Throughout the ages, people have never stopped exploring the value and meaning of life. The so-called values refer to people's fundamental views and attitudes towards the value of life, which are embodied in dealing with the relationship between individuals and collectives, individuals and society, and individuals and countries. Our teenagers are in the golden age of long body and long knowledge, and it is also the best period for the formation of values.
The values of life, in fact, is to solve the problem of how to live a valuable and meaningful life. The school trains us to set up a grand ideal of life, so that we can establish a well-thought-out, self-capable, social pursuit. Practice has proved that scientific values education plays an important role in people's growth. We can't substitute factual truth for value truth, as Einstein said: wisdom and skills alone can't bring dignity and happiness to people, and human beings have reason to believe that the disseminator of noble values and moral standards can be above the discoverer of objective truth. Under the situation of strengthening the construction of spiritual civilization in China, the education of values has been placed in an important position, and all aspects are cultivating us to establish scientific values.
We should establish correct values of life. Life values are the basic value standards and scales for a person to evaluate the purpose of life and people's social behavior, and are the fundamental views of how people live in this world. A correct and noble outlook on life is of guiding significance to the journey of life and a spiritual force to overcome all difficulties; On the contrary, the wrong and distorted values of life are the inducement for people to fall and perish. As young people in the 2 1 century, we should take Marxism–Leninism, Mao Zedong Thought, Deng Xiaoping Theory and Theory of Three Represents as the guidance, and strive to establish a correct outlook on life in line with the development trend of the times.
However, the core issue of life values is: dedication or taking, in other words, focusing on dedication or taking. At the same time, the composition of life value includes two aspects: individual's responsibility and contribution to society and society's respect and satisfaction to individuals.
Therefore, talents who contribute to the people and promote social progress are valuable. After we have established a correct and scientific outlook on life, we should use practical methods to implement it in real life, strive to improve our comprehensive quality in all aspects, and lay a good foundation for stepping into society in the future.
What is a genius is to put the right talents in the right place; On the other hand, the fool in your eyes is probably just a misplaced talent.
For example, if you are trapped in the African jungle and have no food or water to drink, you will regard this native as a "talent" because he knows all kinds of survival skills. On the contrary, if you take him to the office and let him use the computer, the situation is completely different. You may think he is an idiot. Indeed, since God has given talents, let them be used! .
Some scientists can't even grasp the scale; Some painters can't even write a letter well, but they "put their positions right", so they have made extraordinary achievements.
Steven Allan Spielberg is an example. Because of his poor grades in high school, no film department is willing to admit him. Instead, he went into the film studio and seriously studied the skills he needed. Today, he not only made many highly praised films, but also became a well-known director. Picasso originally wanted to be a poet when he first started out, but as a result, his poems were rated as worthless by the discerning Mrs. Stein, and he changed his mind. Fortunately, this lady reminded me, otherwise there would be great painters in the world.
In fact, all people and things are beautiful, but the place they belong to is not suitable.
If the delicious soup drips on the shirt, it will become "dirty" and the private words in the bedroom will become "dirty words" in the street. Isn't it interesting! The food originally contained in the mouth becomes "disgusting" as long as it is spit out, but it is "nutritious" if swallowed. Even dirty garbage, as long as it is placed in the right place (buried in the soil), can nourish the earth, bloom beautiful flowers and grow food that can bring us health.
No one or thing in this world is useless or despicable. Anyone or anything, if put in the right place, will become a useful "manufacturable material". I hope you can also find the stage that suits you best and sing the song of life.
Heart honey: the highest state of life is to choose the right stage, go out of your own way, and then give play to your unique talent and ability.
When you are young, you think everything has an answer, but when you are old, you may feel that there is no such thing as an answer in life. Every day, you have the opportunity to pass by many people, and some people may become your friends or confidants, so I have never given up the opportunity to contact anyone. Sometimes I get my head broken, whatever! Just be happy.
1, happiness depends on two factors: good health and inner peace-the latter is more than the former.
The purpose of life is to pursue happiness, so keeping a healthy body and a quiet soul is the basic purpose of life.
3, make life easier, because your goal is simple, physical health and soul peace-physical health depends on regular exercise, and soul peace depends on believing in truth, goodness and beauty.
Since you believe in truth, goodness and beauty, you can be calm, natural and free, without affectation, far-fetched, hypocrisy, embarrassment and fear. Still simple.
5. Simplicity does not conflict with responsibility. The sense of responsibility emphasizes that people's subjective attitude should be scientific and objective, or true and true, good and beautiful.
6. Be kind to others, be kind to others, take care of your own personal feelings and be tolerant and understanding of others; But you must not ask others to treat yourself like this. This is a win-win concept.
7, unconditional trust in others, this is the only way to win the trust of others, although I don't deliberately need any trust from others; No matter when and where, there is no doubt to believe in yourself.
8. I believe that life is sometimes in a stage of contradiction, twists and turns, disappointment, gloom, and even major setbacks, blows, and painful encounters-this is life, and life is incomplete without these embellishments.
