In fact, the haze in anyone's heart is not formed at once, but accumulated bit by bit after experiencing different things. I believe everyone has a haze, but some people's haze is very thin and can be ignored, while some people's haze is too thick to escape. Different people have different haze in their hearts, different pain points, and some people are hurt by love; Some people can't get the love of their parents; Some people have limited conditions and cannot realize their dreams. In the face of the haze in our hearts, anyone wants to drive it away and dispel it, because the negative energy it brings us is everywhere, which will make us feel more inferior and grumpy. However, everyone is living in contradictions, and there is bound to be a haze in their hearts. What matters is how we face it, how to dispel it and not let it affect our choices.
Haze is like the devil, it can firmly control itself. Being dominated by the devil is not the same as dancing in chains. In the hands of the devil, people will be tortured and never turn over. Perhaps many people will say that we are the most carefree as students. In fact, people of different ages will have many things that are very important to them and even determine their future lives, so our inner suffering is only clear to ourselves.
To dispel the haze in your heart, you must learn to face it. Maybe each of us will have our own fears, but if we don't face them, we can't get rid of the current predicament. Facing the college entrance examination, we can't escape, but the college entrance examination is like a nightmare, which seems to devour us all the time. What we can do is to face it, sharpen a sword for three years, and only cherish every day for three years and do our best can we fight with a sword after three years, or even finally.
To dispel the haze in your heart, you must learn to be calm. Many things are really beyond our control, and everything will be variable. Until the end, we will never think of the end of the matter. In the face of unsatisfactory results, we are really powerless to change, but what we can do is to sum up experience and constantly improve ourselves. I always believe that all disappointments come from my own efforts, and opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared. Therefore, a failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we get nothing from it. In fact, every hardship we have experienced in life has laid the foundation for our future achievements. No one's success is accidental. Everyone's seemingly casual success stems from countless attempts and efforts behind it. Facing the gloom in our hearts, what we can do now is to carefully analyze the current situation and make full preparations for the next challenge.
To dispel the haze in your heart, you must determine the direction and goal of life development. In fact, personal life is very short. In just a few decades of life, there are very few things we can succeed. Therefore, while we are still young, we must determine our life goals as soon as possible and work hard for them. Some people may say that the goal is too vague. In fact, we can constantly set our immediate goals. When all the small goals are achieved, the ultimate goal we want to achieve in our hearts will naturally be realized. Life needs planning, so that in the face of the haze in our hearts, we can bravely fight it and never give in to its clutches.
Maybe many people can't let go of some hardships and even leave a lot of shadows for themselves, but life always goes on, and we can't stay in the past failures and sorrows forever. We should take up arms and fight the haze in our hearts. Maybe we will be black and blue in the end, but what we gain in this process is growth.
Self-evaluation in the third academic year 1
This year's study has come to an end. One year after graduate school