"Chickens talk to ducks, but their eyes are dull" is a lyric of the theme song of Guangdong famous TV series "Local Lang, a foreign daughter-in-law", which vividly illustrates the importance of language in communication. As the saying goes, the success of language communication sometimes has a great influence, so we should pay attention to language in communication.

First of all, language has an important influence on communication. There is a car in Britain, which is novel, powerful and cost-effective. However, this car cannot afford to travel in Germany. The headquarters of the British car company was puzzled and later sent people to Germany to investigate. It turns out that the English name of this car has been translated into German and called "class poop". No wonder it has never been interested. This shows how much language affects communication. If the language communication is successful, we will do things much easier. PepsiCo's product "7up", literally translated as "7 Up" in Chinese, gives people the feeling of "seven ups and eight downs", which is very strange. The translator is ingenious, calling it "7-up" and taking the homonym of "Shang". Isn't "up" just "up"? However, after such changes, "7-up" was accepted by Chinese people, and the sales volume increased greatly. Therefore, language plays such an important role in communication. If used well, communication will succeed. If it is not used well, communication is doomed to failure. Who wants to buy "class poop"? Let alone sit down.

However, language is not only oral, but also spiritual. "Communication begins with the heart". If anyone wants to really communicate with others just by talking with his mouth, he is doomed to fail. "The bamboo shoots in the mountains are thick in skin, quick in mouth and empty in abdomen; The reeds on the wall are top-heavy and shallow. " There are so many bamboo shoots and reeds around us. On the surface, they are really sociable and have a wide range of friends, but in essence, who will have spiritual communication with them! It is undeniable that language plays an important role in communication, but if we rely too much on language in communication and do not pay attention to inner communication, communication will inevitably fail.

Since the relationship between language and communication is so important, how should we treat language in communication? I think we must communicate with the most sincere words. Liang said that having nothing to say is a kind of loneliness. Liu Ying said in Modern Loneliness that it is not what you say all day that makes you feel lonely. I agree with Liu Ying. If we communicate with the language in our hearts, we will not be lonely and our communication will be successful.