The first ear root is soft.
If you want to live a good life, don't be soft-hearted You can't stand the advice of the salesgirl in the mall, the bravado of your colleagues in the unit, and the ignorance of the insurers in the insurance company. Anyway, if others say yes, you feel good. This is unacceptable.
To live a good life, the economy is the foundation, and laying a good economic foundation is basically divided into three steps: making money, saving money and investing. Soft ears can't save money, and soft ears can't invest correctly. Where does a good life come from?
The second method is to let it go.
Women are the easiest to indulge themselves. Especially when shopping, many women suffer from a mental illness called "shopping addiction". They buy anything useful, when they are happy or unhappy, when they have money or no money.
Chen Jiaqi, a 25-year-old white-collar worker, lives and eats at her parents' house. His monthly salary and bonus add up to at least 7000 yuan. But because of shopping addiction, he worked for three years without any savings, and his credit card was heavily in debt.
Qijia wants to buy everything when she sees it, but she doesn't have to wear it or use it when she buys it. She just looks happy.
As the saying goes, if you can't bear it, you will make great plans.
Take Qijia as an example. If you can spare 3,000 yuan a month, it will be 36,000 yuan a year and 108000 yuan in three years. You can buy a car without making any investment!
The third way is over-dependence.
A good wife and mother are out of date!
Mandy is a serious university in high flyers. There were many high-paying jobs for her to choose from after graduation. It was because her boyfriend, A Jian, who had been in Beijing for seven years, came to look for a job. Xiaomin feels that she should be his solid backing, because in her view, women should be at home and men should be outside, and her main job now is to support Ajian to start a business in Beijing. So, Xiao Min refused the invitation of all companies, concentrated on being a housewife at home, and dreamed that his wife was expensive all day. At first, Ajian was moved by Xiao Min's choice and walked and chatted with Xiao Min every day when he came back from work. Later, with Ajian's status getting higher and higher, he went home later and later, and talked less with Xiao Min. Finally, A Jian left Xiao Min. ...
Xiao Min never understood why A Jian changed his mind, because Xiao Min is not the Xiao Min it used to be. Actually, A Jian is right. Excessive dependence makes Xiao Min lack wisdom and passion. Such a woman can't catch a man's heart and can't have a happy and beautiful life.
The fourth way is short-sighted.
Men always like to say that women have long hair and short knowledge, which is the last thing women want to hear. The scary thing is that although women's hair can be cut shorter and shorter now, they will not easily choose to invest in stocks and funds. Of course, if you choose between buying clothes and buying funds, it is estimated that more women will choose to buy clothes to look beautiful!
The fifth way is to use small things.
The discount behavior of merchants has fatal attraction to lesbians, because it is women's nature to take advantage of small things.
Not to mention, the reason why the poor buy is that these discounted goods themselves rarely achieve the function of good quality and low price. Imagine, how can we be smarter than the merchants? How can anyone do business at a loss? What we buy now is rarely in season and fashionable. Wearing them can't improve our temperament, and putting them in the closet is definitely a waste.
The sixth road, looking at one mountain.
Jealousy is also a fatal habit of women.
Always regard other people's lives better than your own, such a life will not be happy, let alone happy.
It is said that Zhao Qian's life deserves the envy of many peers. She has a car and a house to live in, her parents are healthy and her boyfriend is motivated. However, she feels that her life is a mess, because she always takes her own shortcomings to compete with the advantages of others. Seeing her classmates studying in graduate school, she will wonder why she has worked harder than that girl, but has never been able to continue her studies. Seeing that someone is going to have a baby, she will complain that her boyfriend doesn't love her enough, why not marry her and not let her be a mother ... This kind of life has no quality at all.
On the contrary, Rong Rong is just the opposite. She is very happy. Everyone else has what she doesn't have. She doesn't look at them. She lives her own life and does her own thing. What do others have to do with us?
The seventh stingy way
Friends are the source of happiness and the regenerator of wealth. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her friends, is stingy with time and money, and only knows how to revolve around her boyfriend all day, can't become a big climate and live a good life. Because she invisibly made herself a bucket, tied a rope to the bucket, tied the rope to the pulley, and sat alone in the bucket. Then, as soon as she let go, she threw the bucket into the well together with herself, and the frog in the well called out a big day, that is, quack, quack, quack, quack, quack.
The eighth method is to pretend to be a "big woman"
Since Wu Zetian, she has set a bad example for women! If you don't get into the habit of "innocent girl" when you are young, you will be called "strong woman" by a guy who can't reach 46 when you grow up, and you won't be able to find North immediately. No matter who you eat with, she will pay the bill. What a big woman! No matter who you cooperate with, you can't accept help. What a big woman! No matter what gift your boyfriend gives you, you have to give a big woman of the same value or more expensive!
This is actually a taboo for a better life. Women are women. When she should accept it, she should share it equally. The mentality of "big woman" will make women physically and mentally exhausted, and it is difficult to reach the level of top life materially and spiritually.