be sure of oneself
Emerson put it well, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success." . This sentence has always accompanied me to grow up and inspired me to overcome one difficulty after another.
In fact, self-confidence means that when we meet a difficult problem when we finish something, we are not only not discouraged, but also face the difficulties directly. I think self-confidence is an indispensable mentor in life. When you are discouraged, it is confidence that gives you strength; When you are about to fail, it is self-confidence that makes you strong; When you succeed, self-confidence will add icing on the cake for you; when you
Apart from personality, the biggest loss in life is losing self-confidence. In a word, in a word. Self-confidence is an indispensable spirit.
I remember hearing such a story when I was a child. I stood up with my head held high: there was a female singer who was on stage for the first time and was very nervous. At the thought that she was about to step onto the stage, facing thousands of audiences, her whole body trembled, and even her hands and heart kept sweating. She thought to herself, what should I do when I go on stage and sing and forget the lyrics? That would be embarrassing! The more she thinks about it, the more nervous she becomes, and the faster her heart beats. Now she is ready to give in.
At the moment she took the stage, a senior came up to her and smiled and stuffed a note to the female singer. The elder whispered to her, "This is the lyrics you want to sing. If you forget the words later, it may help you to open them quietly. " Thanks to her predecessors, the female singer held this note tightly, just like her lifeline. She hurried onto the stage, perhaps because she was holding a paper roll in her hand, and her heart was particularly practical. Moreover, on the stage, she not only didn't go crazy, but also performed quite well and won the love of many audiences.
She jumped off the stage with excitement. Thanks to the elder again, but the elder smiled and said, "You have regained your confidence. In fact, you beat yourself. All I gave you was a blank sheet of paper with no lyrics on it. What you are holding is only your confidence! " The female singer was suddenly taken aback. The paper roll in her hand is really just a blank. She successfully overcame the difficulty with a blank sheet of paper.
From now on, this female singer will succeed with her confidence. This is self-confidence, which makes the female singer who was not as good as herself succeed. Self-confidence also made me grow from a timid child to a confident, enthusiastic and sunny teenager.
Finally, tell everyone: confident people can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic! Please be full of confidence, hold your head high and shout at the difficulties: "I am not afraid of any big problems, because confidence is around me!" " "
be sure of oneself
In the journey of life, it is not hardships that hinder our progress, but ourselves. Self-confidence will enable you to overcome difficulties and move towards success. Therefore, I think self-confidence is the cornerstone of success.
Helen? Keller, an American female scholar, was born in Tuscany, Alabama. At the age of 65,438+0, she suddenly fell ill, which made her blind, deaf and dumb. Her first teacher Anne? With the help of Sullivan, tenacious Helen learned to write and speak. Little Helen once confidently declared: "One day, I want to go to college! I'm going to Harvard University! " This day has finally arrived. Radcliffe Women's College of Harvard University arranged her entrance examination in a special way. She skillfully touched the raised braille with her hand and then answered the questions with a typewriter. After 9 hours, I passed all the subjects and got excellent grades in English and German. Four years later, Helen graduated with honors from Radcliffe College with a parchment certificate in her hand. Helen loves life. She devoted her life to the welfare and education of the blind and deaf, and won the praise of world public opinion. Her self-esteem, self-confidence and indomitable spirit of struggle are known as the eternal pride of mankind.
Copernicus, a famous astronomer and pioneer of natural science, was the first to doubt and deny Ptolemy's geocentric theory, which influenced mankind for thousands of years. He was opposed and oppressed by millions of people, but he always believed in his theory that "the earth goes around the sun, not the sun goes around the earth" and did not give up easily. Finally, his Heliocentrism proved that Copernicus succeeded. If he doubts his own ability when others doubt him, he will not succeed in the future.
Confidence is a kind of possession and courage. It is with this passion that we can explore our own life path and paint a colorful world tomorrow. Without self-confidence, how could Gou Jian, the king of Yue, cut the Jin Ge of the king of Wu? Without self-confidence, how could the Western Qin Dynasty go east to Hangu Pass and unify the whole country? Without self-confidence, how can the Twelve Qin Pass be replaced by Liu Han's flag? Without self-confidence, how can Genghis Khan's soldiers set foot on the land along the Danube?
