it, be nice to your parents, gently advise your parents, and wait on your parents all day when you are sick." It is about caring for parents' health, putting an end to the troubles brought to parents in life, always being gentle with parents' mistakes, and doing our best for sick parents.
Finally, we discussed how to take care of our parents when we go out and stay at home. A greeting phone call, a warm blessing. We also reflected on our impatience with our parents, quarreling with them and scolding them. Confucius said, "Sex is difficult." It's hard to treat parents kindly forever. When McDonald's heard this, his face turned a little red (everyone is red, but if he is not red, he is thick-skinned and his performance is not in place. Oh! ), well, guilty. Our parents are ill. Have we ever had the love and care our parents gave us when we were children? Thanksgiving, parents!
We thought it was children's books. At the end of We Were Wrong, everyone said, "It is the first classic example of reading in the world!"
Next Sunday, I will study the culture of "people who go out to shave" in Keyuan. Go out, be safe and happy.
In the first week of school, the school organized teachers to learn Disciples Rules. Judging from the general principles of Disciples' Rules, the five essentials taught to us are worthy of reflection. We didn't read Disciples Rules before, and we didn't understand them. Now that you have the opportunity to study, you should re-recognize and examine yourself, and learn how to be a person and what kind of person you become, which is the first priority as a person. The more I read it, the more I feel that it is indeed a treasure house of life wisdom. Teacher Cai's "Tao" is a natural operation law that transcends time and space. "Virtue" is to teach human beings how to abide by the laws of nature without violating the principle of being a man. Its essence is the meaning of father and son, monarch and minister, the difference between husband and wife, the order of old and young, and the relationship of friends. It teaches us how to cultivate self-cultivation, according to the order of cultivating self-cultivation and governing the country. Without self-cultivation, it is impossible to rule the country and level the world.
First of all, learn to be a man. You should be filial to your parents. If you don't be filial to your parents, you won't be good to others. As the saying goes: "All kindness and filial piety come first!" If you are not filial to your parents, then you are not a kind person. Secondly, you should be careful and considerate; Get along with people, and be honest in dealing with people. You should pay more attention to the people around you and get along well. The key to learning is to implement actions, so teachers should set an example. Students are familiar with the rules of disciples. In normal times, if some students have bad behavior, they should be educated according to the content of Disciples Rules, learn from those students who have performed well and follow their example. As the saying goes, "those who are near ink are black, and those who are near ink are black." Students really have good qualities, that is to say, if you learn to be a man, you are qualified to study and study. Otherwise, you won't do anything useful to society if you have knowledge.
In the process of learning Disciples Rules, I benefited a lot. Some of them are simple, but I just don't understand them. Because I really understood it after learning Disciples Rules. Disciples Rules has increased my wisdom and shocked my soul. By studying Disciples' Rules, I have three experiences:
The first person should know how to be grateful. For a person, the kindness that should be repaid most is the kindness of parents, so the first chapter of Disciples' Rules is "Filial piety when you enter". Gratitude is embodied in the word "filial piety", "parents should not disobey their parents' orders" and "parents should respect their parents' responsibilities and be filial to their parents". Think about these, these are the basic requirements for us to be filial parents, but what I did was a failure. Through this study, I hope I will redouble my efforts in my future study and life, and I also hope I can give my hardworking parents a happy life. In the past, I always argued with my husband. When you are wronged, you often go to your parents to complain, thinking about how much you should not. I don't care about my parents. On the contrary, I always bring them trouble. By studying Disciple Rules, I made a wish: I will do my filial piety wholeheartedly, regardless of my parents' in-laws, to make them happier in their later years!
Second, treat people with respect and modesty. Respect and modesty are inseparable, and it is difficult to respect others without inner modesty. Although I have seen many such famous aphorisms since I was a child, I didn't realize that modesty is a quality. Instead, they often strive for strength and pride. Think about it. Pride and complacency do bring a lot of harm to yourself, and also make you lag behind others greatly. It is always difficult to get along with the leading colleagues in the unit, and the relationship is not harmonious. I always complain about unfairness. By learning the rules of my disciples, I realized the importance of respect and modesty. People should not be arrogant, have outstanding work performance, and have insufficient respect for leaders. If I had received such education earlier, I believe I can coordinate the relationship between superiors and subordinates and the truth of being a man.
Third, we must find our own goals in life. Disciples' Rules teaches people to be kind and cultivate the virtues of others, with the aim of making people live a meaningful life. And I also learned the truth of being a man by studying Disciples Rules. Life is a process, and the process depends largely on what kind of life goal you choose. My goal in life is to educate my children well. In the process of my own study, I found that I only understood the truth better than my previous study, but I didn't really practice it. Instead, I learned literature and became flashy. Don't learn literature, but do it, let it be seen and ignore the truth. "I used to be like this. Now I want to study and implement the Disciple Rules, and at the same time I want to educate my children to accept traditional culture from an early age, "teaching children for the country and educating people as the foundation". Children are the future of the motherland, and educating the next generation is our greatest responsibility as parents. " Nothing is more important than teaching children. "I believe that one repair is beneficial and ten repairs are beneficial." Know how to reflect on yourself, always reflect on your words and deeds, and be a truly innocent person!
When I didn't let my children learn the disciple rules at school, I didn't deliberately understand the disciple rules myself. After reading this book and learning Disciples' Rules, I feel that it is of great help to children and I have a deep understanding. "Disciples" in Disciples Rules are students, and "rules" refer to norms. It is excellent for children to learn Disciples Rules well.
"Disciples' Rules" said: "Disciples' Rules, sage training, the first filial piety, the second honesty. Pan-audience, be kind, spare no effort, and then study ... "My child Ni Ziru is smart and filial. Sometimes I like eating very much and want to share it with me. I often write warm words with my love cards to express my love, which always touches me. She completed the "first mourning" well.
I am more casual before contacting the disciple rules. Many times, I think it is better to do one more thing. After practicing the disciple rules, I will try my best to restrain my emotions, especially in front of children, and I will try my best to help those who need help! In fact, doing good deeds is a very happy thing, as xu teacher often said, "Because there is love, life has sunshine!"
"I want to repay my kindness, I want to forget my grievances, and I want to repay my long-standing gratitude." My parents often say, "If you are good to others, others will be good to you!" " I often say to my children, "Learn to be grateful, and be grateful to your parents who gave you life. Thank the teachers who gave you knowledge, the people who criticized you and the people who helped us.
Children nowadays are all only children. Selfishness and self-comparison are common problems of children. Every time I do something for her, I deliberately say to her, "Are you forgetting something?" She immediately replied, "Oh, thank you, Mom!" " Whether she is moved or not, I think it is very rare to form a habit.
Just last week in the Children's Palace, I couldn't buy water to drink my long brush. It happened that an unknown aunt was also buying water. She conveniently handed me a bottle, but insisted on not accepting me. I am embarrassed. The daughter came to her and bowed deeply. "Thank you Aunt" is very happy, and I am very touched. I think my daughter will be grateful when she grows up to be an apprentice!
Children still have a long way to go in the future. I think the way for children to learn and practice Disciples Rules will be wider! Wider! How can it not be excellent!