Overcoming setbacks requires a tenacious character that never gives up. Cao Xueqin is the truest portrayal of the so-called "everything comes to him who waits". When he was writing A Dream of Red Mansions, his body and mind suffered great setbacks: he was short of clothes and food, the people opposed the book, the rulers doubted it, and even stopped his creation at all costs. But he didn't give up. He overcame these setbacks and made the epic novel A Dream of Red Mansions stand out. If Cao Xueqin had suffered these setbacks and hardships and given up easily, he would not have created the classic Dream of Red Mansions. In the face of setbacks, we should dare to face difficulties, persevere and light the torch of success with tenacious character.
Overcoming setbacks requires a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. Just as in the poem, "It's really like iron to walk in a lofty gate, and it's a step forward today", there will be clouds and clouds of relief. After Su Shi was demoted, he was still optimistic and broad-minded, and built a Soviet body to benefit the people. Liu Zongyuan was demoted to Liuzhou, still concerned about the landscape, inscribed poems and inscriptions, and was finally praised by later generations as "one of the eight masters of Tang and Song Dynasties"; Fan Zhongyan was demoted to Baling County and still maintained a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. He wrote: "Worry about the world first, and enjoy the world later"; Helen Keller was blind, deaf and unable to speak since she was a child, but she still faced setbacks with a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and overcame them. Since ancient times, celebrities have experienced many hardships, but they always face, overcome and even surpass them with a positive and optimistic attitude. On the other hand, don't we need to treat all kinds of setbacks in life and study with a positive and optimistic attitude towards life?
To overcome setbacks is to look at the clouds rolling after the rough waves: it is a towering male peak, with cranes dancing in the air and standing between heaven and earth; It is the pupa that binds itself into a silkworm and undergoes the transformation of weeping blood in the cone heart. Therefore, we must overcome setbacks.
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Life is long, there are tens of thousands of days, and it is far away. Time is short, and suddenly it is autumn. A person's precious life is only once, and how many times have we succeeded and failed? The road of life is uneven, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps. This is frustration. In the face of setbacks, I choose fraternity, open my arms, face it bravely and look at it optimistically. Only in this way can you be invincible forever. The ancients said, "Plum blossoms are not bitter and cold, so why can they be smelled?" Difficulties and setbacks are a cone that hits the blank for people. What is to be knocked out is fragile iron filings, and what is to be cast is a sharp knife. People's best work is often in adversity. Mental stress, even physical pain, may become a spiritual stimulant. Many outstanding great men have suffered psychological blows and all kinds of difficulties. Otherwise, they may not pay the labor necessary to excel. As Voltaire of France said, "Life is full of thorns, and our way is to cross them quickly."
Let's open a vast historical picture. All successful people, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, have never experienced setbacks. As we all know, Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was defeated by the State of Wu and had to make peace with the State of Wu. He and his wife were taken to the State of Wu. Finally, he survived, returned to Yue State, made great efforts to govern, and realized his desire to wash away the shame and revitalize the country. Zhang Haidi, a paraplegic patient, became a doctor by herself and completed the translation of many medical works. He is called "contemporary Paul". Imagine, if these celebrities give up on themselves in the face of setbacks, how can they create brilliant chapters?
Frustration is like a spring. If you are weak, it is strong, and if you are strong, it is weak. In the face of setbacks, you will be devastated and will definitely die. There is a story: two people cross the desert together, and one person can't move forward because of heatstroke. When his friend went out looking for water, he shot his pistol. He aimed it at his temple in despair, but when his friend came with a pot full of water, he only saw a corpse. This is the serious consequence of giving up on yourself in the face of setbacks!
In the face of setbacks, we should not be devastated, but bravely struggle and challenge. Laughing at setbacks enriches our hearts, and laughing at setbacks makes us move forward bravely! Every setback is a test of self-awareness and determination. We should learn from setbacks and don't give up success for fear of getting hurt again. Those who dare to face setbacks are the strongest.
Friend, frustration is a good opportunity to hone your will and grow your ability. Face setbacks bravely and meet success gracefully!
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If life is a seedling, then frustration is rain, and the seedling will grow better only if it is moistened by rain; If life is a tree full of branches, then frustration is a saw; If life is the fruit of worms, then setbacks are pesticides. In short, setbacks are of great significance to our lives. Musician Beethoven was deaf in middle age, but he didn't give up music. He still created many beautiful songs with his own feelings and familiarity with music. Modern "Superman" Zhang Haidi was unconscious from the chest down due to illness, but with tenacious perseverance, she taught herself primary and secondary school courses, taught herself three languages and obtained a master's degree.
Frustration can make our life richer and more exciting! As the saying goes, "How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain?" Life is like this, you can succeed without setbacks. I am a typical example.
When I was seven years old, my father died of terminal liver disease. From then on, I became a child without the pain of my father. For this reason, I often complain, why can other people's children have fathers and I can't? I have lived in this shadow all my childhood. But when I got to school, my mother's words changed me. I will go to school tomorrow, and my mother took my hand and said to me, "Mongolian!" " You are a poor child, but if you think of pity and get out of it, you must study hard and let others know that children with fathers and mothers can still go to college. "My little heart has been greatly shaken. I am determined to study hard and serve my mother when I grow up.
Because of my efforts, my grades are not bad, but the quality of life is always worse than others, but I no longer complain that my mother has a waist injury and can't do anything. By the time I was in junior high school, my mother was completely unemployed and had to follow her relatives to work in other places. So, I am suffering from missing my mother again. Sometimes when I think of my mother, I can't help crying, so my grades are a little lower. He Laoshi seems to understand something. He talked to me several times and said, "You should study hard and try to get into a good high school. The teacher believes you. Remember one sentence: knowledge changes fate. " The teacher's words inspired me, and I will say "knowledge changes fate" three times a day. My grades came up again.
Now, my grades are better, and I gradually adapt to life without my mother. God responded to my efforts: keep trying.
In short, when encountering setbacks, we must be calm, choose the right way to overcome them, and don't be afraid. Everyone will encounter setbacks in their growth and life. However, as long as we overcome setbacks, we can succeed.