There is also a famous saying that marriage without love is immoral. If we get married according to the traditional "parents' orders and matchmakers' words", there is still some truth. Now it is free love, and several people obey their parents' arrangements. Therefore, this kind of rhetoric is undoubtedly in line with the taste of "extramarital love." And it has obviously developed to be ready to get out of the existing marriage. I think it is of great benefit for young people to enter marriage prematurely and follow traditional concepts. Because parents are obviously "experienced people" as the saying goes. What is "coming"? Didn't it come from love and marriage? Real practitioners, as the saying goes, "practice is the only criterion for testing truth." Therefore, the truth of love is "a temporary irrational dream" and marriage is a long life. Love can be the process of marriage, which pulls men and women from their dreams to real life. The essence of dreaming in marriage life is to hurt marriage, love is crazy, and marriage needs stability. Therefore, "experienced people" pay attention to "being suitable for each other", and as the basis of maintaining a long-term marriage, "being suitable for each other" is obviously reasonable.
Napoleon once said: "Love is a serious mental illness, and the only secret to winning on the battlefield of love is to escape." But many people still like mental illness, which makes them lose their senses and indulge in love, because reason is enough to make people suffer. But overcoming pain requires great strength, and people with great strength are basically excellent.
Therefore, mature men should not fall in love, but at most satisfy their own desires. So Nietzsche has a famous saying: "When you go to find a woman, don't forget to bring a whip." Love should only be a woman's patent. It is indeed a sign of weakness for men to indulge in love. But many heroes of Xiang Yu and Shunzhi in history were captured by love. It seems that Cupid's wings really have no direction, and her sharp arrows are more lethal. This is even more fulfilling Shakespeare's famous saying: a woman is a burden in a man's life, and without her, he can't carry it.
Love is enough to make a great man small. No matter how great a man is, once he falls in love, his golden knees will bend in front of the woman who fascinates him. Not only that, great people who fall in love can also change morality. They can shake true lies and change the color of dark clouds. It seems that women can really conquer the world by conquering men.
How to conquer men, of course, is through love. The so-called "women are pleasing to themselves." So lying and makeup have become women's patent weapons. Therefore, love is a woman's lifelong dream, and it must be a lifelong dream. Because women's selfishness and vanity can only be realized through this dream. This is the most convenient path and the most suitable path for the weak.
Today, many men also use this method to realize their desires. In this age of equality between men and women, it is really impossible to distinguish the strong from the weak. Many men who are good at this do make some "strong women" and "rich women" abandon their husbands and children and disperse their wealth. It can be seen that the madness caused by women's strong vanity and extravagance is enough to make men feel ashamed. This is love, I don't know.
Throughout the ages, poems and novels praising chaste women and love literature are mostly literary processing or very few cases. These works undoubtedly played the role of alcohol and drugs, and the dreams woven by lies made many young men and women crazy. On the one hand, the theory of chastity destroys women, who must lie for the sake of superficial chastity; On the other hand, the beautiful illusion it creates paralyzes men.
Especially, men who have stepped into marriage and suffered setbacks in their careers think that their beautiful wife has changed and become unreasonable. Can it be the same, the girl becomes a woman? Unpredictability is a characteristic of women. In this age full of temptations, it is quite normal for women to change. Therefore, a man who thinks he knows women must be confused, and a man who is confused about women is completely wise.
Adult women's view of love is realistic, but mature and excellent men are also rational. Otherwise, women can abandon their families in order to meet their own needs. Therefore, many such men often show their ruthless side in love, otherwise many families will face collapse. So Nietzsche's whip has the effect of a divine whip.
Women are sensitive and fragile, while men are relatively rational and strong. Tenderness should be a woman's patent, but for men, love is drugs and wine, which makes men weak and lose the power to conquer the world. Men have no world, and there will be no women. This is the relationship between spear and shield. There is love in the middle, but the content is not simple.