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Learn to appreciate, in order to appreciate each other, in exchange for brilliant achievements and self-confidence. Holmes appreciates Watson's medical talent, and Watson appreciates Holmes' reasoning ability. They appreciated each other and solved many cases together. Singer Jay Chou was appreciated by Wu Zhongxian and got the chance to open the door to music success.
We should learn to appreciate. Holmes said, "Fools are stupid, but more stupid people applaud them." So, please don't deny yourself, and don't give up appreciating others just because they are stupid. I think, even the stupidest and worst people always have something to be appreciated by others! William Jeames once said: "The deepest need of human nature is to long for the appreciation of others." Indeed, everyone wants others to affirm and appreciate themselves.
Learn to appreciate, appreciate things don't have to have a dazzling appearance, don't have to have a dazzling talent, don't have to have a rich background, a moving word, a moving smile, a pure personality is enough. Appreciating others is not flattering, just relaxing and comforting others' hearts and letting others believe in themselves. Appreciation means not only appreciating others, but also learning to appreciate yourself, tap your own potential and discover your own advantages. Of course, this is not the same as conceit and arrogance. Appreciation means giving yourself more affirmation, courage and self-confidence, finding yourself hiding in a dark corner and taking it to a sunny courtyard. Appreciation is the expression of a person's open mind and Shu Lang's vision; It is also a manifestation of a person's keen intelligence and calm tolerance. Appreciation is the way to be a man. If you don't know how to appreciate and don't want to appreciate, people tend to be more critical and don't know how to appreciate; Ask more and care less. As a result, just like doctors treat patients, they persistently "diagnose" other people's shortcomings, faults and mistakes, so they treat each other coldly, criticize, satirize and even reprimand them. The ultimate bitter fruit is the loss of trust and affinity ... Everyone should learn to appreciate and know that "the deepest need of human nature is to yearn for the appreciation of others" (William? 6? 1 Jeames)。 And with the increase of experience, this "desire" will become deeper and fiercer. A smile you trust, an affirmative moment, an inspiring look and an encouraging word can dispel the shadow of inferiority accumulated in your heart, find back the long-lost precious self-esteem for others, correct the lost direction of value pursuit for others, awaken the long-forgotten potential and potential for others, and induce the germination of creative impulse in your heart for others. Appreciation lies in the adjustment of mentality. Appreciate growing up in free and harmonious air and growing up in kind eyes. Appreciate and abandon the psychological fetters of "grandfather" and "judge", listen to the simple and pure words in the depths of the soul with a peaceful and broad mind and a generous attitude, and capture the fleeting creative light. Appreciation lies in the transformation of angles. Everything has its own merits; Far and near, each has its own posture. People in things, its front may not be so beautiful, but its side may be a beautiful silhouette; Or its appearance is still immature, ugly, clumsy and stubborn shell, but its interior contains a mature, beautiful, novel and smart core. Why don't we look at it from another angle and think about it from another corner? Appreciation lies in the choice of standards. Beauty and ugliness, good and bad, good and bad, success and failure, right and wrong all exist in comparison. It is understandable to pursue sublimity and perfection, but it is doubtful to demand sublimity and perfection. Use God's standards to measure mortals, and use perfect standards to judge others. If you appreciate them, you will lose your home. As long as we correctly choose a suitable reference and even look at others with a little eye, things worth appreciating will come to us: flashing morality, wonderful wisdom, beautiful human feelings ... appreciation is not a one-way charity, but an active collision between wisdom and wisdom; Appreciation is not a cheap compliment with ulterior motives, but a fair recognition of a relative value: learn to appreciate, have a broader mind and a higher soul; With appreciation, the world will gain inexhaustible motivation to pursue truth, goodness and beauty. 2