9. Everything has a price. Generally speaking, the higher the cost, the greater the income.
10, love a person cannot be based on success or failure. Loving someone is the only way to grow up. People who don't give and don't want to give can't grow through love. It is your heart that pays the price. What is your heart and your love?
1 1, live calmly. The sky will not fall and the earth will not stop turning. No one will stand in your way, the choice is your own-don't be embarrassed by your choice.
12, what you long for is often what you lack. But you need to be quiet for a while and consider whether what you are busy with all day is what you want or what you lack.
13, often ask yourself why you are alive. Although life does not bring, death does not bring, although life is a short journey of energy evolution, life is the accumulation of energy evolution forms, but why do we have to live?
14, don't try to change others easily, but try to respect others-they are generally willing to be the people you respect, not the objects you set.
15, the more familiar people are, the easier it is to be ignored. I often chat and eat with my family, friends and colleagues on the phone, and I don't need a theme.
Tolerance is very important. There is no need to set utilitarian goals to convince yourself; I just hope that I don't miss the opportunity to be good to others because of some childish immaturity that exists in them for a short time. Loving someone is more important than anything else.
17, forget what you want to forget, remember what you want to remember and find what you need.
18. Maturity means knowing how to distinguish between black and white, accepting prosperity and hardship, and being brave enough to take on. There are still some hidden concerns. Courage and cowardice are combined. You are on the verge of desire, but you know your direction. You may make up your mind repeatedly, crying and laughing, being angry and grateful, and the noise will be quiet. ...
In life, some people are born for love. After listening to the eternal swan song of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, we can know that some people live for love. Look at us young people, more and more, will give up a relationship because of the pursuit of their own career.
You can't say that the people in front are stupid, and you don't have to complain that the people behind you are selfish and numb. In fact, they are unified.
The value of a thing, besides its use value, is endowed by its own values. What is trapped by love is the person who values friendship, and the latter is a pragmatic person. In fact, there are still some people, just like the book "chivalrous tenderness". Lu Xun also said that non-toxicity is not necessarily a gentleman, and now singers are beginning to sing "It is not a crime for men to cry." Wouldn't it be better to unify the advantages of the two kinds of people?
What will you choose to discuss "career and love" in the last class activity? The host asked me, and I said, "Choose love, because career is one person's business, and love is two people's business." Maybe my friends think I am still too sentimental. But I only said half of that sentence. What if love is a matter of two people and career is a matter of thousands of people? What would you choose? I am lost in wandering thoughts.
I suddenly realized that life and love are just two appearances, and the essence behind them is desire, but everyone's desire is different, so the way they are connected is different. Some people's desire is self-satisfaction, which is prone to problems. Among them, there is preference or love, and there is a search for marriage. And my wish is to know more about the world and beauty, so the combination of my life and love is another way. How to do it depends on your own practice. Looking forward to beauty is for love, and it is likely to focus on a certain aspect of love.
Look at your own value evaluation system, there are still too many moral and ethical things, which may be against idealism. But ideal and reality are only two choices, and there is no difference between good and bad. At this moment, I can only choose what I feel good at this moment.
Therefore, no matter what the world looks like, no matter how helpless people live in it. For example, I am a person living in wartime, I am in a state of war and hunger ... Anyway, the world is a beautiful tune in my heart. If we are born in it, we must love it because we are a part of the world. Why do we only love ourselves? Something terrible has happened, which is our own fault, or the fault of our kind. It's no use complaining ...
Life is important. But it doesn't matter if there is no hope, no freedom, no health. That kind of life is painful. China people say that life is worse than death; Liberals say: throw both when you have time!
If life is the most important thing, we will not praise the righteousness above family loyalty; We will not praise Wen Tianxiang and Yue Fei; We will not spit on Qin Gui and Jia Sidao; We wouldn't have stepped forward and died peacefully. I don't care about death, what I care about is that my death is unknown. It's worthless to die unknown. I measure the value of honest and dishonorable life.
Values: the compass of life
What kind of decision will lead to what kind of fate, and the key factor that dominates our different decisions is personal values. If a person wants to be a social leader, he must clearly know his own values and live according to them. ?
There is only one way to make extraordinary achievements. Find out what the most important values in our life are first, and then really live every moment according to these values. Every moment. ?
How to make a decision is a piece of cake when you know your most important life value; On the other hand, if you don't know what is most important to you, it is difficult to make a decision, which often becomes a painful torture. ?
If you want to live a happy life, you must live according to your highest values. Whenever you can conform to your own values, your heart will be filled with joy.
When we talk about something valuable, it means that it is important to us to some extent. When you like something, it means that it has a certain weight in your heart. In this chapter, I want to talk to you about the value of life, because these are the most important things in your life. Those valuable "things" in your values can be divided into two categories, one is essential and the other is instrumental. For example, I ask you, "What do you think is most important to you?" You may answer: "Family, money …" Like family, it is the essential value you pursue, because it can arouse your emotions. As for affection and money, they are instrumental values, and they are just a channel to help you realize this kind of emotion.
