Psychology is a kind of human activity, so when we talk about psychology in our daily life, we should start with our ancestors. Genesis in the Old Testament tells the story of God creating man. On the first day, God said, "Let there be light!" " "So there was day and night. The next day, God said, "Let there be water, let there be air, and divide the water up and down. "Then, with the air, there is the sky. On the third day, God said, "Let all the waters in the world gather together and let the earth be exposed. "So, with land and sea, flowers and trees, the world was initially formed. On the fourth day, God said, "We still lack bright celestial bodies. "So there was the sun, the moon and the stars. On the fifth day, God said, "Water should contain more creatures, and birds should fly in the sky. "So there are fish and birds. On the sixth day, God said, "Let the animals be born. "So there are animals. God made a man out of clay in his own image, and made him in charge of everything and become the master of all things. On the seventh day, God was tired and rested. It's Sunday. Of course, many countries now practice weekends, which is probably unexpected by God. God named the man he created Adam, and later, fearing that he would be lonely, he created a woman named Eve. God created a paradise in the Garden of Eden in the east, where Adam and Eve lived. There are all kinds of pearls, agates, exotic flowers and herbs in the garden, and there is also a tree that distinguishes good from evil. God said to Adam and Eve: You can move anything in the garden, but you just can't eat the fruit of this tree that distinguishes good from evil. Adam and Eve are very happy in it. But Eve saw the fruit of the tree of good and evil was red and bright, and she wanted to taste it. Later, the snake told Eve that the fruit on the tree of distinguishing good from evil is delicious, and eating it can increase wisdom. So Eve couldn't resist the temptation and finally ate a fruit secretly and let Adam eat it. God was very angry when he knew it, so he drove Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden. They came to the earth, gave birth to children and became the ancestors of mankind. Adam and Eve are the ancestors of human beings, so some of their psychology is owned by human beings, and they are more complicated. Let's talk about their psychology of stealing forbidden fruit first. Forbidden fruit is particularly fragrant, and forbidden fruit is particularly sweet. The more things people are forbidden to do, the more things they are forbidden to do, and the more people want to do it. Because it aroused people's curiosity and rebellious psychology. People are curious about things. For example, there was a traffic accident on the road, and everyone wanted to squeeze in and have a look. Later, they didn't squeeze in, just heard people say, "Oh, what a pity, it was crushed like this." "Yes, it seems that it will not live." In desperation, he shouted, "Let me in, I am the brother of the deceased. "This voice really works. People immediately make way. He went in and saw a donkey lying underground. Another day, people walked in the street and saw several people looking up at the sky for a long time, so people began to guess, what are you looking at, flying butterflies? UFO？ After a while, people gathered more and more, just looking at the sky. The back keeps asking the front, what are you looking at? Why didn't I see anything? The one in front said, I don't know. I'll ask the one in front again. I asked the first few people one by one. Then one of them started to lower his head. Well, that's much better. When he turned around, he was startled, and hundreds of people were looking up at the sky behind him. He also wondered, what is this? It happened that he was invited here one after another. We all watched you staring at the sky for so long, motionless. What do you see? I'm really sorry about this smile. I just walked, and suddenly my nose bled. I couldn't stop it for a while and had to look up. This is human curiosity. Mr. Lu Xun wrote a novel "Medicine", which gave a very vivid description of the spectators. /kloc-In the mid-8th century, the French agronomist Herman introduced potatoes with this. At that time, religion called potatoes "ghost fruit", agronomists called them "poor fruit" and doctors called them "poisonous fruit". It can also be used to attract people's attention in advertisements. Crown cigarettes have taken great pains to open up the Southeast Asian market. " Smoking is harmful to health. Smoking is not allowed, especially Crown brand cigarettes. "There is a big barrel at the door of a small shop, and there are four big characters written on the outside:' Don't peek'. But there are no measures that people don't see. Many people pass by here and wonder, what's not allowed to peek? There used to be words in it: Fenxiang beer, different, every cup of 5 yuan, welcome to taste. So people want to go in and taste different beers while laughing. Forbidden fruit is especially sweet, because it causes people's rebellious psychology. Romeo and Juliet. In 1980s, many such tragedies happened in China. Because the society was just open at that time, people's minds began to emancipate. Marriage, parents' life, media burning money. Young people began to demand independence. The more parents disagree, the more they want to be together and even run away from home. On the contrary, it accelerated the feelings between two people. As a result, some shortcomings of the other party were discovered after marriage. "Minors are not allowed in." The more forbidden it is, the more he wants to go in and see what it is and why not let me see it. So I think there should be less prohibition on students. There are few rules and regulations. Of course, some things must be banned, but we must make it clear to everyone. For example, there is a bottle of liquid on the table. If you say, "Don't drink." I'm sure someone will take a sip and taste what it is when you're not looking. And if you say, "This is a poisonous medicine, don't drink it." I believe that after listening to your words, no one will want to taste poison again. We are all reasonable. Rousseau, a famous thinker and educator, wrote an educational masterpiece Emile. In this book, he put forward his own view of punishment. The law of natural consequences. Park lawns that used to be "off limits" are now much more civilized and polite. "The grass is resting, please be merciful." Traffic accidents often happen on a highway in the United States. The police wrote many slogans, such as "No overtaking" and "No speeding", but they ignored them. Later, I wrote such a slogan, "Drive slowly, you are too busy. As a result, traffic accidents have been greatly reduced. A classmate asked me for advice, saying that his father always reads his letters. He said to his father, "It is illegal for you to peek at my letter. You are forbidden to read it. "His father is not happy, your parents raised you. How can your letter fail? You are a child and don't know right from wrong. I won't watch you. What if you don't learn well? So the relationship between father and son is very stiff. Later, after I told him, he began to adopt some strategies. He said to his father, you and your mother have worked hard for so many years. I will obey and respect you in the future. His father felt very happy after hearing this. Good boy, he has really grown up. Ok, we respect each other from now on!