In life, we often meet some well-meaning and beautiful lies, which constitute another landscape of life. They enrich the interest of people's lives, make the relationship between people more harmonious, and make life more pleasant and happy. A lie when a disaster suddenly comes is sometimes a lie to save lives.
A newly married couple, the wife is not a good cook, and the food she cooked is hard to swallow. At this time, my husband insisted on eating, boasting' delicious' while eating, pretending to eat with relish. This is a white lie between husband and wife, and the wife will be willing to accept it even if she knows that you are lying.
Another example is the clothes that a husband buys for his wife. The color and style may not conform to the wife's psychology, but in order not to disappoint her husband, the wife deliberately said she liked it. If the wife tells the truth and both of them are unhappy, the husband will feel embarrassed. Lies can avoid unpleasant feelings and make the relationship between husband and wife full of romance and warmth.
There are more examples of lifesaving lies. On August 2, last year, the Wenlian Coal Mine in Louxia Town, Pu 'an County was flooded, and Xiao Hongyang Tongshun and others were working underground. Ten minutes later, the flood flooded the roadway and ceiling, and the way out was blocked. After that, they were forced to a platform one meter high and three meters wide above the roadway, and the water level was still rising, which was extremely critical.
The four of them took turns digging coal ash above the platform in two groups, and dug two steps more than one meter high in two days. In the case of running out of ammunition and food, they didn't eat for three or four days, and hunger, cold, fear and despair came together. In order to encourage everyone to fight against imminent death in despair, Hong Xiao lied again and again that the water level was falling, and whoever could hold on would get out alive.
On the fourth day, someone had collapsed in the tunnel in thin air, but at this moment, the water level really dropped. The four of them felt an opportunity to escape and climbed to the wellhead step by step. At this time, the nine pumps at the wellhead are draining around the clock. Inoue people thought that the four of them had no hope of survival, but they didn't expect to win the final victory in the struggle with death.
Another example is that an American transport plane was forced to land in the desert in the last century, but the plane was seriously damaged and could not resume taking off. Communication equipment was also destroyed and communication with the outside world was interrupted. Nine passengers and a driver fell into despair; Their instinct for survival makes them fight for limited dry food and water.
At a critical moment, a passenger on an airplane stepped forward temporarily and said, "Don't panic, I'm an airplane designer. As long as everyone Qi Xin works together to listen to my command, the plane can be repaired. " It's like a shot in the arm, which has stabilized everyone's mood. They consciously save water and dry food. Everything is in good order, and everyone is United in fighting against the sandstorm.
Ten days have passed and the plane has not been repaired; However, a caravan passing through the desert saved them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all. He is a primary school teacher and knows nothing about airplanes. Someone called him a liar after knowing the truth and asked him angrily: everyone's life is almost gone. How dare you cheat us? The teacher said: If I hadn't lied, would everyone still be alive now?
The above story tells us that white lies are the hope of life, an oasis in the desert, and sometimes they really change the trajectory of our lives.