Blame yourself more and others less, so as to avoid others' resentment. Excerpted from The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong. This paper deals with some aspects of Confucius' view of "gentlemen and villains", Confucius' educational and political thoughts, and Confucius' words and deeds in other aspects.

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[Zhu Zhu] I am responsible for myself, so I am good at repairing; If you blame others for being thin, you will easily follow suit. So people can't complain.

[Qian Jie] If you blame yourself, you can blame others, and you can have no complaints. If you can strictly demand your autonomy, you won't have time to blame others. The old way to solve this complaint is to blame others and yourself.

[Li Zehou] There are many such plain and true life aphorisms in the Analects of Confucius, which Hegel derides as a lack of philosophy, but this is precisely the spirit of China's practical rationality. It must be embodied in many practical behaviors and daily life of "doing practical work with practical work", without seeking a lofty and abstract speculative system, because it can't solve specific and practical problems in life.

[Huang Huaixin] Today, another solution is proposed: bow, be generous, and "thick" is a verb, which means rich and profitable. Responsibility, as Shuo Wen said. In terms of economic interests, I am rich in myself, less than blaming, and can complain from a distance.