Some people always treat strangers gently, but treat their lovers harshly. Why? In fact, this is a very common thing in our daily life, because we feel that people who love themselves will never leave us. Maybe it's also a sign of love. We are always gentle and patient with strangers, because we feel that the other person will not be with us forever, not only our lover, but also our family. Sometimes we shouldn't treat those who love us and care about ourselves like this, so don't let them be cold-hearted. Don't take this love for granted because the other person won't leave you. Don't give the worst to your lover or someone who loves you.

1. Be hard on your lover, perhaps because you think the other person will not leave you.

In daily life, we will find a very common phenomenon, that is, when we treat our lover, we are very grumpy and take each other's love for granted. Maybe we have been impatient, but we are gentle and considerate in front of strangers, which makes our lover feel very chilling. Maybe the other person will never leave him. That's what people do. They always don't cherish the love they get. Maybe they don't know the meaning of cherishing until they lose it, but many times it's too late.

Sometimes being harsh may be a kind of love.

Treating a lover is very harsh, probably because of love, because I am afraid that the other person will get along with others in the same way outside, and will be hated by others, and the requirements for the other person are always high. In daily life, we should learn to cherish the people around us who love us, because these people have no obligation to love themselves. Not many people in the world will be kind to themselves without asking for anything in return, and so will their families. We must be more patient and caring. The above is just Bian Xiao's personal opinion. Why do you think so many people in life?