Self-confidence is the foundation of being a man, self-confidence is the courage to show self-style, and self-confidence is the foundation of success. People who lack self-confidence are inferior, people who are blind and confident are arrogant, and only those who are self-respecting and self-loving are confident.
We will encounter all kinds of difficulties in our study or professional climbing, and self-confidence is a good medicine to overcome these difficulties.
Only when people are confident can they strive for self-improvement and strive for their own wishes or ideals. Only self-confidence can make people maintain the confidence to win in a difficult career, and can make people have the courage to firmly move towards the ideal tower.
be sure of oneself
I, as an insecure child, have many things that I am afraid I can't do well. But since I attended a summer camp, my self-confidence has gradually increased. This summer camp is in Kunming, Yunnan, which is far from us. I need to fly by myself and lose contact with my parents for eight days.
I signed up for this summer camp without knowing anything. After listening to this, I was very worried, worried that I was afraid to fly independently, worried that I was homesick, worried that I was afraid, worried that my speech was not good, worried that I could not finish the task, and had the idea of giving up. But my mother encouraged me to say, "Dare to think, dare to say and dare to do." After listening to my mother's words, I felt a little confident and went to participate.
When I came to the summer camp, I met many difficulties. The first is the problem of sleeping. On my first day here, I couldn't sleep all night. I'm a little sleepy during the day, but I can't always do this. So the next day, I fell asleep counting sheep. I sleep in different ways every day, but I don't know why. I just couldn't sleep on the last day. Maybe I'm too excited, maybe I can't bear to leave these teachers and classmates, maybe I'm homesick!
The second is to stand guard at night. I used to sleep at night and didn't even dare to go to the toilet. This time, I stood guard and my self-confidence increased a lot. There are two people on guard. When standing at the appointed time, one will call for the post, one will stay here and watch the post, and my mobile phone will watch the post. Time goes by, and the person named Post still doesn't come back. I'm a little scared, but I have to say to myself: You are the best, and you will definitely stick to it. It is this sentence that makes me challenge myself and finally surpass myself.
The third is the speech. This speech needs to be delivered in front of many people. I'm nervous, but I can't give up. In warm applause, I boarded the podium. In another applause, I thought I could beat the previous two times, and I am sure I can do it this time. So I told you with confidence and achieved good results. I am very happy and proud!
Of course, the difficulties are not limited to these, but also camping, performing programs, eating meals in the south, hiking more than 20 kilometers in the north, military training and so on. Although this order made me experience many difficulties for the first time, it benefited me a lot.
Through this summer camp, I got the spirit of never back down. I not only have enterprising confidence, but also have the perseverance to overcome difficulties and the courage to overcome setbacks. This makes me understand that only people with confidence will make continuous progress and development! Let's be a person who believes in ourselves from now on!
be sure of oneself
Look at the shoes on your own feet and think about the boots on other people's feet. Confidence in my heart is like sitting on a seesaw, vacillating.
Soaring in fables, the mood is like waves hitting the rocks. You see, isn't this line telling us to be confident?
Yes, this fable tells us that there is a custom somewhere in Britain: if you stand on the road, you will show that you are willing to exchange shoes with someone, and you must pay subsidies. One day, a Mr. Johnson stood at the crossroads and exchanged shoes with others. After changing his shoes, he felt uncomfortable on his feet and continued to change them. Money slipped into other people's pockets again and again until the evening, and it was easy to put on a pair of satisfied shoes. When I got home, I found that I had worn out the pair in the morning.
After reading this fable, don't you think what Johnson did was a bit stupid and ridiculous? I have a pair of suitable and comfortable shoes, but I still have to stand on the street and change shoes with others again and again. And I am very willing to put the money in my pocket in someone else's pocket. What is he doing this for? Don't you just want to have a pair of shoes that suit you and satisfy you?