Many people go astray in life because they don't understand the difference between "substantial value" and "tool value", and often spend their energy on those tool values that they don't really want, so they suffer so much. Only substantial value can satisfy your mind, enrich your life and gain more. There are so many problems in our society today. The biggest reason is that people spend a lot of money every day and don't know what is really meaningful and valuable to them in life. No wonder they are still empty after getting what they want, sighing, "Is this life?"
Whether a person's life is happy or not ultimately depends on his outlook on life and values, that is, why to live, how to live, why to live and so on.
As an independent individual, people should have self, or personality, independent personality and personalized interests and behaviors.
As long as a person does something in life, he won't feel bored. The biggest reason for boredom is doing nothing, so we should try our best to enrich our life and make it more colorful.
Life is the real process of human life and the content of people's daily life; Life is people's subjective feeling of this real life process and people's subjective evaluation of life content. Therefore, everyone has a life first and then a life. Living is a matter of life, and how to live is a major event in life.
For life, we have the right to choose, we can choose and change the mediocre life.
First, set goals and work hard.
A famous person once said that "interest is the best teacher". Indeed, with interest, you have the motivation to learn and explore, and you have the direction of learning. So we should think before we plan for ourselves. Are you really interested in your chosen topic or research? If it is only because of parents' requirements or other reasons, it will affect their deeper and further development. On the contrary, if we sincerely love our chosen subject, then we will spend more energy to study it and get closer to success.
Just being interested is not enough. Besides, we need to set a long-term goal. In order to achieve our goal, we must learn to make more efforts and sweat. The writer said that diligence is a key to open the door to literature; Scientists say that diligence can make people smart; And politics
Economists say that diligence is the cornerstone of realizing ideals; The most precious diligence is not only physical diligence, but spiritual diligence. Diligence depends on perseverance and eternity. Those who stick it out are the real winners. We also need the courage to innovate: courage leads life. Courage is the spiritual strength to face challenges and never give up. People who lack courage will never realize their great ambition to pursue success, just like birds jumping in the grass for food, and they will never know why Kunpeng, who is cloudless in Wan Li, negative in the sky and soaring to Wan Li, will fight bravely in the sky. It is with these spirits that we can make continuous progress and succeed!
Second, establish a correct outlook on life and values.
With the development of market economy and the renewal of people's values, our value orientation tends to be diversified, and the relationship between righteousness and benefit, the conflict between personal values and social values, and the life values of college students become extremely complicated and contradictory. How to correctly position the values of life, improve oneself and establish a correct and positive outlook on life is even more important.
(A) establish a correct outlook on life
First of all, happiness is the goal of life. Pursue happiness-don't punish yourself for your mistakes. Don't punish others with your own mistakes. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. A person's life should be a constant accumulation of happiness to form happiness.
Secondly, choose a noble outlook on life. The outlook on life is optional. Different life choices determine different lives. Different choices show different attitudes towards life and different outlook on life.
Third, people should pursue noble character. Establish a positive, optimistic, kind and self-reliant attitude towards life.
(B) establish correct values
At present, Chinese college students are facing the most critical period of life development. The times require us to face and think about how to correctly handle a series of important issues such as the relationship between individuals and society in all aspects of study and life. We should learn to survive, learn to learn, learn to create and learn to contribute. These are the most basic and important qualities that we must have to face society and life in the future. Among them, I think the most important thing is to learn how to be a man and learn to be a person with sound personality that meets the needs of national prosperity and social progress and development; Learn to be a person who can correctly handle the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature and make them develop harmoniously; Be a person with ideals, morality and noble sentiments. In short, be a person who is beneficial to society, people and the country. This requires each of us college students to firmly establish a correct outlook on life from now on.
(3) The overall development of Germany.
The realization of one's value depends not only on one's knowledge, talent, opportunity and interpersonal relationship, but also on one's moral quality. I not only want to be a successful person, but also want to be a respected person. Of course, this respect is mutual. I think we should be filial to our parents, respect and care for our friends, respect our opponents and deal with emotional problems rationally in the future.
Third, we should have a good psychological quality.
As a successful person, in the face of complex society, all kinds of people should also have good psychological quality. Cultivate good taste, good personality, positive and correct outlook on life and values. The so-called cultivation of good interest is to actively participate in various activities and strive to cultivate interest in various activities; Learn to cultivate a good character, and cultivate a person with self-control, decisive personality, perseverance, good at learning from the surroundings, good at listening to opinions and overcoming shortcomings. Cultivate positive and correct values and outlook on life. Values and outlook on life are the core components of personality and the criteria for people to evaluate and choose various things and phenomena in real life. The determination and pursuit of college students' values and life goals greatly affect the direction and way of activities. Only by linking the trend of value with one's own success and lofty goals in life can we prevent the conflict between individualism and outlook on life.
Four, my life preliminary planning
In order to realize my ideal, I must cherish every minute from now on, overcome my bad habits and make my life more fulfilling. I made a preliminary plan: undergraduate stage (17-2 1), master stage (2 1-24) and doctoral stage (24-27). ...