A pair of good shoes on his feet makes him feel bad here and there. In fact, it's best for him, but he doesn't trust his eyes or his feelings.
It seems that Mr. Johnson is not the only one who has this problem. No, I feel like a duck to water, but I dare not show myself and exercise myself in Jiusan Lake. I can only stay in the swimming pool. Isn't this a sign of lack of confidence?
You will think that I am inferior to others in swimming. In fact, my swimming posture is very standardized and my speed is quite fast. Yes, a few days ago, someone tried to compete with me. As soon as I entered the water, I felt that I was in no man's land and rushed forward without any worries. My opponent did his best, but he still couldn't catch up with me. This makes opponents have to sit up and take notice! But on weekdays, I swim in the swimming pool, not in the big pool, but in the small pool with beginners. This is not lack of confidence. What is this? I don't know why I panicked as soon as I entered the deep water area, my heart beat faster, my teeth shook violently, and my hair stood upright like a hedgehog.
Arguably, crossing Jiusan Lake for such a short distance is as simple as eating for me, but my heart is in a flurry. Under the persuasion of everyone, there is no way but to bite the bullet and go into the water. Look, it's fast and beautiful. After a while, I swam to the other side.
But all this is caused by lack of confidence. If I am confident that Johnson won't change shoes many times, if I am confident that I won't swim in the swimming pool all the time, it seems that confidence is the mother of success.
If you have confidence, you will succeed!
be sure of oneself
In the days of suffering, self-confidence is like a touch of sunshine, which dispels the inner cold;
In happy days, self-confidence is like a beautiful flower, dotted with beautiful spring scenery;
In the days of frustration, self-confidence is like a breeze, balancing the trauma of the soul;
On a proud day, be confident as a mirror, beware of inner arrogance.
We need self-confidence, because it is the cornerstone of our success and the support point of our belief. Cross the rubicon, 102 Qinchuan will eventually be Chu; You can defeat Wu with three thousand more armor. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was defeated in the mountains. In this desperate moment, he was furious with his strong desire to survive. He is willing to be the pawn of the king of Wu and do all kinds of humble things to win the trust of the king of Wu. At the same time, I worked hard with the people to save my strength and finally destroyed the king of Wu. It is true that Gou Jian's success and tenacity have ushered in most of the aura, but who can deny the foundation role of self-confidence? Without self-confidence, how could Gou Jian have a big plan to dispatch troops? If there is no self-confidence, can Gou Jian really stand it? However, he really did. He really destroyed the king of Wu, because he had the belief to defeat the king of Wu, and even more because he had the confidence to defeat the king of Wu.
We need confidence. If we don't have self-confidence, we will be jealous and resentful compared with our talented people. In Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang is a man with many wits and many demons, and Zhou Yu is also a great hero in Jiangdong. However, Zhou Yu was indignant because Zhuge Liang's contribution was higher than his own, his knowledge was higher than his own, and his ingenuity was better than his own. As a result, Zhuge Liang's insight broke him, and he eventually lost his wife and soldiers, making his efforts difficult and unhappy. It is precisely because of his lack of self-confidence that he subconsciously thinks that Kong Ming is an unsurpassable figure and has no patience to make a wail of "He Shengliang was born in". In fact, as long as he shows a little self-confidence, think about it from another angle, take Kong Ming as his goal in life and believe that he can surpass him, isn't it good? At least he can make some achievements.
Please raise your confident sail, don't sigh because the mountain is high and the road is long, and don't lose heart, because that is the embodiment of weakness; Don't give up, because that is the embodiment of failure; Learn to have self-confidence, because it is the cornerstone of success.
Believe in yourself, believe that since God has given talent, let it work! . Don't let the beautiful years be wasted, and don't let life have regrets.
There will inevitably be some setbacks in life. We can't give up because of a little setback, nor can we be discouraged because of a little failure. We must believe in ourselves. We are the future of the times, and setbacks are the tempering given to us by God. We will certainly create our own future.
Sail against the wind with confidence, and the destination is ahead.